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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by jamjam1991(m): 4:44pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Ah babe... Dnt dish d food oooooO... Me am single and searching,wen u guys are done devorsing, u can ask me out, ill #marryU Ah babe... Dnt dish d food oooooO... Me am single and searching,wen u guys are done devorsing, u can ask me out, ill #marryU Ah babe... Dnt dish d food oooooO... Me am single and searching,wen u guys are done devorsing, u can ask me out, ill #marryU |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 4:45pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: are you teachable at all? how old are you sef? Sarah had a large home to manage because her husband was wealthy, but does it stop her from reverencing her husband? was her husband her first priority or not? I ask again, how old are you? |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by raayah(f): 4:47pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by majamajic(m): 4:47pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Donariok: wake up........ its on FP 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 4:47pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
so women ehn, wats d big deal der na.abeg dis one no b mata joor |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by CSTR2: 4:50pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Empero1:Calling a man wretched over what he does in his own house shows how stupidd you are. Go and marry his wife and serve her ,since you hate being served. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by 6fit(f): 4:50pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: i wonder y junk like this is making FP? Ko kan aye now!! How does dis info affect people life? Soon u come to NL to tell us yur husband aid yu shuld use yur hand to open yur punna bfor he insert his joystick.....slowpoke |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by babygirlfl: 4:53pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
bukatyne: People will twist it in a way that the woman will be at fault. It's simple. There is food in front of the man and he refused to serve himself instead waiting for the busy wife to come and serve the food. It is not if you can serve your husband or any other scenario people are making up. Nobody said they could not serve their husband. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Adaeze003(f): 4:53pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
SmartMugu: In other words, if oyibos have no problem doing do it why SHOULD the Nigerian girls. I have no problem with your opinion but the comparison makes it look like "una no even be oyibo and una dey form" like they're better off or something. I might have interpreted wrong but... Truth be told, some blacks will always be slaves to white men... 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 4:54pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Na today? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by happney65: 4:55pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
The writer of that story is nothing but a Slave to her Husband..Hianaa..Dish food wey don dey already in front of you?And see the responses of her fellow women.Chai..Women are their own problem..The day i hear say my GF has more Female friends,na that day i go start to dey fear her..Rubbish 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 4:55pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
[quote author=raayah post=37579285 Men are not babies. [/quote] My dear, men are big babies. But wait o...how is this an issue sef, op? Ofcos you are to dish ur husband's food. Maybe you can make it easy on yourself by serving his food straight from the pot to his plate when he is ready to eat |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by CSTR2: 4:56pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
The woman should divorce the man if she finds it difficult serving. There is no big deal here. Someone else will serve the oga. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by raayah(f): 4:56pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
[quote author=Treasuredlove post=37600839][/quote] thats also an option. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 4:56pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
CSTR2: Thunder fire you there . It's only a fool like you and your ilks that demands servitude from women and men alike instead of living morally to earn their loyalty . Slowpoke ! Never you dare quote me again because your father in his right sense will not dare me least of you ... idiot . 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Hawlahscho(m): 4:56pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Donariok:OYA come and do. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 4:56pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Adaeze003: I hope it does just as it did for her..... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by peedeeasobie(m): 4:57pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: immature or whatever you call it, that's not your business. He didn't just start it. She knew that about him before marrying him, so there is no need to complain now. The fact she even brought it up makes her immature, This is her husband and not anybody else. This is her friend, her sweetheart, her lover, if she doesn't serve him always, who else will she serve? There are men that are trained in a particular way, the woman has known this about him, why is she complaining? She even came to the social media to talk about. what does she want to hear? Did she tell us the ones she does? her own excesses? her own tantrums? her own nagging? The fact is that this issue is too infinitesimal. Its not even an issue. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by 4C2215131: 4:57pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Again, thread softly. Let's try all we can to prevent things going south in our relationships and stuff. If it means being a 'mumu' to keep you and yours together, by all means be that mumu. At the end of the day, when the S@it hits the fan, those admonishing you to 'fight' for your right (and they are right mostly) may not be there to partake in the dance of death. I've come to understand that being practical is one of the ways to forge ahead in life and end up succeeding where others fail. It doesn't mean accepting all you see and being passive, it denotes being wise enough to read the situation and adapt as it deems fit. The compromise must be there. For instance, a man's body language may inform an attitude that cries out saying-"I demand total servitude from you", a stance that is out-rightly wrong. But if you fight out-rightly with the whole I-am-your-partner-not-a-slave philosophy, it may not work as practically nearly every man will reject this stance. So being wise, you will take a compromising stance to get your way. Men are just overgrown babies ALWAYS crying for their toys and attention. Give it to them and like I said before, you've got a full blown zombie to command at will but, remember to use with care as that zombie may become a flesh-eater someday, a not so god development. In a nutshell, in the never ending battle of the sexes, the woman may never come on top as the world has being configured that way . Skewed it may be setup wise and sad to say, but that's just the way it is. Pick your fights carefully, for your own peace, happiness and sanity sake. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by raayah(f): 4:57pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
CSTR2: abi oooh. The woman will also find a man who doesn't mind dishing his own food that is in front of him. life is easy |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 4:58pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Most of the replies here are funny...imagine calling a wifr slave because she serves her husband. Biko, how many of you are married sef? Or even of marriagable age? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Ngokafor(f): 4:58pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Adaeze003: ....My dear how do you 'try and talk' to a supposed adult to dish his food placed right in front of him instead of quarreling like a shrew and sulking like he apparantly loves to do.Is he a toddler?the man is sick upstairs and is tired of that marriage,trust me.. ..And the woman too is a case,why she wont simply dish his own portion of food on his prefered plate,cover and place it in front and then proceeds to do other things beats me..if she is smart she should cut out any elaborate setting of table or whatever and just dish his portion straight from the pot into his plate from the get-go. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by babygirlfl: 4:59pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Jahblessme: Intelligent piece as usual. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by CSTR2: 4:59pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706:Bringing chistianity into this argument make its ridiculous. Husband means Master. Sarah called her husband master. A christian woman should have no problem serving her husband. That is her God given role as a wife. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 5:00pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
raayah: congratulations and clap for yourself..... the great home builder... divorce is so easy to spew on NL.... |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Ijaya123: 5:01pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Reading through comments mostly from the females, it is of little surprise why marriages don't last any longer these days. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by whoisuche: 5:02pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
ElDeeVee: Don't mind girls of nowadays, During parents time, e.g our mother there is nothing like dishing out food after the food is prepared they put it in the bowl or plate and kneel down before the husband to serve him his meals. But women of this age copy western world, that's y we have so many troubles in marriages. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by caesar123j(m): 5:02pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: As a woman your husband's stomach is your first point of call and the password to his heart. Serving his food on the dining is not enough and can also be done by anybody. But not everybody, man or woman has the right to dish the food for him to eat. In fact in my own opinion, you should be happy and count yourself lucky to have a man like him as your husband. It shows how careful and discipline he is when it comes to things that are exclusive rights and obligations of a wife to a husband. Woman he is very right insisting you dish out the food for him to eat. Are you aware that some men do not eat without their wives either eating with them or sitting by them in the dining? Some also do not give a damn about it. I do not think this should be a thing of choice or a cumbersome task for any woman who values togetherness, my opinion anyway. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Bevista: 5:02pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:Even as a man, I could not disagree with any of the points you raised. The man is not making it easy for the woman. With such pettiness, I fear the woman may just be 'tolerating' the marriage and not 'enjoying' it. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 5:03pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
raayah: and let's see who hurts the most eventually..... |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Ilekeh(f): 5:03pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Had this incident with someone. Told me to serve him food. Walahi he's too afraid to ask me again. @all the desperate girls/wives tweeting "serve him", at the end of the day, if he wants to divorce you, he will. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by CSTR2: 5:04pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Empero1:You are a nitwit. I have no problem with the woman finding it hard to serve her husband. That is her own business as long as she can live with the consequences. But you calling a Man ''wretched'' because he wants his own wife to serve him food that he most likely provided with his own money is a very stupidd thing. Grow up son/ daughter. 2 Likes |
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