Stillfire:
Who are the mothers that keep on raising bastard sons like this?

I am capable of killing my son for demanding such from his wife. Them never born am well...

What a selfish, devilish and demonic idi.ot.

The character flaw here is beyond sickening.

....You are just stressing yourself for nothing my sis.

.The idioots are everywhere in this country divorcing over the most stvpid reasons so i guess another divorce is in the horizon over 'serve or not to serve food..clowns raised to infinity

sinizia:
OP, I'm a man and in this 21st century I'm telling you that, that man you described up there is an arrogant prick!! A controlling heartless dùmbfuck who treats you like a slave!!

What nonsense!! If you are not busy and he says you'd dish it out for him, that's okay; but if you are busy and tending to other issue and he insist you dish out for him before he eats, then he's a callous and wicked dùmbfuck!! I pity you. You are in a master-slave relationship!! This is 21st century not 18th century. Dish what?!! What will it cost him to scoop food from a plate? WTF?!! I pity some ladies for real. All my life as a teenager till now, my mom serves my dad (if we are not around to take the food to him and when we're too small to carry the foods to him) but never spoon-fed or dished it out for him and my dad never complained. Is he handless? NO!! So why will he complain that my mom didn't dish out the food to him? What kind of lazy, arrogant, proud pricks do we have these days as men?


And the ladies are the cause of all these. Imagine what the ladies in the FB pics attached are spewing. No iota of self-worth whatsoever!! Imagine one saying "lady if he wants you to spoon-feed him do it o before another lady do it for you." OMG!! Illiteracy and low self-esteem is an incurable disease!! These are the kind of women that would leave their cheating husbands to attack another lady for "snatching" their pussy-mongering husbands. SMH for dumb bytches!!

The good men are coming out finally. Thanks for this.

The fruits of d rubbish called feminism.

sinizia:


I dey tells you!! The man is arrogant Idíot!! Here's my reply on this thread.

see bunch of childish sympathizers.......from Christ sake what's the big deal about a wife serving her husband how he wants it? this excuse of 'busy' among this indomie girls is just too unfortunate. there are sincere cases of busy wives, but MOST we find today are mere excuses for laziness from this ladies.

pls, wives, do your husband well, so that he will do you well too.

am out.

Joy1706:
Please I will want to know the opinion of people.
My husband insists I dish his food. For instance, if I set the food on the table with plates and cutlery, he prefers I dish onto his plate, that it shows complete service.i think otherwise because I might be busy attending to other chores. This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him.

What are your views on this?
*culled from facebook*

If u can take like an hour and above to cook for him, is it just 2 mins to dish the food that's the problem? Chai!!!!! Women no get sense at all...fish brains everywhere.

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sinizia:
OP, I'm a man and in this 21st century I'm telling you that, that man you described up there is an arrogant prick!! A controlling heartless dùmbfuck who treats you like a slave!!
What nonsense!! If you are not busy and he says you'd dish it out for him, that's okay; but if you are busy and tending to other issue and he insist you dish out for him before he eats, then he's a callous and wicked dùmbfuck!! I pity you. You are in a master-slave relationship!! This is 21st century not 18th century. Dish what?!! What will it cost him to scoop food from a plate? WTF?!! I pity some ladies for real. All my life as a teenager till now, my mom serves my dad (if we are not around to take the food to him and when we're too small to carry the foods to him) but never spoon-fed or dished it out for him and my dad never complained. Is he handless? NO!! So why will he complain that my mom didn't dish out the food to him? What kind of lazy, arrogant, proud pricks do we have these days as men?
And the ladies are the cause of all these. Imagine what the ladies in the FB pics attached are spewing. No iota of self-worth whatsoever!! Imagine one saying "lady if he wants you to spoon-feed him do it o before another lady do it for you." OMG!! Illiteracy and low self-esteem is an incurable disease!! These are the kind of women that would leave their cheating husbands to attack another lady for "snatching" their pussy-mongering husbands. SMH for dumb bytches!!

Wicked and arrogant was the word I was looking for...very demonic traits. An antithesis of Christianity these demons would say they adhere to.
It is not until people fly on a broom in the night before they are witches and wizards.
Witches and wizards are living among you and I in the name of tradition.

Condoning glaring character flaws. Another BASTARDIZATION OF PATRIARCHY.

Funny. If u no what ur husband likes, y nt do it so long its nt sometin that will tak ur life or cut ur hand. What of men that wants their wives to carry bucket of water to d bathroom y they stroll after her? So its no big deal at all. That's no issue at all my dear.

cococandy:

As in.

Nwoke madu food dey your front. carry am put for your plate like a normal person, he refused.

Ngwanu madam dish it for him to avoid wahala, she's on Facebook making a fuss.

I think it's unnecessary bringing such a trivial matter to the social media. For me she didn't try but I'm surprised some people don't think there's something wrong with the man's behavior.

Even rejecting food because it was in front of you and not put on your plate? That's abnormal.
Why can't we just call a spade a spade.
His behavior isn't normal.

Ehm Nna what if he eventually scoops to his fill and latter the lady begins to nag that he took more and left little for her and her ward(if at all there is) to eat or he eats excess and start becoming fat leading to inability to play soccer matches in the bedroom.

Something i observed about this is that men love it. It was even this same strategy my Aunt used in healing her age old marriage that seems falling apart. What i noticed was that she never lets anyone serve or dish the food for her husband. Not even her children. And when doing this, theres always a smile on her face and stays by his side when eating even if they are not talking. Sometimes she at time eat with him. And now the fights and quarrels of yesterday has been forgotten like it never happened.

To all the women out there: Woman! Understand thy man!

i can see that some people will not leave this thread anytime from now.They are so bitter probably from their past experience that they think everybody sees life like them.Continue waiting for men of your dreams to come on this thread .Do whatever fit your house or marriage,every home is different.there is nothing wrong in serving your husband,nothing wrong and if you are busy simply let him know that you are but if he insist you need to check yourself very well for marrying such a beast.

Yes the man is a beast according to some here,so is the woman for being stuppid marrying such a fellow and coming to cry wolf.

Ngokafor:






....You are just stressing yourself for nothing my sis.

.The idioots are everywhere in this country divorcing over the most stvpid reasons so i guess another divorce is in the horizon over 'serve or not to serve food..clowns raised to infinity

This kind of entitlement is beyond my reasoning.
What kind of men are we unleashing into society?
What do these evil people take women (an adult human being) for?

There is something wrong if you cannot use your own hand to dish food for yourself on a table that is already set by your wife. You did not cook the food o, your wife cooked it...

Patriarchy keeps on killing itself with its excesses

Thank God though, lol

Like I said on another thread

Some guys think "man" is synonymous to "lil pig" or "slob" or "disabled"...

I do my best to stay away from such...

MY VIEWS?

*When a wife feels [b]enslaved and Inferior 'serving' her man then somt'n sidewrong

*He's not worth your service hence your rebellion.

Shikena[/b]

The woman is insecure, if she's sure of herself (education, career, in fact the whole package), when the man is done, he would realize the gem he has for a wife... Oh btw, I cook and clean my own kitchen, wth would I not be able to dish my own food my lovely wife took the time to cook? Ndi ara.

Your husband is a control freak.

Dey say a problem known is a problem solved. Since u are aware ur husband like to served food u shud do dat jelously. No need 4 social media cos dere are lot of divorced n unmaried ladies who will advice u in dia own opinions. Do d needful n b happy ever after.

Op, are you not ashamed of yourself for coming here to say that you do not see anything wrong with that.

Well, just to say that you do not have any proper home training from your mother.

raayah:
I personally don't mind dishing food for my husband but if I cannot do it because i'm busy. He should understand.

Men are not babies.
They should be able to plate their own food.
Its better because you will be able to access the amount of food you want instead of sending your wife up and down.

Since its marriage, communicate with your husband. Tell him you are not comfortable and suggest a better way of serving his food. I would suggest putting the food in a big dish while your husband serves himself from there.


It seems you already do this. You are doing all the housework and cooking meals for him and he is still asking for "complete service". I think you married a baby. If he is hungry, he will plate his food. I think there is a bigger issue in your marriage.

I doubt if you are married and if you are then better watch your husband very well cause...

sinizia:
OP, I'm a man and in this 21st century I'm telling you that, that man you described up there is an arrogant prick!! A controlling heartless dùmbfuck who treats you like a slave!!

What nonsense!! If you are not busy and he says you'd dish it out for him, that's okay; but if you are busy and tending to other issue and he insist you dish out for him before he eats, then he's a callous and wicked dùmbfuck!! I pity you. You are in a master-slave relationship!! This is 21st century not 18th century. Dish what?!! What will it cost him to scoop food from a plate? WTF?!! I pity some ladies for real. All my life as a teenager till now, my mom serves my dad (if we are not around to take the food to him and when we're too small to carry the foods to him) but never spoon-fed or dished it out for him and my dad never complained. Is he handless? NO!! So why will he complain that my mom didn't dish out the food to him? What kind of lazy, arrogant, proud pricks do we have these days as men?


And the ladies are the cause of all these. Imagine what the ladies in the FB pics attached are spewing. No iota of self-worth whatsoever!! Imagine one saying "lady if he wants you to spoon-feed him do it o before another lady do it for you." OMG!! Illiteracy and low self-esteem is an incurable disease!! These are the kind of women that would leave their cheating husbands to attack another lady for "snatching" their pussy-mongering husbands. SMH for dumb bytches!!

the point is some people or most peoples here do not understand what the op saying, they thought is about dishing out the food from pot not knowing fully well that the food is already served on the table just to take a smaller plate and take the food from the bigger one is the problem here, the man is so arrogant and foolish

babygirlfl:
Did I read it right? Are we talking about Oga dishing food that is in front of him?

It seems the wife is a housewife. I don't see the man asking the wife to dish food that is already served if she too was getting ready for work at the same time. It does not make Oga right but at least he will have an excuse.

From the fb replies, it is clear most women don't pamper their husband because they love and adore him but because they are scared another woman will take their place. Yet the said men still jump from one woman to another claiming men are polygamous. Just how these women live their life like that beats me. So sad.

If you get married am sure your views will change, I pity this generation...

madam abeg serve oga his food as he wants it serve! be wise! thank you! http://www.bummyla.com

cococandy:
Lmao.

ur mates are contributing meaningfully, u ar laughing ur ass out. .. . . talking of Nairaland babies

Joy1706:
Please I will want to know the opinion of people.
My husband insists I dish his food. For instance, if I set the food on the table with plates and cutlery, he prefers I dish onto his plate, that it shows complete service.i think otherwise because I might be busy attending to other chores. This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him.

What are your views on this?
*culled from facebook*

Women like this should be divorced ASAP.

You are either ready for marriage (and its responsibilities) or you are not.
What is the big deal in dishing food in a plate, if you could cook it and place it on the table?

Foolish women whining about nothing!



Lastpage!

Oga' oooooooooooo

raayah:
I personally don't mind dishing food for my husband but if I cannot do it because i'm busy. He should understand.

Men are not babies.
They should be able to plate their own food.
Its better because you will be able to access the amount of food you want instead of sending your wife up and down.

Since its marriage, communicate with your husband. Tell him you are not comfortable and suggest a better way of serving his food. I would suggest putting the food in a big dish while your husband serves himself from there.


It seems you already do this. You are doing all the housework and cooking meals for him and he is still asking for "complete service". I think you married a baby. If he is hungry, he will plate his food. I think there is a bigger issue in your marriage.

Dish it out, don't fight over small things.

babygirlfl:


The good men are coming out finally. Thanks for this.

If you think that "wife-wrapper" that is trying to be a woman pleaser at the expense of common sense is a "man", you are mistaken!

Just claiming "I am a man" or having a useless "ball" between your legs is not what makes you a man!

A real man goes all the way, responsibility, culture, provision, rights and all whatnots.

That clown up there is just too desperate to be a "woman-pleaser"


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Addition: if your husband wants food dished, then so be it!
create the time afterall, he will probably eat at home no more than twice in one day! (maximum time to be spent on that is no more than TWO MINUTES ... out of the 1,440 Minutes in every blessed day.
"Prioritise" and stop complaining .... otherwise, get a divorce!

otr1:
Busy doing what exactly?

Probably putting on make up.

chrisbaba1:
[size=13pt] My friend wants to divorce his wife and she doesnt even know it, he says if they have a slight argument, she keeps malice and wont cook his dinner after a long day at work, if he soaks his shirt and leaves for a business trip, the woman wont touch the clothes...... He wants to get a house help the woman says no, He was thinking about impregnating another girl outside to piss the wife off so bad she will leave his house...... All these modern women cause most of the problems they have, talking about equality, how about that nurturing heart God or nature has placed within you, the nurturing heart that every man naturally loves ?? Feminists (who are mostly heartbroken, bitter or lesbianwomen ) have deceived you.

Don't serve your husband o, he will find a young beautiful lady who will even put food in his mouth followed by a peck[/size]

Is this supposed to scare us? Mtchewwww

KingEli:
U cook food for am but u no fit dish am abi??.....congratulations.........he will find someone else who will dish n even spoon feed him.....mumu woman

Better sef. She can then find a man who'd tell her 'baby go put ur feet up. Lemme cook n bring the food to u in bed'.

Joy1706:

Is this supposed to scare us? Mtchewwww

"Facts" are meant to "INFORM" ....No one gets scared these days!

The man would marry a woman who can dish food and the women who cant dish can go marry that man up there who says "asking your wife to dish your food is wicked".

See, there is no compulsion in life anymore.
if you dont like the HEAT, GET OUT OF THE KITCHEN ......FAST!



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SonOfEl:


are you teachable at all?

how old are you sef?

Sarah had a large home to manage because her husband was wealthy, but does it stop her from reverencing her husband? was her husband her first priority or not?

I ask again, how old are you?

I hope you also noticed how Abraham respected and listened to his wife

6fit:



i wonder y junk like this is making FP? Ko kan aye now!! How does dis info affect people life? Soon u come to NL to tell us yur husband aid yu shuld use yur hand to open yur punna bfor he insert his joystick.....slowpoke

Come! Is there sand in your head? Do you have to comment? Rubbish