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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by sinizia: 12:34am On Sep 03, 2015 |
Kimoni: I can serve myself. I don't mind. I never said it's a must that she must serve me. If let's say she is busy or not around, i can go serve myself. But if she is not, then she serves me or put the food in plate and give our kids to bring for me. I do cook and serve my girl when she comes around. No big deal in it. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:34am On Sep 03, 2015 |
dinachi: Pray tell why a man would insist on his food to be served/dished at all times when his wife is busy with other important matters of the home If that is not foolish, unreasonable, daft, dumb and retarded. I don't know what else is 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:35am On Sep 03, 2015 |
I thought couples are meant to eat together sef 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by dinachi(m): 12:38am On Sep 03, 2015 |
oreos:Missed entirely! Just pray you dont get a divorce over a well prepared and delicious egusi soup not properly served! Only foolish,bigoted,shortsighted and idiotic women fail to understand that serving ones husband is an act of love, care and devotion to the man you love most. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by sinizia: 12:40am On Sep 03, 2015 |
oreos:I can't even believe she/he/it can't differenciate between "will" and "must". |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:43am On Sep 03, 2015 |
dinachi: Dumbasss, most marriages are not borne out of love. I hope you do not get your balls stifled and your eyes gouged out for selfishness and lack of respect Only a stupi.d, retard.ed, dumb, daft, shortsighted, foolish man would think that his wife's failure to serve/dish his food was borne out of lack of love and care and devotion. A man with even the lowest IQ would understand that his wife cannot afford to wait on him at all times. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by limamintruth: 12:51am On Sep 03, 2015 |
@op, I suspect the husband of the lady in your story is a yoruba man cos most Yoruba men still have this strong desire for their ancient traditional spousal domination kind of marriage requirements. And I bet the lady(complainant) was aware of the man's desires even before she got married to him. Hence I'd advise she does only what pleases him as proof of her true love for him. Shikenan! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by adesbreath: 12:52am On Sep 03, 2015 |
byvan03: Where in my post did I write what ifs...na wa oo just leave matter it's ok. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by raayah(f): 12:54am On Sep 03, 2015 |
dinachi: the problem is not about serving men. most women serve their husbands. the incident occurred while the woman was busy with chores. An understanding man will go ahead and serve himself or help out with the chores. everyone has different opinions and its very immature to insult people because their views oppose yours. your comment is the most disgusting comment in this thread. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:56am On Sep 03, 2015 |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by raayah(f): 12:57am On Sep 03, 2015 |
sinizia: Gbam! The woman was busy in this situation. I don't understand the arguments in this thread are for. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:58am On Sep 03, 2015 |
dinachi: I am not going to get married to a man with a two digits IQ so I won't and can't have a divorce over something so flimsy.: D |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by dinachi(m): 1:03am On Sep 03, 2015 |
raayah:You still missed it again. Nothing absolutely nothing should be more important than your husband. Those chores can wait until your husband is properly served. Any smart woman who loves and TRULY cherishes her husband will readily see this. Get it into your skull no chore is more important than your husband. This matter is as straightforward as they come. The woman in question completely erred. And when it is your husbands turn to do his due diligence no chore should stop him. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by raayah(f): 1:05am On Sep 03, 2015 |
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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by dinachi(m): 1:10am On Sep 03, 2015 |
oreos:You may not get married to any person at all with this bigoted, proud, untrained mentality showing a woman who is too full of herself to serve her husbands food. In this matter, you display a total lack of IQ. Women like you get divorced easily and roam the streets and nairaland blaming men, the world and God for their self inflicted misfortune. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:14am On Sep 03, 2015 |
dinachi: You may not get married to any one at all with this your dumb_, stupid_, retarde.d way of thinking. Men like you get divorced easily and lead miserable life. Men like you who are so full of themselves and who also think marriage defines a woman end up living a miserable life. You may not get a divorced but your children who definitely not give a fvck about whether you are dead or alive. Oh! If you are searching about women who can't do without blaming men, look in the mirror darling. That is your speciality. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by raayah(f): 1:17am On Sep 03, 2015 |
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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Stillfire: 1:18am On Sep 03, 2015 |
Joy1706: I mean it's not as if these male terrorists have amounted to being world powers with their excesses Instead they have created a backward and depressing society for their women and children. When it comes to woman, dem get power gokuu: most women encourage the behavior. most nigerian male cannot love until the woman is in her most vulnerable, subservient state, stripped of dignity and honor. Demonic love 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by dinachi(m): 1:19am On Sep 03, 2015 |
raayah:Pity your own miserable life full of bitterness before you think of the Angel that so readily complements my life. Enjoy your divorce occasioned by your foolish pride and unrestrained bitterness. Only a foolish women considers chores more important than their husbands. And I hope you wont mind when he has important chores with his secretary while ignoring you. Hope you wont mind when he ignores your requests and focuses on the important chore of watching his favorite football matches. Hope you wont mind when he ignores your request for money and focuses on the very important chore of driving to work. My dear prioritize your life. YOUR HUSBAND COMES FIRST AFTER GOD. So when it comes to serve him food unburden yourself from every chore and do the needful 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by dinachi(m): 1:27am On Sep 03, 2015 |
oreos:Sorry that bus has moved with beautiful kids. But you are free to continue in your foolish pride and die at shiloh calling for Gods intervention when you clock fifty years.Or you can open your dark heart now and learn. The choice is yours. A foolish woman pulls down her house with her hands while a wise woman builds her own house. The choice is yours between foolery and wisdom. And this matter is between married peeps, if marriage is not a priority for you may God grant your request and may you die single. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Stillfire: 1:29am On Sep 03, 2015 |
sinizia: I will not even mind at all serving this kind of person. God will give you a great wife that will love to do anything for you by her own self-will, not because you are demanding it or she feels threatened you will cheat. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:36am On Sep 03, 2015 |
dinachi: I came alone so why should it be a problem to die alone The beautiful kids will soon pluck out your eyes and rip out your heart with their indifference towards you. It is only a matter of time. Wait for it. A stupid_, retarded_, arrogant man pull down his home when he decides to put himself first instead of his home. They can choose to compromise for the home or have regrets in future. It is their choice to make. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by dinachi(m): 1:52am On Sep 03, 2015 |
oreos:Exactly the way you rips out the hearts and plucks out the eyes of your parents. This here is a clear pointer that you came out from a hate filled and bitter family. No wonder you do not see any man worthy of being properly served his food by his wife. Father issues! oreos:Perfect, as you wish yourself single may God grant your request. oreos:Another bigoted rant from a bitter,twisted woman who plucks out the eyes and rips out the hearts of her parents. Kpele oh! Who only sees arrogance in men who are well taken care of by their lovely wives! A joy oreos will never know as she moves about in nairaland blaming men and God for her self inflicted misfortunes. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Aude(f): 1:55am On Sep 03, 2015 |
babygirlfl: I agree with you 100%. Some women treat their husbands nicely not out of love but just because they don't want another woman to take their place. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bobkezel(m): 2:22am On Sep 03, 2015 |
You are now seeking advice from an external source huh? Pray your marriage don't crash when all these feminist and woman empowerment ish people brainwashes you. Go and take care of ur home. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by mikolo80: 3:20am On Sep 03, 2015 |
cococandy:if you no need your husband others do 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SmartMugu: 4:13am On Sep 03, 2015 |
oreos: I think women should be in charge of minor issues like this while men focus on the bigger issues. I'm a married man, and I'm so consumed with bigger issues. First is providing for everyone in my home. The issues I worry about are macro compared to what happens in the kitchen. I'm busy thinking about the best solutions to the war in Syria. I'm thinking about why the price of limestone dropped in the stock market and what that means to various economies in the world, why Mexico's tomato production declined Q2 2015 compared to analysts' expectations. Should I be the same person worried about spoons and kitchen affairs? |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by seanjy4konji: 4:14am On Sep 03, 2015 |
i was not suprised when i came in...I know its the thread you will find those 35 year old divorced feminist with a bitter life trying to find cute young girls to derail and go down the path they went with their unhappy feminist life that left them lonely and un happy... I fit even out TV insid kitchen for u make u deh sleep there.lol dont come here asking if you should dish him...if you like dont cook for him na... PS...even their oga is still on the thread after commenting hours ago...no be me say make ur life no deh happy oo.to deh try convince young girls about being feminist just show say u nor happy wit ur own life self. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SmartMugu: 4:17am On Sep 03, 2015 |
seanjy4konji:Don't mind them. Misery needs company. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by seanjy4konji: 4:18am On Sep 03, 2015 |
Yes boss...we met it on earth..person going down the drain always wanna pull someone along. SmartMugu: |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by MrsChima(f): 5:04am On Sep 03, 2015 |
I am against child marriages for obvious reasons. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 5:25am On Sep 03, 2015 |
SmartMugu: Wow! You are not smart. What does Mexico have to do with your home? What does those stupid things have to do with your personal activities? In fact, you should stop bathing sef or going yo work. Just wake up and start thinking about it. And to think you consider them macro, you are indeed not smart. You must be so daft to think all women do not worry about those issues or do you intend to marry a dummy? Whatever you do for the sake of your home is not macro nor micro. You are doing in it for the sake of your home same as your wife. Your wife resolve to cook and take care of the home do not make her role in the house micro infact you should be grateful to her because she is the one holding the family together. Where family is concerned. All hands should be on deck it does not matter whether or not she or you are the one doing it. It is your home Please always try to think smart. If you continue to think like this. You will never make it in life. 2 Likes |
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