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What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Ramos16(m): 8:38pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Ladies and gentlemen I brought up a topic among my friends today, and I got variety of interesting opinions, but I will still love to know what nairalanders think. In a family where the husband and wife have good jobs and earn well, what should happen to the salary of the wife? For ladies, what will you do with your salary? will you hand it over to your husband at the end of the month, so he can decide on the fate of the money? For Men, what do you expect from your wives? do you expect her to submit her salary, or use it for herself? |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Adeoba10(m): 8:41pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Dia salary serves as reservoir or backup Weneva dia husband z broke... (am talking abt d well trained wives). For instance, during dat famine period in osun state.... 3 Likes |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Mimiflourish(f): 8:47pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
In any home where there is trust, love and unity, I do not think there should be anything like his or her salary or money. I believe monies should be jointly owned, in a nutshell "our money''. There is nothing wrong with having a joint account where each of them can spend independently from. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Your wife's money can help the family when you're broke and cover minor financial problems. |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by MISSNORA(f): 8:48pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Not a wife yet |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Ramos16(m): 8:52pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
I believe it is a man's responsibility to provide for his wife, buy clothes, shoes for her etc. What happens to that responsibility when she is earning just as good as you are |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by zexzy(f): 8:54pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Her salary serves as plan B, in case of necessity to avoid stories that touches the heart. |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by LaurelP(m): 9:17pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Well, D man shud provide 4 d family with his own money but it doesn't mean dat the wife cannot do minor things in d house with her own money once in a while. she shud tell her husband exactly how much she earns and when she is paid she shud let d husband know. she shud always make her atm card available 2 her husband incase he needs 2 have access 2 her acct and above all, stress her readines 2 assist wheneva d man needs it. 1 Like |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Abi month ti hand e ni? Like someone said' his money is our money, my money is my money' |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by elantraceey(f): 9:53pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Her salary could cover up for miscellaneous expenses in the house and could act as backup in times of need . |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by AtomikEnergy: 10:03pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
o.p, how does your wife's salary concern u? Even if she earns one million dollars., a husband must not demand for a wife's salary unless she wants to give it to you. And to those who wives who give all your salary to your husband. Pls wise up, your husbands arent GOD. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by raumdeuter: 10:09pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
We share the bills in the house and whatever remains of her salary is her business I can offer suggestion on some investment opportunities but thats it I earn mine you earn your, we pay the bills jointly and whatever is left, the other person is free to use for whatever. if we have a joint project she also contribute to it 2 Likes |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Ramos16(m): 10:17pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
AtomikEnergy: hehe, you did not ask of my opinion na, I only placed the question so I see what people say, I experienced an issue and that is why am asking. |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by AtomikEnergy: 10:30pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Ramos16:hahaha okay, but thats my opinion., husbands shouldnt demand for the pay of their wives. If she decides to give part out willingly then thats fine. 2 Likes |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by debbie(f): 9:44am On Sep 04, 2015 |
First when you married her,she came in as a help-mate ![]() Remember there are some minor expenses she can handle without calling for your help.There are things she will want to buy for the family which you may not know about...that is for the wise women. There are times when the income wont be flowing as it should,she will step in to help. If you have kids,she might see things she wants to get for them and will go ahead to buy them.....it helps build her sense of responsibility and support to the family. This is for the women who care about their family. Remember she came from a family with parents ,siblings and relations....she may decide to support and help anyone of them when the need arises...it is from her salary she will do it. Now you know that the wives salary is also used for them home in general. 5 Likes |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Nobody: 11:20am On Sep 04, 2015 |
The money after marriage is placed together in a family account. They spend together so there is no "wife's" money or husbands money. Don't know about others Oo. But that's how it works with hubby and I. |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Ngokafor(f): 11:58am On Sep 04, 2015 |
LaurelP: ......This is serious..'she should' do this and 'she should' do that ![]() ....What are you?..a military commandant? ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by LaurelP(m): 12:22pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Ngokafor:read my comment again esp d first paragraph. or are u saying d woman shud be secretive with her money while d man makes his own available? |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Idydarling(f): 12:33pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
although am not yet married, I think the wife's salary should go for food and everything eatable for the month, while the hubby's salary can take care of other issues. 2 Likes |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Nobody: 12:43pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
No specific uses.. She should use it to support the running of the family whichever way it is needed. ... However, it's different for every family, couples should know what's best for them... 1 Like |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Kimoni: 1:41pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
debbie: Great post Debbie. Your opening post says it all. |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by jaybee3(m): 1:53pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
raumdeuter: GBAM |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Kimoni: 1:57pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
jaybee3: Lolllzzz |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by jaybee3(m): 2:09pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Kimoni: Na true na Only a regular man that's willing to break his back will play bruce almighty in western world. Single income can't/won't be far reaching in affording basic luxuries life has to offer! |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Stillfire: 2:15pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
In a family where the husband and wife have good jobs and earn well, what should happen to the salary of the wife? Some of these questions, lordddddd... Good jobs, earn well, both should contribute equally to the upkeep of the home. The man as well should equally be involved in home chores. The small maths we did in school is not for nothing. You know your total expenses, calculate what percentage each should bring from their salary and voila. 4 Likes |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Stillfire: 2:19pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
jaybee3: Absolutely. People need to wake up to our economic realities. 1 Like |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Kimoni: 2:22pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
jaybee3: Lol... @Bolded - makes the difference cuz the expectations from both sides are higher. However, I know quite a number of families still dependent on single income as the woman is concentrating fully on the home front. ***I'm sending the stuff shortly. Been battling with it, lost for ideas on how to package it ![]() |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by jaybee3(m): 2:29pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Kimoni: I swear down... I initially added that caveat of either parent employing a concentration of dedicated resource to otherwise alarming cost attached to parenting to my submission only to delete afterwards. Re - That stuff Do you reckon it's going to be before the 16th as i'm going to be off for a tad bit |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Kimoni: 2:33pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
jaybee3: Lolllzzz I got ya!!
Yeeeppaaarrriippaaa So what will you do with me naa? I'm def sending this weekend. |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Rukkydelta(f): 2:58pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
AtomikEnergy: supported 2 Likes |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by jaybee3(m): 3:11pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Kimoni: We will work something out |
Re: What Happens To Your Wife's Salary? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
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