I work in a technology firm where my colleague happens to be a female.. She's in her mid 20s, not too pretty but okay and goodlooking. Among all other staffs we both happens to be closer a bit that sometimes in our spare times we talk generally on relationships, love, heartbreak and all that..

Before those discussions kick starts something like a topic or an action relating to it has to take place.. So for the past one year + I have been working their with her, she's always telling me how Faithful and loyal she is to her boyfriend which happens to reside and work in other state within the south western part..

They talk on phone everyday at work and to some extent I do believe that these two are really in love and matured, even the fact she working, she told me her boyfriend even sends her allowance monthly..

And according to her they have been dating for 2 years+ and for the past 4-5 months they haven't seen.. This same lady got some toasters that do disturb her on phone and all that, in which lash them with harsh words and rejects them, her action in all makes me starts having a second thought of being faithful or even sticking with one girl.. I had a crush on her then,but due to this their lovey lovey lifestyle with the boyfriend, I decide to back off and keep my crush to myself instead of being rejected and all that..

Recently,earlier this week, our HRM sent for her,so she forgot her phone with me, usually she don't allow me to handle her phone,which was becoming obvious she's hiding something, not until she deletes or hides a particular chat or what then she can give me her phone to see her pictures.. So on this fateful day! On Tuesday to be precise, she forgot her phone with me,so I decided to go through her pics, fortunately I found one of my pics she took me with her phone,I decide to send the pics to mine phone via whatsapp, as I was about to do that, I discovered our MDs chats with her that she ended with "Love You Too" my curiosity increases which I opened to read..

What I saw was beyond my imagination, I didn't still believe what I saw.. From the whole conversation I can deduce that they have been sexing eachother and all that.. Early in the morning,she goes to the MDs office for quickie and all that.. I was shirt of words if this is really her or who.. Till this moment it seems I'm dreaming cos I never believed this girl can ever cheat on her guy.. I'm scared of Ladies! I'm scared of commitment, I'm scared of relationship! Right now I can't even put my trust on any lady! Ladies of these days are Something Else for Real!

MYOB

Aproko na your first name

You have no right to go through someone else's phone dingbat

I know I got no righ to do that! But it was an eye opener man!

jaybee3:
MYOB

Aproko na your first name

You have no right to go through someone else's phone dingbat

Dts a lesson for you. D only tin is if ur going to learn frm dx. Not all ladies re lyk dx BUT a lot nd I mean a lot re promiscous. Dts d way evrytin is nw. Funny enof am sure ur so called MD has a wife n kids @ home YET dx lady does nt care. Later wen Karma happens to her wen she is married she starts cmin to Nairaland crying her eyes out. Dts y wen I see som of their complains I jst tell mysef dt dx is Anoda story for the gods. Rubbish!!!

Amebo

And not all ladies are unfaithful.
We fear men too

xertyy:
I know I got no righ to do that! But it was an eye opener man!

Eye opener because you naively thought cheating is restricted to us men?

Were you in any way considering dating this girl cos I honestly don't understand why you would have gone through her phone without her consent. That's just an invasion of privacy

Lol! I decided to kept mute for a while but I really wanted to know what prompt ladies of these days not to stick on one Deek instead of flirting around.. My association with her has reduced

FruityLass:
Amebo

And not all ladies are unfaithful.
We fear men too

Are we talking about why I checked her phone or why she's cheating with our oga?? Let's leave A and talk B which is the main issue..

jaybee3:


Eye opener because you naively thought cheating is restricted to us men?

Where you in any way considering dating this girl cos I honestly don't understand why you would have gone through her phone without her consent. That's just an invasion of privacy

and what do we do with this info now? Is it to inform or educate or entertain us? Or you want advice?

abi u self wan enta set?

Well the truth is we men actually think we cheat more than the women but in reality the reverse is the case never believe the words of a woman completely,they can change at any second...

I had crush on her na!

mymissingrib:
abi u self wan enta set?

Lalasticlala biko

My brother, until you marry a lady, never take her faithful and all that especially in a long distance r/ship..

Love is so overrated

.

in other words... what do you actually want us to do

I want you to stop cheating on your real boyfriend.. Keep your private part private.. Oshey! Thanks!

prettyjo:
in other words...
what do you actually want us to do

so? what's ur own?

xertyy:
I want you to stop cheating on your real boyfriend.. Keep your private part private.. Oshey! Thanks!

quite funny...
I piry you

Ur a man who luvs gossip & invasion of privacy... Somehow, I can't see past that to understand your worries here..

I still don't get the reason for this thread though. .. your colleague is having sex with your MD, ok so what should we do .

Ok if you see dat as an invasion no problem! And if u also don't see anything to worry about on this story no wahala! I pray may your boyfriend do same thing this girl is doing to her boyfriend! Say AMEN to that pls?

Creamish:
Ur a man who luvs gossip & invasion of privacy... Somehow, I can't see past that to understand your worries here..

xertyy:
Ok if you dat invasion no problem! And if u also don't see anything to worry about on this story no wahala! I pray may your boyfriend do same thing this girl is doing to her boyfriend! Say AMEN to that pls?

Kids...


smh..

Lool! That's one issue with you people! Everyone in here is a kid or aint upto your taste or something! I feel for you! Meet me real life,I wll take care of your bills till you touch 6ft below!

Creamish:



Kids...


smh..

I don't even understand some of them! They will leave the issue at hg all saint and Nice! Hypocrites everywhere! Who hvnt invade someone privacy before or checked ones messages one way or the other! The major issue is that this girl is a cheat,pretender,liar etc! Let's hit on that but instead they are busy judging me on why I checked her chats! Smh! Nigerians tho!

naijaboiy:
Amebo or not what the Op just described is an eye opener joor!

Which of you will say curiosity has not led you to check up on people and even invade their privacy.

Me I don't even know again...if I have a girl I will just be enjoying the moment and try not to bother about anything she's doing. it's going to be difficult but i'll just try to put my mind that way.

No time to be going through heart breaks and all that shiiit.

xertyy:
Lool! That's one issue with you people! Everyone in here is a kid or aint upto your taste or something! I feel for you! Meet me real life,I wll take care of your bills till you touch 6ft below!

U can make that your new ambition cos clearly, uv got none.

Ok! Thanks dawg! Lol! Pls kip ur tin private and stop using it to make money!

Creamish:


U can make that your new ambition cos clearly, uv got none.

Lalasticlala ishilove seun mods! Happy New month!

xertyy:
Ok! Thanks dawg! Lol! Pls kip ur tin private and stop using it to make money!

Seems ur out to ensure every dumb comment u make outdumbs the last one..


Have fun.