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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 8:58am On Sep 06, 2015 |
TaoBalinga: Wow! Why don't you seek therapy? Trying being calm. Do not act or take in haste. Dedicate more time to it. Know that You can do it. Start a journal to monitor yourself, ask for her and your family's help while you are it, You will need feedbacks of your every actions. Take criticisms in good faith. Your journal should include your actions and the consequences (What the other person thought of you and how he/she felt including they uttered) Believe that is fixable with time. Change the way you think. Always doubt yourself, try to second guess your opinions and actions- think about others while you at it. This is self-reflection (however be careful so that it does not generate to something else) It is a serious issue, a relationship killer. You need to put in your best to fix it 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by SmartMugu: 9:01am On Sep 06, 2015 |
enambobo:I think she's just a kid seeking online attention. Unfortunately I don't see how to block her here yet. I no really get time for her childish talks. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by SonOfEl(m): 9:20am On Sep 06, 2015 |
oreos: my dear, in marriage, both parties belong to each other. in marriage, you don't consider what 'I want', but rather what 'we need'. if you consider this, then all instances you have given will not come into play, if it does, it will be wholly addressed. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 9:29am On Sep 06, 2015 |
SonOfEl: ![]() ![]() ![]() What we need would come first and should be given priority but what I want is also important. If you focus on what you need every time, you will be unhappy and miserable. It is much worse if you are in a situation where you know it should not be a problem but due to factors beyond your control, they are. It is not going to be an easy task. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by SonOfEl(m): 9:29am On Sep 06, 2015 |
TaoBalinga: sir, try hard to discipline your desire for control. it happens to most men, so you are not alone in this. sometimes to be a better leader, YOU MUST EMPOWER OTHERS. So my brother, empower her...make her responsible too in making decisions that concerns you both. two heads in planning and decision making are better than one. trust me. fully handle only areas where you KNOW she is not capable of handling... she will even acknowledge you for that. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by SonOfEl(m): 9:36am On Sep 06, 2015 |
oreos: the kind of man you have determines it all my dear. you might have a rich but stingy man, or an average but considerate man, or an average yet inconsiderate man, or a rich and considerate man. but remember, your home and marriage comes FIRST before personal desires. work it out with your man dear. and be patient with him too. because at the end of the day, if circumstances leaves you empty handed, he MUST cater for your needs. what if he also insists on what hr wants? dear, just work wirht your hubby to a compromise. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by butanep(m): 9:38am On Sep 06, 2015 |
castro316: Please educate me on the differences... From my understanding about knowledge & wisdom. One is what you derived from earthy materials such as books and the other which is wisdom is divine. I.e infused into a man's life by God. Those with wisdom in the bible were never poor or below average. King Solomon is a key example of a man with wisdom. He was the richest and most influential man during his time. The wise men that went to see Jesus went with Gold, frankincense & myrrh. You should know how expensive these stones were during the early days. It shows they were living very fine. Don't come here to contradict things. Your knowledge and wisdom is measure on the achievements you have made through it. The bottom line is to marry a woman you can control both financially and emotionally. No matter your wisdom, money is the key language that speak. If you can't control a woman, then you become her remote control. Ask your dad if he is still alive. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Terenceike(m): 9:46am On Sep 06, 2015 |
YourMain:my dear your laughter makes it seem l I e a dreadful adventure to embark on |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Terenceike(m): 9:47am On Sep 06, 2015 |
YourMain:my dear your laughter makes it seem l I e a dreadful adventure to embark on |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Toks2008(m): 9:47am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Midehi: Its not about true love and i wonder why some guys are mentally insecure? Maybe its because im an entrepreneur because if my wife happens to be richer then its an opportunity for me to even surpass her as i will gladly get a loan grant from her and invest in worthwhile businesses and then starts taking my place as the man in the home. So logical. I guess guys with salary and Job mentality will feel insecure. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by erusen: 9:53am On Sep 06, 2015 |
na dat one I even prefer |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 9:55am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Terenceike: Lol no I'm laughing cause of how fragile the male ego is. Is it a bad thing to be intelligent or rich ? 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Favolly(f): 10:10am On Sep 06, 2015 |
columbus007: ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by adorable29(f): 10:26am On Sep 06, 2015 |
SonOfEl: You know wetin dey! 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by ireneidiva(f): 10:35am On Sep 06, 2015 |
[quote author=mekonglobal post=37720256][/quote] Are they complaining to you? Pray tell me, how will he feed his family? By begging? Pls he should get any little thing to do before thinking of marriage. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by ireneidiva(f): 10:37am On Sep 06, 2015 |
refreshrate:Pls. Someone who is jobless should look for something to do anyhow little to do before thinking of marriage. How is he going to feed his family? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by paschenko(m): 10:53am On Sep 06, 2015 |
There is nothing as attractive as an independent woman. It challenges u to do well. 2 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Norenal(f): 11:02am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:lol' U is wicked |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:09am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Norenal:Swiri, it's that I don't lie all the time ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Norenal(f): 11:10am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:12am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Norenal:Can I ask a private question? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Norenal(f): 11:13am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:sure |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:15am On Sep 06, 2015 |
SonOfEl: Well, it is going involve a lot of sacrifices on both sides. Most women will not have a problem if their husband drives Cadillac or correct them in public ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:20am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Norenal(f): 11:21am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:lol' its simple Don't cheat on me ni |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:25am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Norenal: It's a reminder that I've not done that yet! So, don't wear that in the presence af your boifriend u hear?- That should do for a Sunday sermon ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Norenal(f): 11:26am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:lOooOl.... I see |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:28am On Sep 06, 2015 |
sure i can.
but she wl be humble. . . ![]() #YOLO |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:30am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Norenal:I thought you would lambaste me when I was asking u that question lol |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Norenal(f): 11:37am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:laughs' why?? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:43am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Norenal:Nairaland is a preety dangerous place y'know |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Norenal(f): 11:44am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:U're d 1st person telln me this tho |
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