ahnie:
Another assault this morning.he woke me up sayin he's famish,that he needs food.i told him,please i'm tired,sinc i seldomly sleep in the nyt because of our child..that z 2months and some weeks.i pleaded with him to go to the kitchen,sinc there z food,to serve himself.he refused and went to the parlour to sit.meanwhile,zino was stil cryin.he started usin negative words on me,tellin me that since the arrival of zino,i no longer wake up early to prepare food for him.

Pls b patient dear sis, I undastand ur stance. The truth is most of our men don't get it, we women r angels to them, irrespective of wat u go thru,u r not suppose to b tired. Pls b strong, God wil help u. E hug

Happy sunday

ahnie:
I told him to be please bear with me.and the negative verbal insult continued.i went into the kitchen to bring his meal and kept it on the dinning,without answerin him.i pack some clothes for laundry,and he was carryin zino.i went and took the child from him to breastfeed her,and he came after me like a lion,askin me who did i keep the food for.i didnt answer him.he held my strands and bend my neck.forcefully took zino from me and kept her insid the livin room.i try to run away for safety,but he was faster than me.he caught up with me,and was ready to hit me.meanwhile i can hear zino cryin.i started cryin and out of fright and fear i wee-wee on my self and fell down.all i could think of @that time was my child.he was shocked and he started pleadin on he went to the restroom to bring the mop and cleaned the mess.i had to shower and tend to zino,who was cryin loudly.he's 46,i'm 25.

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Surprised

Its well

@Ahnei,what i wil tel u is this is a tryn time it wil pass away.ask God 4 wisdom

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Deezou hmm ma sis I'm still waiting o! no sign yet. when iz ur edd?

Jennifer89:
Deezou hmm ma sis I'm still waiting o! no sign yet. when iz ur edd?

Me i think am doing it gradually,cos am having menstrual-like cramps over a period of like 10 days.my edd is 14th.

firsttymum:
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Sent ma'am.

@ahnie, my prayers are with you, remain strong in the Lord. Kisses to zino.

Deezou ok the menstural like cramp is the sign ryt? hmm i felt it for two hours last Tuesday only for it to stop. mine is 9th Tomorrow is ma next ANC. u need to see the way i walk now lol

@Ahnie...Don't really know what to say but my prayers are with you.


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tyconcepts:


Sent ma'am.

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@ahnie, pls try to b strong at least for ur baby. Also b very prayerful cos there's no one God cannot change. Also mk d adjustments u need to mk on ur part.I don't kno how close u re to ur mum bt I think u shld mention it to her o. Once battering enters into a rlship, don't just keep it ur itself.

My dear sister ahnie, pls do not despair, be strong. I pray God sees u thru, but u have to help God help u.
U see, our men are very egotistic in nature, I see u are deltan, I don't know if ur husband is too, if Yes, then u shud know Delta men are full of ego.(den also considering ur age difference )
When u served his meal, u shud have told him softly his food was on d table, to avoid all d wahala, because ignoring or keeping a man quiet deflates his ego, not all men can control themselves u know.
u know ur man beta, is he a serve ursef /kitchen kind of man? If it's not something he is used to doing, den he might conclude u are being disrespectful.
Pls u have to love ursef and avoid reoccurence, whenever u see he's in d mood for a fight, try to be nice, even if u boil inside be calm, d storm will pass.
Pls find a way to balance motherhood and wifely duties, God will give u d wisdom and strength.
Just thought I chip in d fllw Bible verses -
Proverbs 18:6 Fools get into constant quarrels; they are asking for a beating.
20:3 -Avoiding a fight is a mark of honor; only fools insist on quarreling
22:10-Throw out the mocker, and fighting, quarrels, and insults will disappear.
Forgive me if I have spoken out of point

joilin:


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Done.

@ahnie - I strongly suspect your husband is frustrated at something - might be his job or finances and he is taking out the frustration on you or he is actually jealous of the attention you are showering on your baby and he is feeling left out, or he is just an over pampered man.

Whatever the issue is, you are in a very vulnerable position right now and you don't want to get yourself victimized over what can be avoided.

For the sake of your baby, pls take things very easy and be strategic about the problem. Sometimes in life, you have to play the fool to achieve a certain objective. The objective now is that you don't want to be his punching bag and you want to be alive and happy enough for your baby.

So pls, give him the baby when you need to do any house chores, he won't say no to that. Prepare his meal and serve him if that is what he wants. Try and rest when your baby is sleeping and if he won't mind, give him the baby when you need to rest. Pls do everything within your power to avoid his trouble.. And hopefully, he will have a rethink.

But if peradventure, he doesn't change and things get worse, pls don't keep things to yourself. Confide in any elderly person you trust. As much as it's not advisable to involve 3rd parties, truth is that we are only human and sometimes, we need a shoulder(s) to lean on. No man or woman is an island.

This is just a phase, it will soon pass away. **hugz**

Congrats dear.
Well done.


All this story of horrible pain is scary sha. Why don't you guys ask for epidural?

missmalachi:
Bs
My wonderful family, how una dey?‎
Since we all knw I passed my due date wc ws 28 august. I went 4 acn on thur as usual nd wen I met d doctor n told him I noticed in d morning my pant was wet without me going to wee.he examine me n said my my amniotic fluid is leaking n dat they will hv 2 admit me n dat ws how they took my file to delivery section. On getting der d doctor examin me n said they hv 2 induce me.
           That is how they inserted a tube in my virginal ooo n dey told me one d balloon drop I shld let them knw.so I started walking up n down d whole section n started feeling pain @ my abdomen.b4 I knew it,i throw up n d pain stopped.i told d nurses dat am nt feeling any pain n she said I shld nt worry dat d pain wil come.
            I now started chatting DH since it ws hs break period n I came 2 update people on nl.i ws formin sexy thinkin d whole tin is not as hard as people say it.finally d balloon fell.
      The nurse now told me to go n lie down n d nxt tin dey brought a tube n inserted it in my anus oooo n did some abrakadabra n told me 2 stand n walk around 4 10min n go 2 toilet n poo.that its 2 avoid pooing during labor.afte walkin n goin 2 poo I felt so calm n empty but still feeling sexy.

      Finally they asked me to go n lie down on d bed n pass drip on me n in less than 10 min contraction started wit 5min interval n I ws ask 2 lie on my side.d pain ws 4rm oda world.
        I couldn't shout cos I hv read it wont help mata so I turn d pain 2 d wall of d delivery room.i almost broke der wall.( I have never spoken in tongues this lengthy lik I did yday). I ws praying n speaking d word to myself that it wil end in praise. Wen ever dey come 2 check me,it was lik war.after being in labour 4 2hrs 15min I called one of d nurses n told her I want to poo n she said she checked me in less than an hour n I ws 4cm n dat as a ftm I wil go through labor minimum of 8hrs.i called her after 5min again that I wnt 2 poo n wen I started screaming she now came 2 check me n ws surprised I ws fully dilated.b4 dey could convert d bed 2 delivery one I started pushing cos my baby's head ws out already n my 2nd pushing brought forth d body.
       My baby came out weighing 3.4kg

Sorry am an accountant n not good wit narrative easy

Why are some men so selfish? You have a two month old baby and don't sleep at night for staying awake to take care of him and his concern is that you don't wake up on time to give him breakfast? tufiakwa.
This kind of nonsense pisses me off to no end.

Pls ahnie if you're in danger of violence, find somewhere safe to go. I can't in good conscience tell you grind and bear and pray about it.

From twisting your neck it will enter hitting your head against the wall.

Go somewhere safe if you're so scared of him to the extent that you piss yourself in his rage.

What a horrifying ordeal.

tyconcepts:

Done.

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I hv really mix a lot, I dnt know where to start
@ helovesme & @ missmalachi congrat. may God keep ur babies nd make dm object of praise to ur homes nd tbeir generation.

Jennifer89:
Deezou ok the menstural like cramp is the sign ryt? hmm i felt it for two hours last Tuesday only for it to stop. mine is 9th Tomorrow is ma next ANC. u need to see the way i walk now lol

Lol,but u r d 1 who needs 2 see d way i walk,may God make it easy 4 us all.

congrats missmalachi on the birth of ur princess, God bless her..

US scan keep moving my EDD backward

tyconcepts:


Done.

Thanks a million times

Mama's please raise ur voices towards heaven on behalf of my mum's best friends daughter in law (her name is Beauty) and her baby, she had an emergency preterm CS yesterday due to high bp at 7 months, she's still being monitored and not transferred to d Ward yet, baby in incubator, docs say she's strong. It shall end in praise for them and everyone here. Amen

iyomomo:
Mama's please raise ur voices towards heaven on behalf of my mum's best friends daughter in law (her name is Beauty) and her baby, she had an emergency preterm CS yesterday due to high bp at 7 months, she's still being monitored and not transferred to d Ward yet, baby in incubator, docs say she's strong. It shall end in praise for them and everyone here. Amen

It shall end in praise 4 d family, no eyes of d enemy or evil one shall see dem. Baby will be strong and shall not develop any problem, mother will live 2 testify and 2 declare God's work. Amen. It shall be well with dem

iyomomo:
Mama's please raise ur voices towards heaven on behalf of my mum's best friends daughter in law (her name is Beauty) and her baby, she had an emergency preterm CS yesterday due to high bp at 7 months, she's still being monitored and not transferred to d Ward yet, baby in incubator, docs say she's strong. It shall end in praise for them and everyone here. Amen

I join my faith with yours and every other person saying, It will end in praise. Amen.

senoreetah:
congrats missmalachi on the birth of ur princess, God bless her..

US scan keep moving my EDD backward, at 6 weeks it was 16/03/15, 10+2 it was 14/03/15 did another yesterday 12/03/15...and I got to see my baby yesterday for d first time with dh, he( with faith) was just moving his leg and hands up and down not allowing the dr show us more details...God see all belleful mamas through and meet us at d point of our needs

This got me laughing hard, maybe you should try Jamaican scan

Don't worry naa, your baby must done one day and show face.