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6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 6:41pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Equality is a big problem among both sexes today. There is a common saying these days that "what a man can do a woman can do better" and it is no longer news that finding a perfect partner is impossible but as impossible as it is, some people still like to say they have found a perfect partner. Its not because they have really found a perfect man or woman but one who fits in perfectly. Understanding is what makes a person fit in perfectly but it is rather sad to see some guys getting heart broken for their nice and cool attitudes. Some girls think its their right to have a nice guy around them but the truth is, rather than feel it its your right, just be grateful you have a great guy. Whereas some girls pray for a good guy, others take the guys they have for granted. Some attitudes in guys which girls take for granted include: 1. GENEROSITY - In this context, generosity is in terms of finances. Simply because he is generous enough to spend doesn't make it your right. Lots of girls are quick to abuse this gesture taking it as a sole entitlement. Some guys have the cash but will never spend it on a girl. So if a guy spends on you, don't take it as an opportunity to open an office or extort him. Learn to say thank you because the fact is, a guy gives because he wants to not because he has to. There's nowhere its written where a guy has to be financially responsible for you because he's dating you. 2. GENTILITY - A guy who treats you like a queen should be seen as a king. Simply because he's calm, polite, courteous doesn't mean he can't be bad or rude. Its really sad to see some ladies tarnishing the image of a guy they claim to love simply because he treats them with courtesy. A lot of simple, calm, polite guys are often taken as maga, they seem to be seen as weak when in actual sense they are the real men who know what it is to take care of a woman. 3. LIGHT HEARTED & PLAYFUL - Loving a guy who plays like you are both in primary school is to be desired. Dating a tyrant or a bossy guy is in itself bondage. That a guy plays with you a lot isn't enough to disrespect him irrespective of the age difference. Some guys enjoy having their girlfriends as play mates. This doesn't mean he's immature or probably childish but when you treat him like a child, disrespect or take him for granted because he's always in a cheerful mood and has a good heart, the essence of having a friend is defeated. There should always be a line irrespective of how free and playful a guy is with you. 4. PATIENCE - Most ladies take patient guys as fools, feel they can ride on them, mistreat them and even give a nonchalant attitude. Patience is a virtue. It takes a great man to know the value of patience and understand how it works. Its difficult to find people who are really patient today. Don't think that because he is patient you can keep been the unbearable girl and he'll keep coming back. There is always so much a person can take. So when you have a guy who is patient with you, its not a reason to keep pushing him. 5. SINCERITY & OPENNESS - That he keeps you in the known isn't weakness. That he tells you everything isn't stupidity. That you know everything about him isn't your power.... A lot of ladies see this as weakness in as much as others crave for guys who keep no secret. He's not telling you things so you know when to use his weakness against him rather he confides in you out of trust. Don't make him look any more weak than he already accepted to you. Don't go about sharing his story, don't give him a biography of his weaknesses every time you have a fight. Be his safe place, a shoulder to always rest on. 6. LOVE - It is a common saying that " when a girl knows how you feel she will take advantage of you". This is rather alarming. In thus generation where love seem like a mirage it is surprising that some girls would still find a guy who genuinely loves them but would over do things turning him into their toy or a maga or even their last option. True love is hard to encounter but never turn a love so pure into darkness. Our attitude towards people also affects the choices we make in life. It is that little thing that makes a big difference. 25 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:42pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Ladies, take note. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by kossyablaze(m): 6:45pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
I tire 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Cutehector(m): 6:47pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Ehen... This is what I am talkn about ooooooo 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Phinagold(f): 6:48pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Then be the opposite |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by ronald4lif(m): 6:49pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Nicely written. Headquarter's material. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Drinkwater(m): 6:52pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Nice but nothing outta the unusual 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by falconey(m): 6:52pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
them no go hear, they just love taking advantage of our good nature. 8 Likes |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by ArchEnemy(m): 6:56pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
falconey: It's just a pity that when you do the right things sometimes, you ll be taken as a dunce 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 6:57pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Some are true |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by cruxty(m): 7:00pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Nice open op... these girls be treating good guys like expired pracetamol...... 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by carzola(m): 7:05pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
guys please wake up.... we are still in Nigeria... take it easy with the dreams... Nigerian guys dont possess those attitudes.. hence we would not have the amount of sexual assults, etc.... and also guys beating up their girls. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by kadas01(m): 7:08pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Lola Ogedengbe took 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 and 6 for granted big time! Now she is married, and I hope she wouldn't take her husband for "granted"! Women are very "complicated beings"!! Always very difficult to please them! 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by mascot87(m): 7:08pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
This is exactly what my babe is doing to me right now. I don't know how I can't be in a relationship without been too nice, it's just my nature & I keep getting hurt by heart breaks from these unappreciative girls. I'm dumping this girl right now cos I can't take this shit Any way, there is an adage for all these pretty girls which is "l am beautiful is all that she knows" 4 Likes |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Peachess(f): 7:25pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
okay |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by donholy28(m): 7:30pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Girls re stupiid...once a guy buys her something or gives her money out of his own free will dem go think say dem don chop am. 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by zinachidi(m): 7:38pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
one of those few threads in romance section that are actually worth reading and commenting on.. Nice one OP.,, u must be a very good girlfriend. 3 Likes |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by hensben(m): 7:51pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Hmm.. 2 Likes
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Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by rollindollar(m): 8:53pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
nice one op 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 9:02pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
rollindollar:thanks |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by rollindollar(m): 9:42pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva:you're welcome...am pretty sure, d guilty one's wil sn bombard, the thread to spew trash lyk they usually do... |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Hazardd(m): 10:12pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Blizzyblinkzy:which one are you guilt of? |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by potolistic(m): 10:38pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Ah l0ve dz thread 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by angelofurlife: 10:39pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Eniqurl(f): 10:44pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
True tho |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by MsBliss(f): 10:46pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
I pray 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Bosville(m): 10:59pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
That no 5 is the most rampant of them all.....most ladies will mistake ur gentility for stupidity nd prey on ur emotions at any desired time...if to say na heart human beign take dey think/reason many people for don commit suicide taytay. 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:18am On Sep 08, 2015 |
Cutehector:what are you talking about? |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:19am On Sep 08, 2015 |
MsBliss:fast join |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:19am On Sep 08, 2015 |
potolistic: |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:20am On Sep 08, 2015 |
rollindollar:you can say that again |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:21am On Sep 08, 2015 |
zinachidi:thanks |
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