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| Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by joeacatara: 1:59pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Am 24 years old and still single for over a 18 months now, i broke up with my girlfriend earlier last year and since then my social life crumbled, all my efforts on getting another girlfriend had been failing,am a graduate,run a small business which is booming and am very comfortable i have my own car.but the problem is that am very bad waking up to a lady because am a very shy guy I believe getting a girlfriend should be easier especially for me because am tall,muscular and light in completion and financially ok but getting a girlfriend is difficult ,due to this situation my starvation for sex has become high to an extent that i think of is sleeping with any girl that comes my way, the highest intimacy with them is just kissing and smooching after them is either they loose interest in me or the other way round. After all the fail attempt to get a girlfriend and months without sex (close to year now) i decided to go for another alternative which is prostitute,after all no need of wooing or going to cinemas,buying ice cream even late nite calls thus all they are after is money they dont need all that.So last month went to a club house hooked up with prostitute of my choice,she agreed on overnight then we headed straight to my apartment around 1am,around 1;30 started smooching not sex i was very relieved that at last, but to my greatest surprise my hard penis went down (relaxed) when we were about to have sex,the girl told me to relaxed my self about 30 min which i did, soon my penis was charged again and when we were about to do it same time happen,on the long run we did nothing,i paid in morning and she left Deep down i know am not an impotent so 2days later i decided to get another prostitute and same thing happened. Right now am very worried not because of sex but i felt have been marked(cursed by some1) please i need a candid advice am not trying to impress any girl (with car or other thing)but its becoming worse day by day fantasizing on any girl that comes my way imagining having sex with them. that is my story please i need a candid advice, no insult pls,and please forgive me of my spelling mistakes or blunder thank you 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by donholy28(m): 2:05pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Your not normal...you have poor self esteem and inferiority complex...cure yourself 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by misspicy(f): 2:06pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
joeacatara:Now after reading tru this got me,why do u af dis feeling,af u eva wronged any girl? If you af not,then your case is psychological,you just af to stop thinking about sex and relax....with tym u will be alryt 3 Likes |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by dharay99: 2:10pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
too long 4mi to read. Nexxxxxxx†.... |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by kiddkash(m): 2:10pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
probably not but normal is boring |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by xamuel17(m): 2:12pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
visit the synagogue. or rather try the opposite sex |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Nobody: 2:13pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Op go see a doctor.... |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by somez(m): 2:14pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Follow that qrostitutes advice... " relax"... 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Nobody: 2:32pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Why not try visiting a doctor? It could be that you only need advice. |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Luckymay(f): 2:34pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Go see a sex therapist. U also need to relax one of the reasons ur *thing* fails is cos u re having performance anxiety. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by markidoo(m): 2:42pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Hw often do you masturbate? 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by funlord(m): 3:11pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
 Na dis kind of nonsense threads dey make me regret why my ban ended today! Rubbish 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Ephemmm: 3:19pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
joeacatara: It the prostitute did not use don't climb on you (magun), it is high time you concentrate on drinking much of condensed chocolate, not too ripe plantain, deep sleep and light yoga exercise. If the situation persist, consult your doctor: my opinion though. |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Mcbussy(m): 3:41pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
joeacatara: Dude there is nothing wrong with you. Naturally, people feel depressed when lonely, especially when they're used to having someone. About the problem of maintaining an erection, I think it's just ur mind playing tricks on you. The fact that what u need is love and not just contract sex is one reason, then ur conscience is another. Finally, if sleeping with a pro is sumthn new to you, that might also be the reason. Just try to cheer up. Do the things u enjoy doing, get to do some other things that divert ur attention from sex and loneliness, and try to go out when ur free. U'll realise that with time, u'll meet sum1 special and everything else would fall into place. 4 Likes |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by SkinnyDude(m): 5:11pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
probably over masturbatiion or anxiety.... 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Nobody: 5:29pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
funlord:whats useless about the thread  |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by SpeedyConnect(m): 5:33pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Most ED issues are related to cardiovascular disorder o. Because the penile arteries are tiny and blood should be enough for you to have ere.ction
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| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by yilly(f): 6:31pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
my frnd, sex is nt evrythng. U can do wtout it for nw. Remove it n replace it wt anoda thoughts or thngs in ur mind. U'll get a gal too wen d time comes. U are nt impotent, its ur joystick dats simply tellng u dat he doesnt feel like entering an over used pothole! Mk ur bible ur new companion. U'll b fine.... 3 Likes |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by hottest111: 6:40pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
It's well bro... 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by TheGeneral1(m): 6:59pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
See a doctor! |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Imoy(m): 7:25pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
yilly: Over used pothole? Lol 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by AK481(m): 8:01pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Read this! You are suffering from pshchologically induced erectile dysfunction,which is caused by excessive use of porn and or. Masturbation. You need a rebooth,stay off porn,masturbation.the sad news is that it could take months or years to re_wire urself and infused the neccessary dopamine u ve lost. A child always eating chicken and fried rice will lost appetite wen presented garri without sugar,porn are like fried rice,they are heavilly edited and not real.the real situation is like garri without sugar. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by UnknownT: 8:16pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Maybe your spiritual wife has started manifesting making the girls to lose interest even with you been comfortable and also the reason your dick keeps going flaccid when its time to do the work. Let me call on Bro. Lastchild to throw more light to this your problem |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by gulfer: 8:44pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Is your girlfriend from Benin  , RIP to your libido for other punas. Take my advise, go back to her.........  |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by sparkleice(f): 9:00pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
joeacatara:u are vry ok js dt u ave to stay focus,and s a ur mind set & too much anxiety |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by smarttm: 9:52pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Your first problem is PRIDE...girls hates men that are proud.... U ONLY LIKE ROMANCE N NOT HAVING IT WIT UR JOYSTICK... MAYBE U LIKE SELF SERVICING.... IF U ARE NT IN D MOOD U CAN NEVER MAKE LOVE...I DON'T CALLED IT SEX OR Bleep ... |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Thavik(m): 11:22pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Brings back memories |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Thavik(m): 11:24pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
joeacatara: Bro you're perfectly normal. This same thing has happened to me You need to check a few things 1. Masturbate a lot? Cos your brain becomes conditioned to porn to achieve and keep an erec,,tion. 2. Take painkillers? Alcohol or narcotics? Cos your neural pathways become suppressed 3. Do you feel less like a man? Cos it could be psychological , you feel the need to fvck the prostitute hard, so u feel the need to impress or Not having sex in a while has reduced your self confidence I doubt you You are impotent, you need to stop these things for a while and u'll be alright If it's psychological u need to relax next time u have sexxx, don't feel the need to impress Bro you're perfectly normal. This same thing has happened to me You need to check a few things 1. Masturbate a lot? Cos your brain becomes conditioned to porn to achieve and keep an erec,,tion. 2. Take painkillers? Alcohol or narcotics? Cos your neural pathways become suppressed 3. Do you feel less like a man? Cos it could be psychological , you feel the need to fvck the prostitute hard, so u feel the need to impress When it happened to me, it was caused by painkillers , it happened the first time, second time, I started to feel impotent , and them it became psycological It took me less than a week to rewrite my thinking , trust me, if it's pain killers u'll be alright in a few days Too much masturbation? U need to stop beating meat for a while, and u'll be fine Psycological, only you can treat it mind |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Nicepoker(m): 11:48pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
if ur equipment cant function anymore sell it on olx and order for another copy on jumia |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Nobody: 1:46am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Broda u need to free ur self - ur self from sexual insecurity....... My advice look for the most beautiful, sexy n no nonsense lady around n make it ur obligation to woo her, don't worry about her refusing ur advances, because that will boast ur interpersonal - female relationship skills.  |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by lovely17(m): 1:53am On Sep 09, 2015 |
donholy28:very well said |
| Re: Please Help Me (am I Normal?)+18 by Nobody: 2:44am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Hmm ... Op be using style style advertise himself and people are too wise to realize ... Op, well done ehn , sharp guy from Mars! Your head dey there no be small  Oya wey dz girlz wey nid huzband |
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