In my 200 level in uniben, I attended a burial of a classmates younger sister at new benin cemetary, when the gal was abt to be lowered the coffin was opened for all to see her for the last time,behold wetin I see pass my eyes, the once beautiful gal that always sends my di*ck gallivanting around my boxer was nothing to write my small one room self contain hostel abt not to talk of writing home abt, the once light in complexion gal became as dark as the sole of my shoe, wth her eyes bulging out and greenish mucuous runnin out of the side of her mouth, as we all saw it, one gal cried out frm the back saying oooooh angela is this how u just left u didn't even wait to get married b4 dying, and dis gal was in 100L she didn't even talk abt graduation I was very pissed if not because we were at the cemetary, I will have asked why of all places she chose a cemetary to show how backward her reasoning has become over the years, further more, before women get married they groom themselves not to look fat,but when they get married they jus throw caution to the wind, a woman who is known for putting on hot bum shorts will now resort to tieing wrapper as if she wants to dance in new yam festival, a lot of them will stop chasing their carrer as soon as they give birth, dis as made me assume that all women wait for is marriage after that na death remain wey dem go dey look forward to and dis is very shameful of them, the once who manage to make headway if u carry out a research u'll see dat it's either they're divorced or their husband is dead, women pls step ur game up,

Part of Africa mentality that is dragging us backward thinking we must be married before we can be certified " Responsible ".

#1 To spike there friends.
#2 Them wan belong to the i get husband association
#3 cultural reason.
#4 lazyness cos some of them see it as a way of living a better life most expecially the ones from poor background.
#5 loneliness most girls are afraid of being lonely.
#6 conji na bastard , marriage give them steady fuckingsim if that is even a word


The guy above me dey hurry ooo

thank God u said the girl that shouted was still in 100L then, shows she may still be a kid..
that doesn't mean marriage is the highest fulfilment for ALL women!

bye!

madridguy:
Part of Africa mentality that is dragging us backward thinking we must be married before we can be certified " Responsible ".

infact the thing ehn, the tin tire me o

Africanpride:
#1 To spike there friends.
#2 Them wan belong to the i get husband association
#3 cultural reason.
#4 lazyness cos some of them see it as a way of living a better life most expecially the ones from poor background.
#5 loneliness most girls are afraid of being lonely.
#6 conji na bastard , marriage give them steady fuckingsim if that is even a word


The guy above me dey hurry ooo

no be lie o, even hussiaine bolt dey learn work for where the guy dey

lekjons:
thank God u said the girl that shouted was still in 100L then, shows she may still be a kid..
that doesn't mean marriage is the highest fulfilment for ALL women!

bye!

I said the gal who died not the gal who shouted

Yes ooooo, you see our sisters at times go extra miles just to satisfy their family members, friends nagging on them " Won't you bring home your husband. " When are you giving me grandchild. " All your mate don marry finish " and other frustrating statement. Above all, make God help us, poverty no good.

jonaifame22:
infact the thing ehn, the tin tire me o

jonaifame22:
no be lie o, even hussiaine bolt dey learn work for where the guy dey

You know every every guy.

madridguy:
Yes ooooo, you see our sisters at times go extra miles just to satisfy their family members, friends nagging on them " Won't you bring home your husband. " When are you giving me grandchild. " All your mate don marry finish " and other frustrating statement. Above all, make God help us, poverty no good.

chai

African mentality.

Pressures from family and friends.

Imagine a mother telling her daughter of 19 yrs to go get married cos when she was @ her age the parents has been disturbing her to get married.

Blizzyblinkzy:
African mentality.

Pressures from family and friends.

Imagine a mother telling her daughter of 19 yrs to go get married cos when she was @ her age the parents has been disturbing her to get married.

but even at that, pressure from family shouldn't make a lady stop pursuing her career, after marriage, if the woman eventually pursues her career and succeed her husband and the world at large will respect her

Hmmmmmmmm...

Jollyjoy:
Hmmmmmmmm...

wetin?

WAT MAKES DEM A WOMAN IF DEY DONT THINK DAT WAY

adedayourt:
WAT MAKES DEM A WOMAN IF DEY DONT THINK DAT WAY

chai

jonaifame22:
chai

deris god

adedayourt:

deris god

continue

because they are 'MISS' and sombdy must find dem or else they they will b missing all their Life

oluseyiforjesus:
because they are 'MISS' and sombdy must find dem or else they they will b missing all their Life

I guess so

its an african mentality...no matter how successful you are,you are not complete till you are married and have a family of your own.
in the ideal world every adult should aspire to get married...but we dnt live in an ideal world

datyrone:
its an african mentality...no matter how successful you are,you are not complete till you are married and have a family of your own.
in the ideal world every adult should aspire to get married...but we dnt live in an ideal world

african mentality indeed.