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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by machi25(f): 4:03pm On Sep 12, 2015
quoteauthor=Omotayor123 post=37931561] They said guys go into relationships for sex And intimacy(How True) ... Why then do ladies go into relationships Especially those that will tell you they are not ready for marriage.


A friend told me courtship is a scam and fraud. He said if I guy tells you " I want to court you" it's tantamount to saying "I want to sex you" And I agreed with him on that as I have seen a marriage that didn't last six months after 10 years of courtship And a Marriage of no courtship that lasts for Eternity.!

I realized *from personal survey* that :

90%of ladies have boyfriends for monetary/financial benefits *imagine a girl telling her boyfriend "You can't be sexing me for free* (how's she different from a prostitute).
And they tend to dump the guy sorry as$ should he default in meeting up with their demand. And move on to the next victim.

What happened to Being self Independent

8% of ladies have boyfriend for sex. *Imagine a single lady coming to social media to lament about how she's being sex starved. (lipsrsealed) when does pre marital sex become a necessity undecided

What happened to Abstinence till Marriage
The irony of all these is that most ladies actually don't care much about the money thing rather they care more about how much the guy loves them, appreciate,respect and how far the Guy can go for their sake. Mind you money plans a role as well bcoz without it, love gets frustrating cool
2% of ladies have boyfriend for support. They need someone they can talk to and share things with.

Which category Did you Belong



P. S. I stand to be corrected. No bashing or derailing please.
Let us Interact in a Mature Manner.
. [/color][/quote. The irony of all these is that most ladies actually don't care much about the money thing rather they care more about how much the guy loves them, appreciate,respect and how far the Guy can go for their sake. Mind you money play's an important role as well bcoz without it, love gets frustrating cool
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(f): 4:04pm On Sep 12, 2015
Blossom023:
Personally I think its best to wait till marriage.. Yh some girls don't date for money but look ...

You're dating a guy, you love with literally all of you ND then something happens... You break up, then another one comes, it ends... Another one.. It ends. Lets leave the sex part.

After all the guys you have dated, you still end up with one or you don't even end up at all. That's why most of you girls walk around with broken hearts. The bible says, garison your heart for out of it flows the issues of life.

Before you know, you find your husband but his friends have all had you., does it mke sense?
Nice contribution.

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by jericco1(m): 4:04pm On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
How come na only boys full dis place,dis thread is meant for the ladies not those guys down there.. Shuooo.

You haven't even contributed anything... Shite
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Mhizkel(f): 4:04pm On Sep 12, 2015
danbrowndmf:
Come give an answer
Mhizkel Sassybae Cherryice
I've got no boyfriendsad
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
I seriously think most ladies have b.fs cos of the companionship,the care,love, attention and what have yhu,not necessarily for the gain......most times when the afore mention reasons are lacking,the affair no doubt turn boring and tiring,that is why even when a lady is dating an extremely wealthy guy,she wouldnt still feel contented or satisfied...why? Becos that companionship, and mutual frndship is nt there....







So to those guys thinking,ladies engage in the dating world cos of the gain,stop that weird mentality,she can only come in for the gain if yhu force her or turn a pest.
Speak for yourself.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(f): 4:05pm On Sep 12, 2015
bulldoza:
@ the pix you posted, CHILDREN
Lol
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Sep 12, 2015
Omotayor123:

Nice contribution.
Tnk u
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by FANE4Naija: 4:06pm On Sep 12, 2015
FruityLass:
90% for money?

8% for sex?

2% for support?

What kinda olosho survey is this.


So there are no hardworking, selfdepedent and career driven ladies.

Ok


LOL. They're the 8 per cent
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Sep 12, 2015
dancok:
I want to date u.am serious
how old are you?




You sound so childish.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Sep 12, 2015
hottest111:

See eh,, weda u lyk am or not ,God must bless u 4 dis post..
I always tell my guys dat u don't need money to attract a girl.
guys,, abeg help me na,, no be only me go dey enjoy those babes
sori but you sound so dry.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(f): 4:14pm On Sep 12, 2015
dancok:
I want to date u.am serious
shocked because I won't ask for money grin tongue
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(f): 4:15pm On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
how old are you?



You sound so childish.
grin wink
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(f): 4:22pm On Sep 12, 2015
machi25:
quoteauthor=Omotayor123 post=37931561] They said guys go into relationships for sex And intimacy(How True) ... Why then do ladies go into relationships Especially those that will tell you they are not ready for marriage.


A friend told me courtship is a scam and fraud. He said if I guy tells you " I want to court you" it's tantamount to saying "I want to sex you" And I agreed with him on that as I have seen a marriage that didn't last six months after 10 years of courtship And a Marriage of no courtship that lasts for Eternity.!

I realized *from personal survey* that :

90%of ladies have boyfriends for monetary/financial benefits *imagine a girl telling her boyfriend "You can't be sexing me for free* (how's she different from a prostitute).
And they tend to dump the guy sorry as$ should he default in meeting up with their demand. And move on to the next victim.

What happened to Being self Independent

8% of ladies have boyfriend for sex. *Imagine a single lady coming to social media to lament about how she's being sex starved. (lipsrsealed) when does pre marital sex become a necessity undecided

What happened to Abstinence till Marriage
The irony of all these is that most ladies actually don't care much about the money thing rather they care more about how much the guy loves them, appreciate,respect and how far the Guy can go for their sake. Mind you money plans a role as well bcoz without it, love gets frustrating cool
2% of ladies have boyfriend for support. They need someone they can talk to and share things with.

Which category Did you Belong



P. S. I stand to be corrected. No bashing or derailing please.
Let us Interact in a Mature Manner.
. [/color][/quote. The irony of all these is that most ladies actually don't care much about the money thing rather they care more about how much the guy loves them, appreciate,respect and how far the Guy can go for their sake. Mind you money play's an important role as well bcoz without it, love gets frustrating cool
You get the drill...
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 4:30pm On Sep 12, 2015
Krystalzkris:
no thanks
lol no p
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 4:31pm On Sep 12, 2015
EggovinMma:


You no like money? tongue
my point be say una no dey gree
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by hottest111: 4:35pm On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
sori but you sound so dry.
Jolly,, stop disturbing me.. I'm married wit 2 kids tongue

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by vikkeee(m): 4:38pm On Sep 12, 2015
What happened to people having their personal opinion?....
Have a boyfriend if want to, dont have one if u dont want to. PERIOD
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by christinie(f): 4:39pm On Sep 12, 2015
Some of us don't need boyfriends because we got something much more than that.



Crack your brains.


Sulk it.




Deal with it.



Kapish!
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by janefrancisca(f): 5:20pm On Sep 12, 2015
danbrowndmf:
your mind fit don change b4 then
How do you mean?
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by haryomikun(m): 5:26pm On Sep 12, 2015
Av come to learn over the years that those who say 'sexing' are virgins or newbies in straffing... The OP must be one of those undecided


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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 5:26pm On Sep 12, 2015
Mhizkel:

I've got no boyfriendsad
sometimes I mistake u for satan himself,cus the way u manufacture ur lies ts second to none
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 5:27pm On Sep 12, 2015
janefrancisca:
How do you mean?
Janefracisa that's ur real name?
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Adesiji77: 5:30pm On Sep 12, 2015
Aminat508:
Egbon mi, sebi na your footstep i dey follow grin

If I hear... cheesy

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by janefrancisca(f): 5:31pm On Sep 12, 2015
danbrowndmf:
Janefracisa that's ur real name?
yeah
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Tex42(m): 5:31pm On Sep 12, 2015
Omotayor123:

It was the 2% I mentioned. Maybe I under rate it though..
OK, I see the 2% now, wasn't elaborate though...

Yeah, u underrated the 2% category. There are many ladies in Naija today who fall under this category, as a matter of fact, all the girls I've been with fall under the 2% category, they ask for nothing but may time and attention. I give to them out of my own volition and sometimes, they turn my gifts down, saying it's not necessary.

Abeg give our naija babes more credit by upping the 2% biko
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by danbrowndmf(m): 5:32pm On Sep 12, 2015
janefrancisca:
yeah
cool.haven't seen u here b4,ur new here?
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Aminat508(f): 5:32pm On Sep 12, 2015
Adesiji77:


If I hear... cheesy

YES nah. Sebi eyin noni cool tongue

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(f): 5:37pm On Sep 12, 2015
Tex42:
OK, I see the 2% now, wasn't elaborate though...

Yeah, u underrated the 2% category. There are many ladies in Naija today who fall under this category, as a matter of fact, all the girls I've been with fall under the 2% category, they ask for nothing but may time and attention. I give to them out of my own volition and sometimes, they turn my gifts down, saying it's not necessary.

Abeg give our naija babes more credit by upping to 2% biko
The ladies you dated or the ones you friend zone
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Tex42(m): 5:43pm On Sep 12, 2015
Omotayor123:

The ladies you dated or the ones you friend zone
Will be frank with u;some I dated, some I friend zoned. Lol!
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by wristbangle: 5:46pm On Sep 12, 2015
Omotayor123:
They said guys go into relationships for sex And intimacy(How True) ... Why then do ladies go into relationships Especially those that will tell you they are not ready for marriage.


A friend told me courtship is a scam and fraud. He said if I guy tells you " I want to court you" it's tantamount to saying "I want to sex you" And I agreed with him on that as I have seen a marriage that didn't last six months after 10 years of courtship And a Marriage of no courtship that lasts for Eternity.!

I realized *from personal survey* that :

90%of ladies have boyfriends for monetary/financial benefits *imagine a girl telling her boyfriend "You can't be sexing me for free* (how's she different from a prostitute).
And they tend to dump the guy sorry as$ should he default in meeting up with their demand. And move on to the next victim.

What happened to Being self Independent

8% of ladies have boyfriend for sex. *Imagine a single lady coming to social media to lament about how she's being sex starved. (lipsrsealed) when does pre marital sex become a necessity undecided

What happened to Abstinence till Marriage

2% of ladies have boyfriend for support. They need someone they can talk to and share things with.

Which category Did you Belong



P. S. I stand to be corrected. No bashing or derailing please.
Let us Interact in a Mature Manner.
. [/color]

Tayo, I cannot but aired my opinion that your write up is one of the BEST I have read this year. Weldone young lady.

You have critically analysed it so it's up to the ladies in the house to speak.

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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(f): 5:48pm On Sep 12, 2015
Tex42:
Will be frank with u;some I dated, some I friend zoned. Lol!
Nice one..

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