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Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by honeygirl17: 7:53pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
pcguru1:Too early for house help 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by JustCalMeDBoss(m): 7:53pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Shior 27 yrs old man dey marry I neva see am bfor oo |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 8:04pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
honeygirl17: so the husband should cook for the wife full-time, househelp is the best option if she's not interested in cooking for the husband. it's a win-win |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by malaria(f): 8:16pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Poster pls tell the man to take a little trip down to O' twn, by the time owerri girls rescue the man, no be pesin go tell d babe make she even begin cook 7 times a day. Mtsheewm married woman my big foot. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jetjacky(m): 8:26pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Omotayor123:real life or nairaland style? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jetjacky(m): 8:28pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
malaria:you day work for that area?? 4 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jetjacky(m): 8:30pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:lol e fut b... or d wife dey form shakara 4 kitchen |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by cococandy(f): 8:39pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Since he can cook and cooks better, plus he has a more flexible job, why is he making his life more difficult by insisting she cooks because he's the man? See as people make their lives difficult because they want to live by the dictates of the society. He should cook when he can and when he can't let her know he can't. I won't totally blame the wife. If she been the type that used to do all that before marriage and the changed after marriage, then I'd blame her. Everyone should endeavor to marry those who share their views on marriage. Not marry them and try to bend them into what you feel they should be. Recipe for friction. For all the guy knows, she may have married him because of his skills in the kitchen. That's why you don't marry someone and hope they change overnight. What they need is compromise. Both of them should meet each other half way. Since the wife is here as you said, I suggest she stops dragging her feet because he's always doing it. She should sit up and try too. Nobody appreciates being left to do it all. She should stop taking it for granted. 22 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by 4stylz: 8:57pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Tell your friend to divorce her before it get worse, girls can pretend until you marry them; As for me, I don't have problem with divorce, it's just like a normal breakup for me" no time.. girls are everywhere 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 8:57pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
cococandy: They should just get an house help and save themselves the stress. not sure why that wasn't the alternative 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by 4stylz: 8:59pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
cococandy: You think we are in America? If you are looking for does things you see in Hollywood movies, you can as well travel there and get married to an American This is Africa; development nor dey reach that level, women must do the cooking over here 25 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Ishilove: 8:59pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
martyns303:Hian. Nothing wey we no go see for this marriage matter. 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Ishilove: 9:01pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
GboyegaD:Are you married? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by chigoizie7(m): 9:02pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Harmonyemerald: Keep on deceiving the gullible minds, thinking u are doing them a big favor. For the wife to even tell their friend that "he has been doing it b4, why complaining now"? According to OP, it somewhat means that d guy does cook in the house often, even more than the wife, and when d guy kinda asks her to come cook, she will be like, hian, "haven't u been cooking all these while"? It will be understandable to point out that the gal always cooks, but the husband do help out or cook @times. But certainly not more than the wife. As a child,we were thought the work of mother/wives and then that of father/husband. Don't try to switch roles here. So, while d hubby be cooking, wetin d wife go come de do? because,it is certain that d guy does almost all d cooking. I know u want to be civil, but, my dear, if we want to preserve our culture and be who we want to be and represent, then certain things must be done in an uncivilized way/manner. We all know how our parents do flog or beat us black and blue those years, "the act was uncivil". But almost all of us are glad today because d steps our parents toed(uncivil) in bringing us up, really got d best of us. Assume the hubby cheated on her a couple of times while they were courting, would she had told him to go ahead and cheat, after all he has been cheating? The truth is dat she is running away from her duties as a wife and den covering it up with such statements which is very selfish. I mean, why d fuk did I marry in d 1st place? If na fuk? I can get it,married or not. If na fud? Fast foods and mama nkechi dem full ground. If na children? I go just knack one girl belle, deceive her till she gives birth or go for adoption. So, if u think that the man is towing the line of the society, "I am d man"is wrong because it is a societal norm, then marriage will be wrong because marriage is also a societal norm and it is overrated. And if u think they should not go by d norms and values of the society they live in then they should not have gotten married in the 1st place. 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Omotayor123(f): 9:05pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Jetjacky:Both 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Aspiregreat: 9:07pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
ammyluv2002: Rather She should grow up.which sensible woman would spew all those nonsense..well it's the guy's fault.(over sabi). |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jetjacky(m): 9:09pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Omotayor123:lol... agarawu23 why you no tell me la?? aya throw party on top the matter |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by GboyegaD(m): 9:11pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Ishilove: I'm not and it has nothing to do with if I'm married or not. It's my opinion and I'm entitled to it. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by missmary(f): 9:12pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
The wife might be lazy, she just gave up her husband for auction... And it might also be the husband who doesn't appreciate her cooking because he can do better I pity the spoilt brats that grew up with house helps... You are doomed ... See their mouths, the first option is House help... Later they wee say ekaette snatched their husband.... mtchew... QMA 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by GboyegaD(m): 9:13pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
refreshrate: These expectations you wrote on are listed by humans like us, right? If that be the case, each individual has the right to define his(hers). 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jennifer89(f): 9:15pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
the man should only cook when he wish to its not compulsory perhaps that's the duty of the woman. i don't know why some women just like causing problems in their home. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Ishilove: 9:17pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
GboyegaD:Stop being overly defensive, Mr GboyegaD. Nobody is saying you are not entitled to your opinion. All I asked was a question which you have answered. You don't know why I asked the question, do you? I could be asking for other reasons 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by GboyegaD(m): 9:18pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Tallesty1: There's a possibility of him not have tried communicating with his wife in the real sense before involving friends. Be it as it may, we dont have the real picture of things as such, we can only respond based on our understanding from what we read on here. Sincerely, if it mattered much to him his wife should be the one cooking, he should have spelt it out during courtship. Since he pretended all through courtship by been the one cooking for her, why can't he continue? 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by GboyegaD(m): 9:21pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Ishilove: I agree you could be asking for other reasons however, my response to you was based on the reaction to my post. If it sounds defensive to you, biko no vex. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 9:35pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Jetjacky the guy is in OYO... But I Don't really put emphasis on a good cook. I can marry a woman that can't cook. I can... I have other specs.... But food meal isn't one of them.. tho having a good cook as a wife is a +.... 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by cococandy(f): 9:40pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
pcguru1:Maybe they can't afford a house help. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by cococandy(f): 9:44pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
GboyegaD: Gboyegad and ishilove in holy matrimony Do you know why she's asking? Bros calm down. Maybe she wan propose 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 9:45pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
cococandy: seriously househelp is 15k a month that's 7500 per couple, it will save their marriage rather than this childish behavior of who will cook. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by cococandy(f): 9:45pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
4stylz: I will. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by cococandy(f): 9:47pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
pcguru1: I know it's a plausible solution. I'm just saying that maybe they can't afford one. Yea but if they can, it's best they do so. You're right. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 9:50pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
cococandy: Well i think they should have discussed all these before marriage. *Na wa o family section dey discourage peeps from marrying, there's always one issue threatening a marriage* |
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