KiidaACE:
Simple,,become mean.
Act like your too handsome for her....
Dnt forget to bone your face whenever she makes a stupid comment instead of shining your teeth 24/7...
Ya dig?

Confussion2:


Meeeen am soo pissed off about mysef right now. Point noted though.

You been dating her for a year + and your still a stranger to her ? she has to tell u something about yourself after a whole year on the phone ? You guys are not yet familiar with each other to be able to fart in front of each other after a year ? Her presence shaks you like u met her the first time after 1 year?

Tell me another story abeg.
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osile2012:



You guys are not yet familiar with each other to be able to fart in front of each other after a year ?
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Asito:
bros I assume you're in a very messy relationship. -All the pun in the world intended.

osile2012:


If after dating a girl for one year and she has to tell u something you dont already know about ur relationship on the phone then u must be dumb.

Asito:
bros am not the one who opened the thread. Why are you lashing out on me? Biko park well. I quoted jus a few things you posted, not alll. Stop calling me names before I MESS you up.

Your obliviousness is so superlative .

Confussion2:
Guyz there is this lady av been dating for like a year + . We have been going soo well, planed for marriage next year. Well from the look of things we both love each other. Shez a very nice person.The issue is that my babe told me something that kept me awake till dis time. Imagin !! 1.05am and am still awake.

She blotted that I loose myself whenever shez around me. Like WTF. She said I act like shez way above me, like shez too beautiful for me. She actually said I shudnt take it d wrong way but she just has to let me know cuz it might make her loose her head. Walahi I swear down it got to my bone marrow. Thing is av always tried to be a good person to her.Treated her like rare gem she really is. She actually said it that I luv her more than she loves me. I know how to play this game of not showing ur woman hw u love her but I felt since this is not some hit and run relationship there shud be no holds barred in terms of showing her love.

Av been ruminating over this issue since we ended our call.I feel like a wimp. Av dated somebody more beautiful than her soo is not like av never met someone like her. Guyz how do I handle this. My pride is soo wounded here even though I acted like all is well as she was dropping those yarns. How do I get my mojo back without coming off like a jack.

IamAtribalist:
Just faack her in the a$$ and she will know that you are a badt guy

tolzy90:
If She's telling u ds nw after dating u 4 a yr+.. Nigga b wise, another guy is bleeping her silly dt she nw sees herslf of undeserving of ur care nd attention. My advice: kill ur emotions nd fvck her lik a biiacchh!!

tolzy90:
If She's telling u ds nw after dating u 4 a yr+.. Nigga b wise, another guy is bleeping her silly dt she nw sees herslf of undeserving of ur care nd attention. My advice: kill ur emotions nd fvck her lik a biiacchh!!

sunnydayasaba:
Give her some little space, let her miss u more...I think ur luv is indirectly choking her. Spend less time wit her and more time alone. Also try to turn down some few request she makes of u, that way she will realize ur in charge.

osile2012:



You been dating her for a year + and your still a stranger to her ? she has to tell u something about yourself after a whole year on the phone ? You guys are not yet familiar with each other to be able to fart in front of each other after a year ? Her presence shaks you like u met her the first time after 1 year?

Tell me another story abeg.
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ShayGirl:
Confussion indeed!!!...

Then act more like u don't care.. (aiye ti laju ju gbogbo iyen lo jor) cos i see it like she's gat someone else and is preparing ur mind down ahead of time. It baffles me how we ladies complain of nt getting loved and end up giving no crap wen being showered love..
I knw no wen love turn "food competition" wey person dey notice who chop pass...

aim5:
Hahahah oh boy it's now you'll realize 98% of girls hate nice guys. My advice is to treat her like sh.it. And if she ever decides to sleep with you again, you need to Bleep the soul outta her. Maybe then she'll know you're a real man.

osile2012:


If after dating a girl for one year and she has to tell u something you dont already know about ur relationship on the phone then u must be dumb.

Masterclass32:
Nothing more to it. Just BE tHE MAN you're supposed to be. The FASTEST way to loose a woman is by being ridiculosly nice. Everything she does is 'okay'. If she shit for your room, you go ask am say whether she drink perfume because the shit smells so good. Some people call this kind of man - a jerk.

Women want their men to be men. Not an over-emotional boy. Just as men want a woman in a woman, no a manly woman. We are made to compliment each other. If one leaves their role, the boat won't sail well. Women want to be proud of their men and the things that epitomizes a real man - at least in the eyes of a woman in most cases are leadership, ability to make decisions, protection, provision, love. I've seen crude men that beat their women, yet the women keep coming back, ready to fight other women off to keep the man. I've also seen men that their 'niceness' is the stuff of legends, love their women with the speed of light.



Beating a woman is not good, barbaric in fact. Its never adviced. There are other ways to handle issues.

A woman wants her man to be her prince, her knight in shining amour. She wants to be able to respect you. But this won't come if the man has a permanent residence in the fantasy world. It frustrates the woman. Sooner or later, she might have to look elsewhere.

A man should be all lovey dovey and at the same time, firm.

Confussion2:


Babe she got nada as per anoda guy. Shez afraid of loosing me dat I know for sure. I guess d way I treat her may make her loose some respect. How do I show her I don't care is the issue.