25omega:
poster why copy and paste a story from another site? if people comment who will hear the comments since the post originated from another site

Nairaland has always been a copy and paste forum . So I am not surprised.

vivypretty:
if it ended like that maybe u guyz were not meant to be.thank God u didnt do a real wedding before u found out the truth
i trust karma because when it comes knocking u wont see it coming.
Just move on and tell ur parents now that it's early cos u are d victim they should be there for u now

but wait oh ur people no dey ask about the family u are marrying into before anything?

My dad did not ask about the family my sis got marrid. All he cared about was to preach GRAIL MESSAGE to the guy. now the guy is messing up. I put it to heart not to forgive ma fada infact I hv disowned him. And I swear not to bury him.

Op, If you can prove he got a fake marriage cert, then you can get him deported. Just go the embassy with the evidence and prove to them that he used u after promising to marry just to obtain a visa, then u can punish him.

KashyBaby:
Well...if tat guy won't come back no more, then move on rather than wait for this guy tat ul never gonna see again..ppol around u will comment whether u will like it or not but u have a better life than tat..time to reset urself, focus to the things u wanna achieve and try to smile all d time....one step at time and be positive & the rest will juz fall in the right place..

i love u and your comment...you're a great woman

waaliano:
It wasn't your fault from the beginning. God will see you through.

If the guy didn't Bleep her,no need for karma

abbk000:
PLEASE it is very easy. Go to the British High Commission ie British Embassy in Lagos with the pictures and the identity you know of him and report that you were duped into a fake marriage.
Don't be ashamed you are the victim of a wicked man. Tell you family and friends the truth and move on with your life. You are still young God will send you your real husband.

larryUG:
Op, If you can prove he got a fake marriage cert, then you can get him deported. Just go the embassy with the evidence and prove to them that he used u after promising to marry just to obtain a visa, then u can punish him.

WAIT FIRST OH!!!, WHY WOULD SOMEONE NEED TO MARRY IN NIGERIA TO GET VISA IN THE UK WE ARE NOT ALL FOOLS YOU KNOW

zubis05:
some men will just burn in hell kpata kpata! and this fool go get sister's o. how can karma not deal with his family and children join!

my dear, are u reading my thoughts .....

AmicableEd:
Please help me, i need to know what people in my shoes would do if this had happened to them.

I had a great love story. Yes, it seemed then. The man came like a rolling stone and hit me so so badly and left me. He felt his pre determined action was accomplished, while l was left nearly a fool.

We met through my close friend. He saw my picture on her Display picture on BBM and pressured her to link him to me.

That was how we got talking. Before you know it he asked me to be his woman. I was glad because l loved him. The attractions was not spontaneous. It grew against all odds.

People cautioned me saying he looked more of a playboy only ready to break hearts. I confronted him with all these things.
To my surprise, he did not hide who he was. To him, that was his past. He had ran away completely from it.

I admired his 'sincerity' and 'honesty'. And l felt that truly many of us had had an ugly past, and when you say you have come to Jesus, and you are seen behaving like a follower of this Christ, who then can condemn you?

This made me grow to like him more. Do l say like? I think he swept me off my feet.

Then he proposed in a dramatic way and we had a beautiful introduction between our two families. Even the way it was packaged, it was more like a wedding ceremony, that you would not expect another.

But that was the way he wanted it. He was traveling out of the country, and would start processing my papers from then, so l was made to believe.

I am 25years old but God, l have seen deceits. I have experienced broken heart. Despite the fact that l prayed. I thought l prayed and received direction.

However, the happenings after the introduction proved otherwise.

I now got to understand that he asked for the elaborate introduction ceremony because he was applying for a marriage visa in UK and he needed pictorial evidence.

I learnt he had already got a fake wedding certificate but needed me to do an appearance for him.

His intention was that once he was out of the country he would cut off all communications between us and leave me waiting endlessly for him.
God is gracious.

My supposed fiancé was expected to process the traveling documents for both of us, but he had gone to the embassy for the interview. Yet he kept me from knowing this. Now, it is almost a year after the introduction ceremony, l have not heard any word from him.

You would say where are his family members in this?

When we were dating, he was the one coming to meet me. We stayed in different but close states. He knew all my family but l only got to know his own on the introduction day.

One friend of his who said he did not want to hide anything from me because he sensed l am too decent to be treated in this manner, had to open up to me on many things. He confessed most of them, on getting to know me felt bad that such was being done to me.

One of them was the way my lover tried setting me up, using another friend of his to toast me and work on me to see if l would fall for the ploy. He wanted to use that as a strong reason for leaving me, that he caught me with another man.

He failed. But l am no more engaged.

My parents are not into the know now. They felt we were passing through a phase as we have some irreconcilable issue we are still working on.
Please tell me. How do l tell family members and friends who witnessed the ceremony and those who had heard about it that l have been left unprotected. No one to call my own. That l am starting again. But, is it not too soon?

The whole thing looks like a bad dream?
Let me quickly wake up from it, Lord.

The shame!

This is my true story. I am devastated that l could fall for a 'sucker'.
I was blind and deaf to all signals received prior our introduction.

Now, l am alone. Where do l go?

I can not stand to hear,'So you have seen what we were telling you.'

Help me.

http://www.kemifilani.com/2015/09/i-had-great-love-story-but-it-turned.html

I feel for you sister,don't worry he cant succeed for too long in his journey am sure of that.


God will strengthen you ,but i will advise that either of your parent please try and talk to the one that are closer to,and confide in them both then move on with your life.


The good lord will help u

Na god punish d girl who knws she fit runz girl and d guy discovered and raaaaannnnnnnnnn......shekina

Quite a touching story but, like one nigerian soap opera do say "Life is a lesson they more you live the more you learn". you've been too hard on your self someone just said "a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage". count your blessing name them one by one" so say one gospel hymn.....would you rather love to be in funke akindele or toke makinwa shoes who gave all they have money, time, emotions and at the end of the day met with shame,abuse, and heart break.....hmmmn issues of the heart does not apply to only ladies.....believe me you may find this as bitter pill to swallow but its the truth life is such an irony guess you havent met a guy who would commit a suicide because a babe jelted her or a guy who almost ran mad because of a babe he spent so much for all to ran away with another guy who's not even worth is type, hmmn shit happens sis.

But my advise for you....please pull yourself together be strong and be of good courage take another example from toke makinwa despites the shame and agony she went through in the hands of media and the celebrity circle she didnt allow her situation to determined who she is.....she has moved on....she didnt allow the gossips, shame and agony hold her down as i speak she is globetrotting all over the world why because she's got only one life and it's a choice either to be happy or unhappy irrespective of the the gossips and the shame.!!!! life is a choice you can choose to be happy or unhappy.

You've got only one life sis move on be strong lift your head up wipe your tears the guy aint worth a pinch of you....did hear Amen!!! dont let any man denied of your happiness, there are 1 million and one good men who would go on their knees to have you date, go the extra mile for you beg to have you in their arms, talkless of asking for your hand in marriage if i were you, i would hit the town in my best dress, hang out to beautiful places in company of my friends pretend as if nothing happens dust off your shoulder babe you deserved to be happy all things worked together for good for them that loved God.

God knows best.
Take Care.

I dont really understand how the.guy used you to obtain marriage visa.

If you are talking about marriage visa(i.e Marriage Vistor Visa).There are conditions he needs to fulfill which includes providing details of location in the UK where the marriage is taking place. this kind visa is useless to him as he cant use it to get a stay there.

if you are British and he intends to obtain spouse visa. He can only get it if you live in UK and earn at least 18,000GBP per annum, and you can show that you both will not rely on benefits, before he can be granted visa.

If you are confident he'd falsified documents to get the visa, you can still report to the UK borderforce if you wish to do so.

Hope he did not taste the forbidden fruit? Grrrrrrrrrr!

PMB must hear this. Probe underway....sad story, take heart

U see all these ENDTIME boys? Fear them! Girls shd learn to investigate a guy's background b4 even having a relationship/business(sexx for money) deal.

Trust No Man!

murphyibiam15:

i love u and your comment...you're a great woman

Tnx boo...appreciated

AmicableEd:
Please help me, i need to know what people in my shoes would do if this had happened to them.

I had a great love story. Yes, it seemed then. The man came like a rolling stone and hit me so so badly and left me. He felt his pre determined action was accomplished, while l was left nearly a fool.

We met through my close friend. He saw my picture on her Display picture on BBM and pressured her to link him to me.

That was how we got talking. Before you know it he asked me to be his woman. I was glad because l loved him. The attractions was not spontaneous. It grew against all odds.

People cautioned me saying he looked more of a playboy only ready to break hearts. I confronted him with all these things.
To my surprise, he did not hide who he was. To him, that was his past. He had ran away completely from it.

I admired his 'sincerity' and 'honesty'. And l felt that truly many of us had had an ugly past, and when you say you have come to Jesus, and you are seen behaving like a follower of this Christ, who then can condemn you?

This made me grow to like him more. Do l say like? I think he swept me off my feet.

Then he proposed in a dramatic way and we had a beautiful introduction between our two families. Even the way it was packaged, it was more like a wedding ceremony, that you would not expect another.

But that was the way he wanted it. He was traveling out of the country, and would start processing my papers from then, so l was made to believe.

I am 25years old but God, l have seen deceits. I have experienced broken heart. Despite the fact that l prayed. I thought l prayed and received direction.

However, the happenings after the introduction proved otherwise.

I now got to understand that he asked for the elaborate introduction ceremony because he was applying for a marriage visa in UK and he needed pictorial evidence.

I learnt he had already got a fake wedding certificate but needed me to do an appearance for him.

His intention was that once he was out of the country he would cut off all communications between us and leave me waiting endlessly for him.
God is gracious.

My supposed fiancé was expected to process the traveling documents for both of us, but he had gone to the embassy for the interview. Yet he kept me from knowing this. Now, it is almost a year after the introduction ceremony, l have not heard any word from him.

You would say where are his family members in this?

When we were dating, he was the one coming to meet me. We stayed in different but close states. He knew all my family but l only got to know his own on the introduction day.

One friend of his who said he did not want to hide anything from me because he sensed l am too decent to be treated in this manner, had to open up to me on many things. He confessed most of them, on getting to know me felt bad that such was being done to me.

One of them was the way my lover tried setting me up, using another friend of his to toast me and work on me to see if l would fall for the ploy. He wanted to use that as a strong reason for leaving me, that he caught me with another man.

He failed. But l am no more engaged.

My parents are not into the know now. They felt we were passing through a phase as we have some irreconcilable issue we are still working on.
Please tell me. How do l tell family members and friends who witnessed the ceremony and those who had heard about it that l have been left unprotected. No one to call my own. That l am starting again. But, is it not too soon?

The whole thing looks like a bad dream?
Let me quickly wake up from it, Lord.

The shame!

This is my true story. I am devastated that l could fall for a 'sucker'.
I was blind and deaf to all signals received prior our introduction.

Now, l am alone. Where do l go?

I can not stand to hear,'So you have seen what we were telling you.'

Help me.

http://www.kemifilani.com/2015/09/i-had-great-love-story-but-it-turned.html

Op hope you have not disappointed some one who trully love you?? If your story is real i smell karma here.

dview001:
Na god punish d girl who knws she fit runz girl and d guy discovered and raaaaannnnnnnnnn......shekina

laughing out loud at dis

shadowgwalker:
U see all these ENDTIME boys? Fear them! Girls shd learn to investigate a guy's background b4 even having a relationship/business(sexx for money) deal.

Trust No Man!

I'm telling u,scammers and players everywhere

modelmike7:
I really feel your pain sis..... Never knew men could be this wicked. He will surely see the repercussions soon. But the most important of all is that...... ''A Broken Introduction is better than a Broken Marriage.'' ...... God is preserving the best for you sis..... It shall be well.

men are that wicked. Some usually have more than 4 engangement rings in their pockets. Once u play hard to get they bring oue ring for u. Some go as far taking u to their parents.

jesussaves22:
Op hope you have not disappointed some one who trully love you?? If your story is real i smell karma here.

even me,I'm sensing it

Nicepoker:
Op Pixs of the shoes ... if it happens that am in ur shoes. I will gladly fly away with them.

25omega:
poster why copy and paste a story from another site? if people comment who will hear the comments since the post originated from another site

Most post on niaraland is not original, its either copied from a newspaper or blog site.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
men are that wicked. Some usually have more than 4 engangement rings in their pockets. Once u play hard to get they bring oue ring for u. Some go as far taking u to their parents.

...... Now, that is callousness @ its peak! But, some of us are still sane and truthful tho'.

Even your Beau get a Beau....

modelmike7:
...... Now, that is callousness @ its peak! But, some of us are still sane and truthful tho'.

Yes, some are still good but the bad ones are more.and that makes it difficult for us women to know a good man.

modelmike7:
I really feel your pain sis..... Never knew men could be this wicked. He will surely see the repercussions soon. But the most important of all is that...... ''A Broken Introduction is better than a Broken Marriage.'' ...... God is preserving the best for you sis..... It shall be well.

If you never knew, then you are a D U M M Y

AmicableEd
1. How she is feeling is better imagined than felt. It really feels bad to get disappointed especially from one you had hope to spend the rest of your life with.

2. She should be thankful that she isn't pregnant (that is if she isn't) because that would have brought a bigger shame.

3. Life goes on. That's not the end of life. There has not been any disappointment that does not come with great appointment. God is always merciful.

4. She should be positive minded. Only positive mind will see positive thing in a negative occurrence and vice versa. Wish her a better marriage ahead.

Best solution......
When people ask abt him.....jst tell dem he is dead or he was arrested in UK for yahoo yahoo

AmicableEd:
Please help me, i need to know what people in my shoes would do if this had happened to them.

I had a great love story. Yes, it seemed then. The man came like a rolling stone and hit me so so badly and left me. He felt his pre determined action was accomplished, while l was left nearly a fool.

We met through my close friend. He saw my picture on her Display picture on BBM and pressured her to link him to me.

That was how we got talking. Before you know it he asked me to be his woman. I was glad because l loved him. The attractions was not spontaneous. It grew against all odds.

People cautioned me saying he looked more of a playboy only ready to break hearts. I confronted him with all these things.
To my surprise, he did not hide who he was. To him, that was his past. He had ran away completely from it.

I admired his 'sincerity' and 'honesty'. And l felt that truly many of us had had an ugly past, and when you say you have come to Jesus, and you are seen behaving like a follower of this Christ, who then can condemn you?

This made me grow to like him more. Do l say like? I think he swept me off my feet.

Then he proposed in a dramatic way and we had a beautiful introduction between our two families. Even the way it was packaged, it was more like a wedding ceremony, that you would not expect another.

But that was the way he wanted it. He was traveling out of the country, and would start processing my papers from then, so l was made to believe.

I am 25years old but God, l have seen deceits. I have experienced broken heart. Despite the fact that l prayed. I thought l prayed and received direction.

However, the happenings after the introduction proved otherwise.

I now got to understand that he asked for the elaborate introduction ceremony because he was applying for a marriage visa in UK and he needed pictorial evidence.

I learnt he had already got a fake wedding certificate but needed me to do an appearance for him.

His intention was that once he was out of the country he would cut off all communications between us and leave me waiting endlessly for him.
God is gracious.

My supposed fiancé was expected to process the traveling documents for both of us, but he had gone to the embassy for the interview. Yet he kept me from knowing this. Now, it is almost a year after the introduction ceremony, l have not heard any word from him.

You would say where are his family members in this?

When we were dating, he was the one coming to meet me. We stayed in different but close states. He knew all my family but l only got to know his own on the introduction day.

One friend of his who said he did not want to hide anything from me because he sensed l am too decent to be treated in this manner, had to open up to me on many things. He confessed most of them, on getting to know me felt bad that such was being done to me.

One of them was the way my lover tried setting me up, using another friend of his to toast me and work on me to see if l would fall for the ploy. He wanted to use that as a strong reason for leaving me, that he caught me with another man.

He failed. But l am no more engaged.

My parents are not into the know now. They felt we were passing through a phase as we have some irreconcilable issue we are still working on.
Please tell me. How do l tell family members and friends who witnessed the ceremony and those who had heard about it that l have been left unprotected. No one to call my own. That l am starting again. But, is it not too soon?

The whole thing looks like a bad dream?
Let me quickly wake up from it, Lord.

The shame!

This is my true story. I am devastated that l could fall for a 'sucker'.
I was blind and deaf to all signals received prior our introduction.

Now, l am alone. Where do l go?

I can not stand to hear,'So you have seen what we were telling you.'

Help me.

http://www.kemifilani.com/2015/09/i-had-great-love-story-but-it-turned.html

Better a broken engagement than a broken marriage. You should be happy that it is so. Someone I know married sef but the husband never came from abroad for her again.

After some years, the lady moved on and is happily married today. So count yourself lucky and don't bother about what people will say. People will always talk.

AmicableEd:
Please help me, i need to know what people in my shoes would do if this had happened to them.

I had a great love story. Yes, it seemed then. The man came like a rolling stone and hit me so so badly and left me. He felt his pre determined action was accomplished, while l was left nearly a fool.

We met through my close friend. He saw my picture on her Display picture on BBM and pressured her to link him to me.

That was how we got talking. Before you know it he asked me to be his woman. I was glad because l loved him. The attractions was not spontaneous. It grew against all odds.

People cautioned me saying he looked more of a playboy only ready to break hearts. I confronted him with all these things.
To my surprise, he did not hide who he was. To him, that was his past. He had ran away completely from it.

I admired his 'sincerity' and 'honesty'. And l felt that truly many of us had had an ugly past, and when you say you have come to Jesus, and you are seen behaving like a follower of this Christ, who then can condemn you?

This made me grow to like him more. Do l say like? I think he swept me off my feet.

Then he proposed in a dramatic way and we had a beautiful introduction between our two families. Even the way it was packaged, it was more like a wedding ceremony, that you would not expect another.

But that was the way he wanted it. He was traveling out of the country, and would start processing my papers from then, so l was made to believe.

I am 25years old but God, l have seen deceits. I have experienced broken heart. Despite the fact that l prayed. I thought l prayed and received direction.

However, the happenings after the introduction proved otherwise.

I now got to understand that he asked for the elaborate introduction ceremony because he was applying for a marriage visa in UK and he needed pictorial evidence.

I learnt he had already got a fake wedding certificate but needed me to do an appearance for him.

His intention was that once he was out of the country he would cut off all communications between us and leave me waiting endlessly for him.
God is gracious.

My supposed fiancé was expected to process the traveling documents for both of us, but he had gone to the embassy for the interview. Yet he kept me from knowing this. Now, it is almost a year after the introduction ceremony, l have not heard any word from him.

You would say where are his family members in this?

When we were dating, he was the one coming to meet me. We stayed in different but close states. He knew all my family but l only got to know his own on the introduction day.

One friend of his who said he did not want to hide anything from me because he sensed l am too decent to be treated in this manner, had to open up to me on many things. He confessed most of them, on getting to know me felt bad that such was being done to me.

One of them was the way my lover tried setting me up, using another friend of his to toast me and work on me to see if l would fall for the ploy. He wanted to use that as a strong reason for leaving me, that he caught me with another man.

He failed. But l am no more engaged.

My parents are not into the know now. They felt we were passing through a phase as we have some irreconcilable issue we are still working on.
Please tell me. How do l tell family members and friends who witnessed the ceremony and those who had heard about it that l have been left unprotected. No one to call my own. That l am starting again. But, is it not too soon?

The whole thing looks like a bad dream?
Let me quickly wake up from it, Lord.

The shame!

This is my true story. I am devastated that l could fall for a 'sucker'.
I was blind and deaf to all signals received prior our introduction.

Now, l am alone. Where do l go?

I can not stand to hear,'So you have seen what we were telling you.'

Help me.

http://www.kemifilani.com/2015/09/i-had-great-love-story-but-it-turned.html

hahaaha. dunno why I find this funny sha. paste his pix on social media and his fb page.

missyadorable:
If you never knew, then I AM a D U M M Y

............... Oh, i see!

to me the main issue here is the guy you turned down because you felt he had no prospects of travelling abroad. but now see; he has a company of his own, and hes married with a kid. you ladies should learn to rush hussling guys not ready made.