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Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by mrsmith11(m): 12:45pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
olukenzo: So are you telling me there are no men in nigeria who treat there wives far worst than what the Op is passing through? So what will call that.. Why are so many people so concern about the document. The guy can just be irresponsible married man like every other cases we read here on nairaland He can also be passing through a lot of pressure or difficult from home that why he is not investing money into vacation or travelling for fun Please if you are not married or live abroad then you understand nothing 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by guy1234: 12:52pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
mrsmith11: My brother make u no mind them o. I no say d guy way pure o, but no be for we wey dey here to helep d babe bounce d guyman. Make she use her church mind. Den case remind me of sound sultan song AREA. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 1:01pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
mrsmith11: Can't you see he's hurting her!? You said it yourself, he's acting like an irresponsible man. And yes, his behaviour as she's explained, in my opinion, says he's using her for papers. This is more so if we choose not to ignore the "acting like a monkey to catch a monkey" talk. You don't say? By your logic, it takes only a married person or a diasporan to detect an irresponsible man. He's a married man, he should talk to his wife and share whatever frustration(s) he may be going through with her. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by mrsmith11(m): 1:17pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
olukenzo: We all know the man is not living up to his responsibility in terms of care and trust issue to his wife due to his behaviour What am saying is that some of you should stop sinking wrong ideas into the woman head that is because of document his with her. There are far worst cases here in nigeria If it was a nigeria scenario.....all you people will say......woman pray,talk to your pastor,cook for him,dress sexy and expect God to change him because men are promiscious in nature Why are you people not saying that now Why everybody talking about papers because she is white?..... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by urchbarbie(f): 1:25pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
chigoizie7:dont torchlight ur ignorance dear. ibo= used for person igbo= used for d language I wld gladly teach u dear |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by gboso1ne(m): 1:37pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink:In case you have not heard, some Nigerian men go into marriages in foreign countries just to get citizenship and be able to stay in the country legally which is what is "pali" or document in English. Dude is just using you to get what he wants, after getting that then dump u. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by mrsmith11(m): 1:43pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
gboso1ne: So anybody that lives abroad and mention Pali means he/she is using the partner for self interest? You people don't live abroad......all you hear are stories and you keep recycling them People fall in love and marry for long or short period it depends on them and they also fall out of love not all for selfish interest The cases happens everywhere Point of correction...."Pali" means passport............while. "Docu" means document |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by chigoizie7(m): 1:43pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
urchbarbie: Nekwanu onye nkea, nne, ebee ka inuu dat one? As ibo is to person and igbo a language, then what about the tribe? Igo? Just shut up if u don't know what to say. I am an igbo, I speak igbo and my tribe is igbo. As a yoruba? What are u? Yelowba? And ur language is yoruba while ur tribe is ofe mmanu? Ignorance is a big disease, go and ask your parents were u came from, because it is clear that u re not an igbo. |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 3:11pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
How are nigerian men |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by 400billionman: 3:21pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink: Guess, your husband is Stanley ? They are discussing about a girl, " Samson's sister ", and another lady maybe a friend of hers which they labeled as " The other one ", but from the discussion, your husband didn't do anything with the other one. Demoye calls Samson's sister a weightlifter which could mean she is good in bed or means something else. They didn't talk about you. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 3:26pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
mrsmith11: Of course, I am not denying that prejudice. Although I clearly mentioned earlier it's just a possibility. And no one is putting ideas in anyone's head, she's not a child. I'll be the last person to advice any of my Nigerian sisters to play along with a tosser like this guy. He should be a man and stop hurting his wife if he has issues! 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 3:36pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
What means You don't spoil the pikin? |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by 400billionman: 3:38pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
urchbarbie: Stop acting like you know too much.. Men will run away from you whenever they see that behaviour. . |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 3:39pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink: You really need to put your mind at rest, the conversation is a harmless one between two good friends. Love is not a respecter of race. No relationship is perfect, trust your man and enjoy life together. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 3:41pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink:This question is pure banter between two guys, your man is jokingly accusing his friend about messing around with a girl. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by 400billionman: 3:42pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink: Your husband asked Demoye if he slept with Samson's sister. Demoye now said she is a weightlifter. Which could mean her physique is not appealing to him or, she is good in bed. He didn't offer a straight answer. It's the bolded. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 3:43pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink: There are responsible Nigerian men, but no offence, your man is not one. Is he redeemable? Yes. If my fears that he's in for the citizenship is not true. How can you help him? Actually, you have to help yourselves. That is, come to a middle ground. Talk to him --heart to heart, you have to have done this pre-marriage, yes? Tell him how you feel about him; Regain his trust, some people change after marriage; Don't breath down his neck, give him his space if he asks for it; Sex is not a bargaining chip, you're his and he's yours; If possible, cook him some African meals, it'll blow his mind; Get to know his family more. I hope you already know them enough, if not. Hmmmm. I am not a marriage counsellor, I wish you all the best. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 3:46pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink: Pikin means child. So, it means, "you have spoilt the child". 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 3:53pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
mrsmith11: Gerarahere. All you have been saying is they don't live abroad, they don't know Muritala. Wetin gan Is living abroad rocket science? Commot joor! 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by AfroKnight: 4:05pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
The pictures don't mean he is cheating. Just harmless idle talk between 2 guys. Sad. This woman is trying very hard to please him but he is just not interested. It appears he is easily irritated by her and so the marriage is falling apart. Obviously the only thing keeping him in this marriage are the papers. Sad. Friendship is missing. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Djicemob: 4:13pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
urchbarbie:There is nothing harmful in the chat snapshots,i dont know how you came to your baseless conclusions.Talking about bedduties and papers like you some type of saddist or doomsday prophetess. |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 4:54pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Okay |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 5:09pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
What means this with 49ja |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 5:10pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Na de Journey |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by kingreign(m): 5:14pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink:You claim you're married to this man, you love him and trust him? I don't think you do. From your numerous picture screenshots, I can infer that you don't trust him, you don't love him, you always snoop around him and you're always suspicious of him. In Europe, you Europeans would gladly sue his black arsé if he snoops around you and get a court order barring him from coming anywhere close to you, but this is what you're doing. |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by akins56(m): 5:14pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
chigoizie7:famous achebe did call it ibo, is he fake as well ? |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by akins56(m): 5:17pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
guy1234:na u sure pass jawe, no mind dos ajebo ITK wey dey explain for d babe, shey guyman no go smart again?! Make e una no spoil d guy hustle ooo, na opportunity! |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by Nobody: 5:20pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink:Woman! you want to destroy your marriage over nothing cos you saw sis in their chat. Come up with something better, this excuse is lame |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by ebamma(m): 5:28pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink:that guy sounds like a hustler to me, Anyway, What does he do for a living over there? |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by AfroKnight: 5:31pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
Cityink: Emmm... No. Actually, the woman I was talking about is you. Your marriage is at a stage where one partner gets easily irritated by the other. You and your husband now live like flatmates who are just tolerating each other. That's why he frustrates your efforts once in a while. You guys need to work on being friends not just married sex partners. One thing is certain though, the conversation you posted is clearly unrelated to your marriage. It's just simple idle talk between buddies. |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by urchbarbie(f): 5:36pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
chigoizie7:onye igbo. Ure just an unrepentant fellow. Ure one of such fellows who wld marry a 75 yrs old woman to achieve ur selfish desires. See d handwriting on d wall, I wont trade insults with you, I am way too cultured/learned to do so. For my parents, they av done dier best in teaching me to know wats right/wrong. I wont cover evil. Many of us wont paint d truth. I av said my bits on d matter. its left for d oyibo lady to make her decision. |
Re: I Am So Unhappy, So Helpless & Confused by urchbarbie(f): 5:37pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
400billionman:if the men that wld run away are ur like or dat d op has shown me, I wld rather die a spinster/nun. Marriage cant determine my happiness. keep f00ling urself Mr Man. |
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