also ladies, if you.dont want a man to ask you.for sex at all, please and please do not even collect a stick of toothpick from him... if u,can do.dat, when eva a man ask you.for.SEX you.can slap d hell out of him and sue him.to.court if u please. and u belive you will win..if u.kno.you.dont want anything from a man that takes you outing, carry ur own money, after eating and drinking pay ur bills... make i.see were d SEX mata wan come from. thanks again for reading

Beedemi247:
i love 360ng baby i want u

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Is the lady a learner?
You have to be extremely foolish to think that a Nigerian guy will do you a favour as a female and not expect sex in return.
Nigerian ladies need to learn that the only men in that society that wouldn't ask for sex in exchange for a favour are their fathers, brothers and in some cases, their uncles.
Never collect money or gift from some guy; friend, boyfriend, brother in the Lord. Whatever fancy name you choose to give him, he's still a random guy. My parents told me this when I was younger.

The only thing the lady in the op can do is to figure out a way to give this messed up friend of hers his money.

Hmm, women and help me please, you should know nothing is free in nija
Chilling in the moon with my cat pepper soup and dog juice..

Nobody does free favors honey. That's all

Double post.

anelen:
u see Nigerians, when u needed help" Because of all these, I confided in my friend and he
helped me to raise the money from his parents, I
don’t know what excuse he gave them, because we
attend the same school. He didn’t say he borrowed
me, he said he gave me." now he needs help probably he is starve of s*x/ lonely or seen dat u are what he wants in a girl and he confided in you, now you have reported to nairalanders.
or it could be that you have said something to your friends you now na ladies, when a guy out of generosity gives money or gift to you girls without asking for anything some will start boosting"ha i chop dat guy well well nd him no even see my laps talk of my undis"
from my experience
guys don't for any reason confide in a girl.

Obviously this comment is not from your God given brain.

Treat this matter fairly, look at it from the individual point's of view, not from women in general. Haba!!!!

[quote author=ijustdey post=38125674]
I didn't want to say anytin but from some guys reaction lemme say dis: stand ur ground BOLDLY agaist having sex with him. if u give him sex once, he will keep coming. he is not a matured guy and should be ashamed of himself for asking sex in return for debt. if he insist, tell ur mum or brothers or male cousine or an elder who can talk some sense into him. dats y I like some girls cos dat kind money na voice mail.......fear not my dear,notin go happen. if u feel threaten involve ur school mgt for him to write an undertaking dat should u b harmed in any way b4 u graduate,he will be held responsible.

itops:



She doesn't owe him, he gave the money. He did not give her on the platform of borrow, the boy is a stupid entity who have obviously been used by the devil to destroy the young ladies organised life.


But my advice is, she should involve her mum and give him back the money, not because she owes him but to show him how foolish he has become and do away with him for good.

In the boy's mind she owes him. That's why he can open his mouth to ask nonsense from her. Nothing is freely given by human beings. We should always be ready to return any favour.

Most of these fins u guys re sayin here is trash put her in ur shoes wil u be able to Tel a nigerian average mum abt such a situation!we re nt in America dat ur parents myt jst undastnd,u guys shld wake up u re in Nigeria,jst ask him to let u pay bit by bit or u involve a third party dat is vry close 2 both of u.

Evathyst:
Mtchew! Pay him which money? The one both of you wrote an agreement before giving to you abi?

Don't be surprised, once you give in. He'll continue to demand sex from you under the guise of that money...


See, this case is as simple as ABCD. Since he's trying to take advantage of you, why not show him he's not half as smart as 'We' are.


Next time he approaches you on this issue, try recording all that he's saying. You could even arrange with some of your friends who would hid themselves in your room. Once the he-goats comes to have sex, allow him to UnCloth, then, signal your friends to come out of hiding. By then, they would beat him mercilessly and take pictures of his uncladness.


That's what 'we' call fastest finger. He wants to coerce you into having sex with him just because he helped you then. Guys them gan self


Being thinking with their third leg since 1856BC.

The dumbest mugu. Did you forget that first to do no dey pain? If she want to do that to him she should make sure she have a US visa and ticket ready else she will gang dunk by 50 strangers.

pahhh...women sef....a man can not be your friend...its impossible....


its better you tell your mother the truth,before he trys to r ape you...

lmao!!!! this is easy, get another friend to put up the money and continue that cycle

[senator kay...what mess did u clear up with the whole of ur school fees that u cannot tell ur mom if its genuine?u are just trying to reap without sowing dear liar@poster

Giv am him moni nw. Must u b a virgin forever? My dear giv am dat tin mak him do jor.

[quote author=PunkyVeer post=38141562]

Lol, maybe she has an axe to grind. Don't we all? [/qu
Maybe .....but not me . I would really like to hear from her, and also want to know what Nigerian breed, her pater is...

If you're a humble lady like you sound,you shouldn't have ran into the mess you can't even tell your parent.what mess could it have been that you're finding it so difficult to open up to your family.not even your mum.now,that mess is bringing you into another mess.I don't think you can date him.you guys have been so close like family I understand that.since there's no such agreement btw you two I think the guy is a fool.

Some girls sha So because of puccy matter, you wan come dey disturb me. What is bad in using puccy to pay back? If your puccy cannot buy you eternal life so what is so special about it? Give the hungry bastard puccy and let him leave you alone.

Is it me that a girl will tell to pay my debt with my blala that I would now come to Nairaland to be crying. I will gladly blala her and add jara to it. Nonsense!!!

softysparky:
I could remember how one guy asked me for ponmo and I refused, na so guy man remind of one James Hadley Chase I borrowed from him years ago. I searched for the novel soteee I no see, finally I had to pay him 3k because he insisted I pay that or I give him ponmo.

Ever since then I stopped borrowing.

I have interesting romance novels o, I can lend them to you if you want

let's charged him to court

Evathyst:
Mtchew! Pay him which money? The one both of you wrote an agreement before giving to you abi?

Don't be surprised, once you give in. He'll continue to demand sex from you under the guise of that money...


See, this case is as simple as ABCD. Since he's trying to take advantage of you, why not show him he's not half as smart as 'We' are.


Next time he approaches you on this issue, try recording all that he's saying. You could even arrange with some of your friends who would hid themselves in your room. Once the he-goats comes to have sex, allow him to UnCloth, then, signal your friends to come out of hiding. By then, they would beat him mercilessly and take pictures of his uncladness.


That's what 'we' call fastest finger. He wants to coerce you into having sex with him just because he helped you then. Guys them gan self


Being thinking with their third leg since 1856BC.

But when she was collecting the money she refused to tell her mum. Op herself is wicked.

[quote author=Jaypea98 post=38141864][/quote]

Wow, you must be one of the few guys here without a chip on his shoulder. Anyway, good for you, sire

ilobasama:
Read what you started it with. You said men in general. Who wants to be heard......and by who

No mind the ashewo jare

I love you from the depth of my life 360ng.... I belive u were made specially...

AfroKnight:
You owe him so pay up. You can't force him to be charitable. School fees no be small money for student.

If you return his money he won't have the right to ask such rubbish from you again.

Pls reason b4 Typing and the likes that followed, u guys follow the line too.
Jeeeezzzz mehn!!!!! Place her in ur Sister's Shoes if u hav one.

SkinnyDude:
criminal!!! give him his money.. this is how you girls go around, extorting from men,..
and one yeye evathyst said 'JUST because he helped her'

No mind the thief, her toto is more important than the guy's money and come dey claim virgin again. She can receive but cannot give out

Just here to read funny comment





Let me find a good chair to seat

What mess did u get into that u couldn't not tell or parents ?
How would u ask of such a huge amount of money from a guy who is not your boyfriend .
Trust me u can pay back if u wanted to , but it seems u like OSHOFREE things.......unfortunately there are no free lunch anywhere in the world ,not even in FREETOWN -

BTW....wet in concern virginity for this matter. Na Virginty borrow the money ?

What mess did u get into that u couldn't not tell ra:-) :-) :-) rents ?
How would u ask of such a huge amount of money from a guy who is not your boyfriend .
Trust me u can pay back if u wanted to , but it seems u like OSHOFREE things.......unfortunately there are no free lunch anywhere in the world ,not even in FREETOWN -

BTW....wet in concern virginity for this matter. Na Virginty borrow the money ?

softysparky:
I could remember how one guy asked me for ponmo and I refused, na so guy man remind of one James Hadley Chase I borrowed from him years ago. I searched for the novel soteee I no see, finally I had to pay him 3k because he insisted I pay that or I give him ponmo.

Ever since then I stopped borrowing.

ROTFL, lwkm...wat dafuq is 'ponmo' awon werey....
Na ponmo u dey call ur Vaginaa ... Whic james hadley chase novel reach 3K ...na EKO hotel nd suites wey u buy d novel ni...

stop begging him and start gathering his money.give him 5k first and later get him another small change again. before u pay half of it,he will get tired.

second option is to take the 5k to his mum.tell her that her son wants the money back and u will pay the rest soon.he will back off.

@poster, you're such a user, and if you continue this way, you'll end up a loser. No man, I tell you again, no man is a charitable entity. We're always in it to get it. If he's not your brother why bother to ask him for money?

Ladies think men are too weak when it comes to helping them. You cannot have a guy and lock him up in a friend zone. He would soon find a way out and rightfully claim what belongs to him.

Finally, you don't put on a condom except you want to fuvk. So don't take money from a guy if you're not ready to give up your pvssy.