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Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by charlsecy(m): 9:55pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
justmag:What is the rate of interest? |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by prixm: 9:58pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
Refuse to be intimidated. He told you then he gave it to you as gift, let him know he cannot change it now. If he insist on having the money then he has to give you as much time as you require to raise it. Please, do not allow him to harass you, inform the police if necessary. If indeed he wants you to give him your virginity because of some debt, he is not your friend; and you better stop treating him as one. |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Ebube1ste: 10:09pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
That's not a good piece of advice..The consequences may just be too much for her..Some guys won't take that lightly. Some can mess up the girl's life |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by jayuuk: 10:22pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
The guy asking for sex is inappropriate, dont give in, if u tell your folks about the mess and the issues at hand,it may ridicule you eternally. Invite a 3rd party to subtly talk it over with him,he will let go. |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by omotoyossi(m): 10:31pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
TELL IM 2 Bleep OFF..IS DERE ANY EVIDENCE OR RECEIPT DAT E GAVE U MONEY??NA U DEY DULL...D GUY IS JZ WICKED M EVIL..Bleep IM OFF |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Ramsey247(m): 10:37pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
But wait o, why is it always the women folks that are in the recieving end. Cant they also give? |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Nobody: 11:03pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
Evathyst:if I ask for a girl sex it will be in my place if she turned me and later she say yes I will know that the yes is a trap we guys think the same way ![]() |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Felitsa187(f): 11:24pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
chinnyonwu:Oponu oshi! It's guys like u she's referring to. Thinking with ur third leg, Wich I'm priti sure is real tiny. I wish guys can put themselves in our shoes. But of course, they can never b victims. Mstcheeeewwww ![]() |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Nobody: 12:08am On Sep 19, 2015 |
[quote author=chinnyonwu post=38132140] May Thor use his hammer to smash your tiny brain into pieces! If it was "just" why couldnt she help herself? Ole Bro u wan kill person |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Mayor101010(m): 1:07am On Sep 19, 2015 |
I feel like u not telling the whole story.This is a two sided story.. @OP u told ur part to justify urself... Who knows; maybe u've given the guy a false hope just to meet your immediate need. |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by corneremperor: 1:12am On Sep 19, 2015 |
FannySwindler:I think you are the closest to the truth here. Op might have used the money for abortion and her friend found out, and is feeling very stupid for giving the money to her without any 'benefits'. Homeboy now knows she isn't a virgin and wants to blackmail her into having sex. Either way, as long as it wasn't a loan this guy isn't entitled to anything- Shikena! 1 Like |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by whisperj: 1:35am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Begonia:Lol..na wa oo..You seem to have come to the conclusion that every Nigerian man is an opportunist. Yes, men will ask for sex whether they have done you favours or not, but not every man will blackmail a lady like the guy in the story. There are some truly noble Nigerian men...I hope one of such comes your way soon ![]() |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Boyooosa(m): 2:19am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Teleads: O le wu o baba mi, awon omo oro le wu ju be lo o! @op Ma se be o, just play along n sort it out and let d sleeping dog lies! |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Classicman47(m): 4:04am On Sep 19, 2015 |
greatness22: Pray about it and then hope the young man forget ![]() |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by alfajohn: 5:16am On Sep 19, 2015 |
At OP post the amount and ur account details without ur name i.e account no and bank name also include the amount owed. God may give u a pleasant surprise. |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by chinnyonwu(m): 6:35am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Felitsa187:Sangò firre u! I refused to comment on the guys action because that story is definitely edited (why did the guy all of a sudden, after 2 WHOLE YEARS start wanting a payback? ) but only a classless btich like you would refer to the guy money as "just" and refer to her as a victim and being "taken advantage of" after a guy has lied to his parents (she didnt take advantage of his friendship here abi) to obtain the amount (which i am pretty sure is huge -notice OP left it out of her tale) You collected money that you couldnt collect from your parents from a guy and when he asks for it in cash or kind, you look for a way to remain a "victor" instead of rallying his money in order to protect your dignity. It's also people like you i love to fccuk like a donkey with my tiny dick then dump. May Thor use his hammer to smash your little brain to pieces! Amen U dont deserve to breathe one more second on this lovely earth. 1 Like |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by JavaPrince1(m): 7:25am On Sep 19, 2015 |
chinnyonwu:People are always careless in accepting gifts. It is obvious that you subconsciously get indepted to anyone you are collecting gifts from. Moreover there is nothing like "Just friends" between people of opposite sex, with time you still think dirty about your friend. The lady should be aware of the fact that the guy is in need of money right now and remembers he was kind to someone in the past. So young lady go and lie to your parents too and get such amount and dash him aswel since you are not the sex type and as a lady had the mind to use your school fee on feminine things. . . Mind how you collect gifts. |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by fetrillion(m): 8:06am On Sep 19, 2015 |
firstly,I will blame u 4 inappropriate disposition of ur skool fees(Misplaced priorities on ur part) secondly,I wonder d kinds of guy we have in dis dispensation even on dis nairaland forum.based on deir advice's so far.since u av no agreement to pay back,u own him no kobo.BT if u fink u av got d money n u fink u wanna pay back,its OK. |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by JayJustus(m): 8:11am On Sep 19, 2015 |
marshalcarter: weed now in liquid form....pass me the juice, wine, Kain kain or warreva |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by akinsmyk(m): 8:11am On Sep 19, 2015 |
AfroKnight: I can't believe that the OP deleted/remove my previous quote. This confirms what I was thinking. You guys are just bashing the guy. I am sure he knew the lady is not a saint as she present herself, he might wants to take a share too. First, the OP is hiding something, she's not plain about this. She should tell us the mess she got herself into that needs that lot of money to clear. She should tell us the mess or I don't blv she is a virgin. Lies to win people over. Maybe she borrowed the money to abort or something...I might be wrong though |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by opribo(m): 8:13am On Sep 19, 2015 |
One good turn deserves another, anyone who does not show appreciation for a good favour done to them must be an ingrate.. He helped you when you needed help now he needs help you don't want to help him buy you give it yo outsiders. Then go and return what you owe Go and sell your property to pay him back because every debtor must pay. Haba how can people be so ungrateful like this, for 4 years he didn't ask anything just only this one thing he is asking has become subject for national conference OP you are wicked. 1 Like |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Nobody: 8:36am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Despite my asking how much is been owed...still no response. Well...I withdraw any intended help I may have wished to offer. Case closed. ![]() |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Danfuster(m): 9:10am On Sep 19, 2015 |
Biaich better have that dudes money
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Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by VICKYE(m): 9:30am On Sep 19, 2015 |
kelish:Albeit some guys are kind hearted, the behaviours of their female friends makes it worrisome. Imagine coming clean with your female friend, assisting in any capacity you can but she is hanging out with other guys. Such triggers reactions on the male's body and jealousy will eventually set in which will cause the request to go further than ordinary friends. Moreover, you are not explicit on the MESS you got into, his mind may tell him something different which is why he need it now. Some girls like parasitic friendship so much where they're totally dependent on guys. That's not good ladies. |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Felitsa187(f): 9:37am On Sep 19, 2015 |
chinnyonwu:*yawn* save ur gist for someone who is interested. And the whole, "may thor use his hammer....." crap is just old and so not funny. someone obviously deceived u that it was funny. Yeye sombori!!! |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by luorquay: 11:46am On Sep 19, 2015 |
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Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by INNOCENT16286: 11:48am On Sep 19, 2015 |
COME,DID HE GAVE YOU THE CASH WITH STRING ATTACHED-TELLING YOU THAT HE MAY NEED SEX. GIVE HIM THE MONEY IF WANT WHEREAS,IF HE IS MOUNTING PRESSURE THE MORE THEN LET SECURITY AGENTS KNOW. IT IS A SEXUAL ASSUALT IN A MAKING. DONOT SUCCUMB AND BE CAREFUL!!! THANKS |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by liquidmetall: 12:28pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
Nicepoker: This is so flicking funny and so true ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by ceejay4real(m): 12:37pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
ijustdey: Kai! U ar a very wicked girl. U Shd have paid him in kind since! Instead of waiting for the young man to remind you and u still had the audacity to bring the issue to Nairaland. OMG! U must be a witch! So he's Father Christmas abi? I don't blame you sha! It's him I wld blame 4 being a dumb ass! Who says women aren't snakes? Pls do the needful and stop pretending, virgin my foot! |
Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by Topsyvic(f): 3:41pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
Dats y i dnt belv in frnds ![]() Tell ur mum dear,ur virginity is ur dignity neva lose it to oloriburuku... |
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