An old class mate of mine told me this story concerning his two brothers. I just think I should share it here.


Uche and Olivia met at an NYSC Camp in 2012. Uche hails from Rivers State and Olivia is from Imo State. They were/are both Port Harcourt based before they were posted to Lagos for NYSC.

While at the Camp, they developed a friendship with later led to a serious relationship. After NYSC in 2013, they both returned to Port Harcourt, got jobs and continued with their relationship. In may 2015, they became engaged. Before this time, Uche had already become a very good uncle to Olivia's family. Infact, he has her siblings contacts and is in touch with the mother too as he visits the family regularly. He even assists them financially.
Now for the first time, Uche who lives alone decided to take Olivia to his family house so she could meet his family just 3 sundays ago. As they arrived the family house at about 1pm that day, Uche's younger brother on seeing Olivia rushed and hugged her like she's a friend he've not set his eyes on for ages. Uche over looked it and after the introduction, left the house with Olivia. He got back there 4 days later and asked his brother why he grabbed his gf when they both visited. His brother quickly told him that Olivia is his ex who he still loves and was seeing her for the first time in 2 years.
Uche later got back to Olivia, asked her if his brother was right and Olivia answered yes. She explained it all to him. According to her, she and Uche's brother dated from 2011 to 2013 (meaning she was still dateing him after she met Uche). She explained that she and Uche's brother has nothing going on between them right now. She wants Uche to forget everything and marry her.
Uche on the other hand wants to call it quit with her. To him, it's downgrading to marry his younger brother's ex. It could have been better if it was his elder brother that's involved. Uche has lost interest in Olivia but Olivia can't just let go. Uche is 32 and Olivia is 29.

If you were Uche, will you go into such marriage? For me, I can't marry someone who's been linked in romance with my brother, friend or enemy. It's even better that Uche discovered this before marriage. I like the fact that Olivia was honest but she has to let go.

She's an ex so what's da biggie??

1miccza:
She's an ex so what's da biggie??

Old firewood dey quick catch. That's the biggie.

doublewisdom:
Old firewood dey quick catch. That's the biggie.

Then him go make sure say dem no go meet now no be in wife??

Hehe... eleyii gidi gan
Hmmm.... the way they both greeted on seeing each other shows they didn't necessarily end their relationship on a bad note, which means if they both have opportunities to communicate, THE OLD DRY WOOD MIGHT CATCH FIRE WITHOUT MUCH FUEL.

Trust is very crucial in any relationship, I hope he'll be able to trust her and if he can't, age should not push the lady into a life commitment of NO TRUST.

1miccza:
She's an ex so what's da biggie??

For me it's a big deal. They might get back together. Imagine the moment when you see an ex

He shud call it quit! Or may b he wants an unfaithful wife

They should go their separate ways jo... ...

AlienStar:
He shud call it quit! Or may b he wants an unfaithful wife

so u get sense like diz,I been think say u go follow the rest of the women wey go shout "Don't dump her" .....

so for this,you deserve a high-five...

Legend eh lemme be o

IamLEGEND1:


so u get sense like diz,I been think say u go follow the rest of the women wey go shout "Don't dump her" .....

so for this,you deserve a high-five...

RedCard1:
For me it's a big deal. They might get back together. Imagine the moment when you see an ex

Well that's me though,you might be different.

I will f*ck her very well & she no go remember my brother or any other person again . That's the only solution to still keep her if not let her go

Op tell your friend to discharge d babe jare no need to pretend wld ave done same if I find myself in a similar situation.

AlienStar:
He shud call it quit! Or may b he wants an unfaithful wife

Which of the girls are u @dp? I'm interested in any of you. If u are not interested pls gladly pass d other lady to me. This is very urgent

Lol, buh we both r nt interested!

mascot87:


Which of the girls are u @dp? I'm interested in any of you. If u are not interested pls gladly pass d other lady to me. This is very urgent

AlienStar:
Lol, buh we both r nt interested!

Jealous girl She would be interested. Just let me have access to her & ur jealousy afterwards would be automatically upgraded
Pass her to me & prove me wrong

hmm-mm! ok o

mascot87:


Jealous girl She would be interested. Just let me have access to her & ur jealousy afterwards would be automatically upgraded
Pass her to me & prove me wrong

AlienStar:
hmm-mm! ok o

What's hmm-mm! ok o? Is that a way of letting me know her? let me have her number or pin

I will seek ha opinion first, which i know is a NO - NO.

mascot87:


What's hmm-mm! ok o? Is that a way of letting me know her? let me have her number or pin

No no no. No way, make he stop.
Once debe, always debe.
Moreso the brother fit sabi her mumu button.
Hr will just die of hypertension or heart attack. Wont be able to trust His wife or brother always suspecting something ,wen actually there's nothing or there might be something.
Any time he sees them together, he go get headache, he won't even be able to leave them alone.
Shud his brother com to visit them, he wud get attack .
To avoid untimely death , he shud quit

This mata get k leg ooo. The girl sef get her ow for body. I would say go on with the wedding. Trusting blood not necessarily the girl

AlienStar:
I will seek ha opinion first, which i know is a NO - NO.

Don't conclude on her behalf pls
Tell her classic man wants to know her

Classic? I hear!

mascot87:

Don't conclude on her behalf pls Tell her classic man wants to know her

It's allowed

AlienStar:
Classic? I hear!

You hear what? Yes classic man or aren't u a classic woman? Don't tell me u are down grading yourself
Seek first the opinion of your friend my angel (in my dreams for now) & let other things follow (number & pin)

mascot87:


You hear what? Yes classic man or aren't u a classic woman? Don't tell me u are down grading yourself
Seek first the opinion of your friend my angel (in my dreams for now) & let other things follow (number & pin)

lol, i like d "in my dreams" cos it's in ur dream.

AlienStar:
lol, i like d "in my dreams" cos it's in ur dream.

Talk to her first & let us get talking. Then with time I will know if I'm dreaming or not

Ok captain, ur wish is my command.

mascot87:


Talk to her first & let us get talking. Then with time I will know if I'm dreaming or not

AlienStar:
Ok captain, ur wish is my command.

Thank you.