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The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 5:23pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
This is very disturbing to me, as i just found out that my church has a standing law of no intimacy before marriage. And am getting worried marrying a lady without 'testing' her womanhood, considering what gurls have turn in to in this our time. However, i think We must seperate religeon from reality. Am afraid of taking such risk considering the fact that marriage is a serious business. Pls fellow Singles whats ur thought on this? Also married couples how did you do this? Pls share your experience. |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by AngryNigerian(m): 5:34pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
Trends change,traditions change,APC-change... ...but truths can't!!! 1st,who instituted marriage & what does his manual say? Never be swerved off-track by social trends... Karma is humanity's most terrible ally |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by Nobody: 5:35pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
you hv to check the engine, tire, body, electrical parts before u pay for a ride na 1 Like |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 5:45pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
onyenze123: my brother me sef taya o. I beg you don marry? |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by CallMeMadMan: 6:14pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
See wetin madness dey cause |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by Nobody: 6:17pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
Why do u want to taste d forbidden fruit? |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by kevoh(m): 6:26pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
Plunging into marriage without testing the waters is like taking a 50-50 risk, at times 70-30 in the case of infertility. There's no laid down rule as whatever step you take could result into success or total failure irrespective of your religious beliefs. If you must practice premarital sex and you confirm that all is well, then be moderate about the whole sex thing. For crying out loud, you will be spending the next 45 to 60 years with this person, you don't want to kill the whole excitement before the marriage kicks off. |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 6:32pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
kevoh: And how about the risks of not confirming her before marriage? |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by kevoh(m): 6:41pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
wealthinfos:My previous comment clearly explains all and neither supports ''Not confirming her before marriage" or is against it. There is no laid down rule,Sir. If you don't want to "confirm her" your choice the attendant risk is still 50-50, fail or succeed. If you want to confirm her your choice but please do the confirmation moderately. |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by Nobody: 7:43pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
wealthinfos: No, warming up... |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:00pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
Risk or no risk, abstinence is one cross I would carry so I can follow Christ. Let pre-marital sex/testing be one of the things I count as loss, so I can gain Christ. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 8:01pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
CallMeMadMan: @Madman, which madness are u referring to? |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by widowhusband: 9:35pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
ok you want to be sure she does not have congenital gynatresia. |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 10:22pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
widowhusband: oga i beg break the grammer small make i understand |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by misreal(m): 10:25pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
Gaborone:you are simply the best. 1 Like |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by CallMeMadMan: 1:30pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
wealthinfos:The one wey dey your head |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 6:18pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
CallMeMadMan:@Madman, and what is the madness about the post? Pls share ur position |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 6:20pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
misreal:pls say ur own opinion on the issue |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by misreal(m): 6:31pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
wealthinfos:you should know my view on this issue by now. 1 Like |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 7:01pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Somebody should tell me that yes there are no risks marrying a lady without testing her womanhood! Oya i dey wait:p |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by Nobody: 6:43pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by misreal(m): 7:59pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Gaborone:you welcome. |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 11:25pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
misreal: and i will take it that you didnt test your wife before marrying her |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by misreal(m): 7:23am On Sep 23, 2015 |
wealthinfos:i would rather not get married than sin against God. |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 10:57am On Sep 23, 2015 |
misreal: Mr. Too holy, And i will take it that you meant there is no need testing her before marriage? |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by Nobody: 11:37am On Sep 23, 2015 |
people this days have become wiser than God.They have logical reasons why they should not abide in the wisdom of God- why they should test before marriage. but some of us concurs and will defend the wisdom of God |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by plappville(f): 12:44pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
wealthinfos: Why do u think it is the woman that needs to be tested? This is the problem with most Africa men. They always believe that infertility is a womans problem. Some men will not care to check themselves medically if their liquid is productive. When they marry and they have problems with producing kids. They put the blame on the woman. Haba.. See what i have been reading here shows a selfish way of reasoning. By the way, why do u want to test the woman? What happens if your first test result to having a baby? U will now say. Please abort it am not ready yet. I pity women who allow themselves to be slaved by men all because they want to marry. A true Christian should trust God when making his/her choice. God said, the thoughts i have for you are (good) why not trust him? Instead u want to bycut. Satan is polluting the church with negetive thoughts. I can see that. |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by plappville(f): 12:47pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
wealthinfos: If you dont trust her. Why go for her at the first place? By the way, are u so sure of yourself? |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by jmoore(m): 1:17pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
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Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by CallMeMadMan: 9:52pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
wealthinfos:Go to yaba left and ask |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by wealthinfos(m): 10:55pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
plappville: Testing her is not just for fertility alone. Knowing her sex life, style and exposure is a factor that cannot be pushed aside. Nobody wono marry a lady he'll regret for the rest of thier life! Buying a product without testing it defnately the impact could be 50/50 or sometimes below! The reason why many homes break apart. Married men can confirm this. |
Re: The Risks Of 'No intimacy' Before Marriage by Nobody: 4:14pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
Gaborone:I just clicked a Like to this |
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