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My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by guccidriver93k: 9:09am On Sep 21, 2015 |
My boyfriend said I should buy him Gucci Driver shoes worth N93k when I am coming home for Christmas break, said he will give me the money when I come back. This is going to be the first time we will meet since we started our fragile relationship 9 months ago, we knew a bit in University few years ago. Severally, I have told my boyfriend prior to now that I cannot afford it. Last before now, he said "but you can start saving now and you will get the money before your arrival". So this time, to be the virtuous girlfriend, I had to go all out and check up the prices for this shoe. I think he assumes that because I am a self-sponsored student abroad, I am Dantata's love child. Anytime i debunk this claim, he goes like "haba!" and 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by guccidriver93k: 9:09am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Screenshots added. Picture 1 and 2, me. Picture 3 and 4, him. And also, if you are wondering how "Wife" came in in the last conversation, I also wondered but then maybe its because I mentioned "save and invest" Lalasticlala Ishilove Modified: For those asking, there are no conversations in between. I sent him the first and the second. Then he responded with the third and hours later, the fourth. 4 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by guccidriver93k: 9:10am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Now, I am a student, furthering my studies. And he is working, he has worked for sometime too. Ok, so I have some money that I am saving to do something later next year, when I will be graduating. But my fear is that he doesn't sound like he will give me back this money. Two, I have a problem with him wearing a 93k shoe in this harsh economy knowing that the money can be saved and invested in something of worth. His choice at the end of the day sha. Do you think I should buy it Opinions pls 60 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by xamuel17(m): 9:14am On Sep 21, 2015 |
slippers don finish for market? 577 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by 5minsmadness: 9:14am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Em... Ok... So why are you telling us? 17 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by guccidriver93k: 9:17am On Sep 21, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Pls read again and advice. Thanks 56 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by 5minsmadness: 9:20am On Sep 21, 2015 |
guccidriver93k:What's there to advice Your boyfriend said u should buy him something and he'll pay u back when u enter naija. You should have even offered to tell him not to bother paying back and bring it as a gift but that aside what's wrong with it? ***modified OK av read the rest of the story. Well maybe a girl should answer this. As a guy I see nothing wrong with it, we give girls gifts all the time. Even when they say they'll pay back and deep down we know they won't we give them anyway. If u don't trust him then u Ave no buisness calling him your boyfriend. If you can afford the n97k but don't want to give him cos you think it's too expensive then politely tell him so. Abi ladies Wat do you think? Tearoses, MarvellousGod? 78 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Yustash001(m): 9:22am On Sep 21, 2015 |
93k shoes..nitori Olohun 148 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Jackeeh(m): 9:23am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Sure he'll pay you back! Or is he not your boyfriend again? He'll surely pay back. IN KIND! meanwhile, As you're buying, just kiss ur 93k goodbye. If u had agreed to get him the shoe, he would have agreed he's your husband. Now he's angry u tried to reason with him ; One of the qualities of a gold digging boyfriend. OP if this isn't enough eye opener for u, then I smh 4u. 369 Likes 12 Shares
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Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Hazardd(m): 9:31am On Sep 21, 2015 |
give me your boyfriend number let me confirm if he will surely give you back your money... Don't bother thanking me 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by bukatyne(f): 9:31am On Sep 21, 2015 |
guccidriver93k: 1. Do you know how much his salary is? This would help you know the kind of man he is. If he has vision or not. 2. Since the 93K is your savings, it is not wise to use it for a frivolous want. He might not 'pay' back Girlfriend, be wise. Tell him you cannot afford it and if he can send 70% or 80% of the money, you would not mind adding up the balance to purchase it. This way, you safeguard your hard earned savings if he doesn't pay back. Shine your eyes... a man who wants a 93k shoes which he cannot afford at once is suspect. Goodluck 311 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Richy4(m): 9:44am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Nairaland is becoming something else. What did you say to him? Did you pause or mute his statement when he was saying it just to ask Nairalanders and resume when you got satisfying answers? Biko tell him yes you will buy it ie if you have the money or no you cannot afford it simple. I think nairaland are getting tired of when people spits, they ask why the spittle was white. Or If they sh!t , they create a thread to ask why they should use tissue papers or advise on how to use tissue papers 13 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Nobody: 10:13am On Sep 21, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Nothing wrong with buying something for your guy voluntarily. . Op's case is different; 1) she's been compelled to do it... 2) She doesn't have excess cash to spend as she stated she will be buying the shoe with a savings she kept for something important. .. So, it's totally unwise op... If you must buy it, then he should send the money first. .. since he has the money at hand, why can't he send it already? 83 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by 5minsmadness: 10:15am On Sep 21, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:1. How is she being 'compelled'? 2. I didn't see where it was written that the 97k is her savings oh. She didn't say that. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Nobody: 10:20am On Sep 21, 2015 |
5minsmadness:She didn't just come up with buying the shoe for her bf, she's been talked into it by her bf..though she has a choice. .. guccidriver93k: 31 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by guccidriver93k: 10:20am On Sep 21, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Please read again. Screenshots added. 7 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by guccidriver93k: 10:25am On Sep 21, 2015 |
funlord: Lol. This was was my sister told me too till I showed her screenshots of our conversation. I also attached it here for peeps like you Can you now comment 14 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Nobody: 10:30am On Sep 21, 2015 |
guccidriver93k:@screenshots, The bobo isn't even polite 54 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by 5minsmadness: 10:31am On Sep 21, 2015 |
guccidriver93k:You keep adding new info to this your story. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Acidosis(m): 10:34am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Why don't you get him a car? 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by guccidriver93k: 10:34am On Sep 21, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Yea, people arent getting the whole gist. So a little add ups to make sure I represent the full story. Besides I was in a hurry initially. Had to go and answer my supervisor. Thanks all the same 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by bukatyne(f): 10:46am On Sep 21, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: He is very rude. 55 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by KanwuliaJara: 10:51am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Dear OP. You. . . . . Registered today! Problems to share already. Screaming for front since yesterday. You even know ALL THE FRONT-PAGE NEWS TEKNO-RATS? You be PSYCHIC? Na wa o. Anybarrrrry know which blog this was lifted from? *off to mind my business jor* 8 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by KanwuliaJara: 11:02am On Sep 21, 2015 |
guccidriver93k: Hmmmmmmmmm This NL na waya!!!!! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by guccidriver93k: 11:05am On Sep 21, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: Lol. I'm a regular reader here madam. Just registered to get ideas on how to intelligently solve this issue. I remember you Madame Calloti 9 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by KanwuliaJara: 11:07am On Sep 21, 2015 |
guccidriver93k: Hmmmmmm!!! Okaaaaaaaay! Sooooooo, how many universities did you attend in the past 2 YEARS at HOME and ABROAD? Not prying or getting personal. Just trying to understand this ya tory? 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by guccidriver93k: 11:09am On Sep 21, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: Just one. My undergraduate university is different from the current university where I am currently doing my masters. We knew in undergrad days back in Naija. 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by KanwuliaJara: 11:13am On Sep 21, 2015 |
guccidriver93k: Just one? You mean 2? There' is something "flaky" about your story. For a "fragile 9-month", long distance relationship, why would you go ALL OUT TO CHECK FOR PRICES? Especially, as YOU KNOW IT COSTS 93K in the NAIRA EQUIVALENT? This na real "Masters" material o! 6 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Sleekbaby(f): 11:18am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Don't buy it bcoz he will not pay u back, what stops him from sending u d money if he is really serious about paying back knowing fully well that you are a student, just tell him that you don't have such money. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Dyt(f): 11:18am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Acidosis: 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Said I Should Buy Him Gucci Driver Shoes (screenshots) by Nobody: 11:22am On Sep 21, 2015 |
If he can pay back why doesn't he just send the money at christmas time so you can buy and bring it over? Unless this loan is for an indefinite period of time and has a 36 month payback period or till Jesus comes, perhaps!!! Don't buy the shoes, and tell him why; you don't have the money. Period. I think you're scared of losing this guy, maybe because of your investments in time, emotion, and money already?. But I think going further with someone this selfish and inconsiderate is an even bigger mistake. The more time you spend with this fella, the harder it'll be to leave. I'm only telling you this because I would do the same if a girlfriend had behaved like your boo. I'd have laughed her to scorn and told her to fvck off. My $0.02. 72 Likes 5 Shares |
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