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Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 8:35pm On Sep 22, 2015
dating a lady 3-4 years now. after her service year she no gree me rest na marriage dis marriage dat n am tired now. what are ur views about it
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 8:38pm On Sep 22, 2015
It's a 'tradition' the lazy one's adopt. Their mates are out there thinking about getting a life y'know smiley
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 8:39pm On Sep 22, 2015
Its called blended programming from parents,extended family, media,friends, society and somehow you too are involved.

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Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by pet4ril(f): 8:43pm On Sep 22, 2015
If she's in her late 30s and she knows you are capable of taking care of her, what else do you expect from her
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 8:46pm On Sep 22, 2015
Everything in life is in stages, after school and youth service, a lady is expected to get married, particularly if she has a responsible man. U should be happy she finds you as a husband material.

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Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 8:46pm On Sep 22, 2015
cant de help their guy with some certain thing before de settle scores
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 8:47pm On Sep 22, 2015
cant de help their guy with some certain thing before de settle scores .
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 8:48pm On Sep 22, 2015
its the norm...regular life cycle.
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 8:49pm On Sep 22, 2015
codedkode:
cant de help their guy with some certain thing before de settle scores
things like what?
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 8:50pm On Sep 22, 2015
firstEVA:
Everything in life is in stages, after school and youth service, a lady is expected to get married, particularly if she has a responsible man. U should be happy she finds you as a husband material.

can u invest in dat guy u belive in monetary wise.

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Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 8:53pm On Sep 22, 2015
codedkode:


can u invest in dat guy u belive in monetary wise.

if I have the money, I will. But I must be convinced he's not the type of man that would want to depend on me financially all the time.
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by ednut1(m): 8:54pm On Sep 22, 2015
Lazy Liabilities

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Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 8:55pm On Sep 22, 2015
firstEVA:
things like what?
cant she work a while,,enjoy her single time to max.
y b from fry pan to fire
from parent command to husband command

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Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 8:56pm On Sep 22, 2015
firstEVA:
Everything in life is in stages, after school and youth service, a lady is expected to get married, particularly if she has a responsible man. U should be happy she finds you as a husband material.

What u said up there is rabbitch ma'am esp if the lady concerned is still in her (early/mid) 20's smiley
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 8:58pm On Sep 22, 2015
firstEVA:
if I have the money, I will. But I must be convinced he's not the type of man that would want to depend on me financially all the time.

in a public bus,,ladies discussing dat de can neva trust dea hubby wit money. aw true is dat
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 8:58pm On Sep 22, 2015
Sabrwahaqqo:


What u said up there is rabbitch ma'am esp if the lady concerned is still in her (early/mid) 20's smiley
is a girl of 24 too young to marry?

Well, the girl has more pressure both internal and external when she's in her late 20s
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 9:02pm On Sep 22, 2015
codedkode:


cant she work a while,,enjoy her single time to max.

y b from fry pan to fire

from parent command to husband command
truth is a lot of women just like to be under the control of a man, only our feminists of nowadays feel differently. What use is freedom and enjoyment of single life when it can lead to temptations (unfaithfulness etc)

Pls if you are comfortable, marry her, don't waste time

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Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 9:06pm On Sep 22, 2015
firstEVA:
is a girl of 24 too young to marry?

Well, the girl has more pressure both internal and external when she's in her late 20s


Absolutely not ! BUT, she should at least get herself firm on a career path before saying YES !
Saying YES is a veeerrry biiiiiggg contract y'know so, she must have ' smaller contract' (job) and all to fall back on in case things fail to go as planned with the big contract... So, I'm still right!
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by naijaboiy: 9:08pm On Sep 22, 2015
Are you not ready to marry her?

Or is 3-4 years not long over due?

Please don't turn her into Lord of the rings o undecided

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Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 9:13pm On Sep 22, 2015
firstEVA:
truth is a lot of women just like to be under the control of a man, only our feminists of nowadays feel differently. What use is freedom and enjoyment of single life when it can lead to temptations (unfaithfulness etc)

Pls if you are comfortable, marry her, don't waste time


live to shot for rubbish
she talk say my driving to slow for service lane, say make i enter express lane
so me decide make she no waste time for my lane n xpress self no go free sef so i con redirect her to brt lane
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 9:16pm On Sep 22, 2015
naijaboiy:
Are you not ready to marry her?

Or is 3-4 years not long over due?

Please don't turn her into Lord of the rings o undecided

dos years were undergraduate days
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Rucheen(m): 9:17pm On Sep 22, 2015
What do want from a graduate that have finished service. hit and run?
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Nobody: 9:26pm On Sep 22, 2015
codedkode:



live to shot for rubbish
she talk say my driving to slow for service lane, say make i enter express lane
so me decide make she no waste time for my lane n xpress self no go free sef so i con redirect her to brt lane
are you rapping or what?
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by Jhamani(m): 9:39pm On Sep 22, 2015
She doesn't want to lose you to another girl but let her understand that u aren't ready for marraige.
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by lilmax(m): 9:45pm On Sep 22, 2015
codedkode:


can u invest in dat guy u belive in monetary wise.

in what situation is she expected to invest in a man?
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 9:56pm On Sep 22, 2015
omg
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 10:37pm On Sep 22, 2015
wea @ thou
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by emperorchedda(m): 10:42pm On Sep 22, 2015
firstEVA:
Everything in life is in stages, after school and youth service, a lady is expected to get married, particularly if she has a responsible man. U should be happy she finds you as a husband material.
What?? Did you say a lady is expected to get married after school??
Lord please instill in our girls the habit of getting a job and being independent before thinking of marriage.

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Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by emperorchedda(m): 10:45pm On Sep 22, 2015
Rucheen:
What do want from a graduate that have finished service. hit and run?
Job sir
Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by tpiander: 10:48pm On Sep 22, 2015
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Re: Whats It With Ladies And After School Marriage Mentality by codedkode: 10:50pm On Sep 22, 2015
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any problem with dat
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