| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by rattlesnake(m): 10:17pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Ode 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:18pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the s i'm so CONFUSED.
what makes u think he wont fvck with u and think of getting someone else just thr same way he did his wife. do u think fvcking som1 and getting her pregnant is a sign of love? if it was then he shud av stayed with his wife because he wasnt forced to impregnate her in the first place. if u was my sister, u go get sense by force. 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by joshrare(m): 10:19pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
This is the power of money mehnn!!!! When money talks bitches work!!!
Hey bitch you are in love with his money and properties forget that tall and handsomeness u are blabbing about.. The money is that much to an extent that it turns your brain diagonally....
Anyway in fame's voice "follow your heart" 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by FtLawi: 10:19pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
you have not done anything bad . move on jare. its not bad islamically. but don't allow him to have sex with you without paying your bride price. |
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| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by soonest(f): 10:20pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
I like your sincerity but i must tell you the bitter truth! He belongs to someone else. Will you be happy knowing you are a second fiddle, the source of another woman's unhappiness. Now is the time to break that relationship as he's going away for phd. Cry to God, He will give you yours at the fullness of time. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:20pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
long story... |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by flawlessT(f): 10:20pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
This whole thing is crystal clear dearie,God wants u to leave dah man for good 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by princebaby(m): 10:20pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Ashawoo 5 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by bid4rich(m): 10:21pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
The only question I will ask you is this...............................
If you are the first wife, will you allow your husband to take a second wife?
The way the guy is charming to you is the same way he will be charming to some ladies like yo out there that will make him opt for the 3rd wife.
My dear friend, don't offend God by breaking what He has joined together. Go find your own man that will love you unconditionally. There are many men out there still looking for responsible and lovely lady like you
If you break someone's home, someone will break your own home too. AMEN 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:22pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Finders keepers losers weepers...if she can't make her husband happy then by all means make him happy jo! But remember, if you stop making him happy at any point in the relationship, expect him to do exactly the same thing to you...welcome to the circus enjoy |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:22pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
THAT IS WHY I ALWAYS SAID THAT NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN AN ANIMALS  YOU EVEN OPEN THAT GOD DAME SMELLING MOUTH AND SAY YOU ARE INLOVE WITH HIM  EEEDIOT! YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HIS properties. THERE GOES THIS SAYING: A WOMAN WILL BUILD A HOME WHILE ANOTHER WOMAN WILL DESTROY THAT WOMAN'S HOME. SO THE PROCESS repeat ITSELF AGAIN. GET READY FOR YOUR OWN HOME TO DESTROY BY ANOTHER WOMAN 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by meforyou1(m): 10:23pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Op, u be mumu. And a liar.
At 33, he works in ministry and has properties? Which ministry is that?
Go and meet his wife and his children and interact with them. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by chineloSA(f): 10:23pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
All this " I was forced to marry her " is just shitty scam. I have someone I know who was in a similar situation as you. The man promised her to divorce the first wife and marry her. He asked for a baby  She fell into his trap. One month after the baby was born, the man started taking reverse steps until he completely landed back into his first wife's arms. The girl is left with the baby boy, though the man supports his child. And till today he is divorcing the wife and the baby is four years old now. I guess he cant find the pen to sign the divorce decree. Get pregnant you will see where his loyalty lies. Its your choice. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by isahsalee: 10:23pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Are you an European?, you re an African for cry out loud. Marrying a married man is not alien to our culture. Go on Jare, |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by flawlessT(f): 10:23pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
vizkiz:
another hoe on the loose... So what about the guy you were dating before you met this married man?
Catch her n tire smwhr pls  ,she will replace me for d main tym...lol |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by LastProphet: 10:23pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
stinggy:
It's funny to see guys criticizing her. What's the bad thing if she prefers being the second wife  there's nothing wrong with it except that she should be ready to welcome the 3rd, 4th and possibly 5th wife after her. I can tell her authoritatively that she will not be last. quote me! 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by amerengues(m): 10:24pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chommieblaq:
Let's take chill pill n stop d criticism. First of all she never knew he was married before falling hopelessly in love with him. Ma only advise is polygamy comes with many ups n down, if u weigh d pros n cons and feel u can bear it, then it's fyn. Being a second wife is far better than being a mistress!!!
Nice comment I tell you. But I have a feeling this story is made up just to hear pple's view. Anyway, I won't criticize you if this is real but since you now know, please walk away.
Buh if u can't, then start detaching ur self, it's not really easy to do buh u just have to. Cheers |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:24pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Princecalm:
sometimes I ask if Love and stupidity have anything in common They do o my brother. Both are twins |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by arabianights: 10:26pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
Believe the bolded statement at your peril.Yes married men can be very charming and women tend to fall in love very easily But they can be very cunning . Walk away as much as it hurts you, walk away.Dump him before he dumps you.The story he gave you are common lies used by men. walk away........Respect your self and get your act together 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by PublicAssurance: 10:26pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Na Today?.....as if u don't know right from wrong.. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:27pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
abbey621:
And you believed him, are you mad? No guy can be forced to marry a woman due to pregnancy and he ends up having two more children with the lady. The guy was not forced in anyway, he's a flirt and a very good storyteller! Rotfl.... Epic reply mate. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by rabiuchi: 10:27pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
I almost left my wife and 2 kids for a colleague in my office. I tot I was in luv. It was a lie, I was only enjoying the everyday pussy and blinded by her proximity cos wify is in anoda state. The day I realized I was destroying my future and dat she can never be for me like my wife. I left. It took Jesus Grace cos I almost impregnate her. He will leave u without regret after awhile. Just pack n leave.
Thank you. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by francescainnoce(f): 10:27pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
You have met your match.....
At least not only you will be going to hell.....
Mtcheeeeeeeew 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by anataala: 10:28pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
GO ahead and maary him VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
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| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:29pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Sister, i doff my hat for your sincerity!! God bless you for that.
Coming to the issue, sister , being a second wife is sooo wrong
Dividing and breaking someone home is another wrong
How would a pretty young lady like u who has being blessed by GOD be used by the devil to go against God's will.
Read Matt 19:4-9.
The devil is a bastard who will want to make things look so sweet.
Get off that man immediately! Tell him it could be sweet with you guys but IT IS WRONG!
GET OUT FROM THAT RELATIONSHIP! THE END IS HELL. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by harry509: 10:29pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
am nt suprise @ all. Dis is wat nigeria girls know's hw 2 do best. Home breaka's Jst put urslf on dat woman shoe, wil u b happy if such happen 2 u? And he told u family member force him 2 marry d woman and dsame woman has 3kids 4 him and u Rr also happy he wana take u as a 2nd wife. HmmmM! I tink ur brain box need hydrolic fluid. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by darlenese(f): 10:29pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
I don't want to believe that dumb girls like u st I can bet ur sense is under ur feet, u are obviously matching it on the floor! At 25 ur eye still tie wrapper  7 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:29pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
sonofananimal:
THAT IS WHY I ALWAYS SAID THAT NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN AN ANIMALS
YOU EVEN OPEN THAT GOD DAME SMELLING MOUTH AND SAY YOU ARE INLOVE WITH HIM
EEEDIOT! YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HIS properties.
THERE GOES THIS SAYING: A WOMAN WILL BUILD A HOME WHILE ANOTHER WOMAN WILL DESTROY THAT WOMAN'S HOME. SO THE PROCESS repeat ITSELF AGAIN.
GET READY FOR YOUR OWN HOME TO DESTROY BY ANOTHER WOMAN Jesu.... This guy again.... Seconded tho |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by dammytosh: 10:29pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
U are not in love
You are a thief, a potential armed robber and an eediot 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by atine79(m): 10:31pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Shebarh:
You want an advice put ya self in the woman's shoe first before seeking for an advice ceteris paribus. What if the first wife pretends to love him. Can she put herself in the same shoes. My two cents |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Onyeudo1: 10:31pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Sorry wicked girl.sorry husband snatcher
Sorry hopeless girl. You better be careful of your life |
