| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:57pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Thank God, u started with CONFUSION and ended in CONFUSION...
FOR you will remain confused until, u realise that confusion is part of a woman's existence.
Go and Grab the opportunity.
Who knows u may have been earmarked for polygamy.
We have 2 GENETIC strands in this world
1) sense gene........ for men
2) antisense.......... .for women 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Toks2008(m): 10:58pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
Young lady you have no reason to castigate yourself alright... You followed your heart and while i have always advised against initial gragra and asking people to be more cautious, i still believe that in this case the man played you by not telling you on time before you fell sheepishly for him. Having said that,the choice is now yours. Many people will call for my head for this advice im about to give you and i do not care because many people are good at throwing words of advice without really looking deep into the situation. You are a woman and ladies will fall for any man who can really melt their hearts in any way they believe is ok by them.Polygamy is not a sin and i have never seen a place in the bible that condemns it except an advice that as deacons and workers in GOD's vineyard we should be husband of one wife but there is never a place in the bible that condemns polygamy nevertheless i will not advice you to go into that union due to complexity and especially when you are still young because if you were in your late 30s i would have asked you to give it a shot if you are ok being the second wife and will not in anyway cry when the complexities begin to rear its head. Nevertheless young lady, if you believe you are deeply in love and he is what you need whether because he is cute or rich or for whatever reason(But i can bet you will never fall in love with a broke married man) please go ahead and become a second wife if that is what rocks your boat. As i have written before, should you decide to go ahead please do and follow your heart but be prepared for the complexities which could cost you your life if the first wife goes desperately diabolic or the man may go ahead and do same thing with you with a third lady so weigh the options before you make up your mind putting into consideration your heart desires. 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by tanidabi: 11:00pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Madam, Respect urself o and wear some sense,that pregnancy stunt na lie.He won't marry u, so move on u are still very young don't be decieved abeg too many men just talk nonsense how can u even entertain the thought of been a second wife at 25 smh he VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
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| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by jewelbaby55(f): 11:01pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
engrhorla:
Funny thing is all these so called helpless and confused people never come back to tell us the end result...
Nigerians are just confused frm d days of Lord Lugard! lol you are very funny but you are right though |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by tonychristopher: 11:02pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
Stay away or be ready to welcome Mr. Nemesis But why is it that ladies are this stupid ..so in your wildest dream you think that such a dude won't be married Stay the fvck away from him or the wife will bath you with acid ...pls I advise you Go look for a man that you can build future together Bye |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Mistermamus(m): 11:02pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Errr and dont cry wen a young gal falls in love with ya husband. Guess u knw dat lovely word KARMA! continu |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by humilitypays(m): 11:02pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
freecocoa:
Just know chances of marrying another woman and setting her up is very high.
How do you love a man that cheated on his wife? Na wa o. Who told you she loves the man? it is the money...of course money brings out the hidden love in most women  A girl will be forming: I am not ready for a relationship, but the moment she meets a financially loaded guy, she changes song to: "he is tall, handsome, caring, decent, God fearing and so nice"....all na money  Have you ever heard a lady describe a rich guy as ugly, short  2face Idibia is not tall, but to 99.9% ladies, he is taller than Michael Jordan Sometimes I wish all guys could be rich, but unfortunately, its not possible, sighs  3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by ststyreal(f): 11:02pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Am going to pour all my anger and hatred on u tonight for deliberately wanting to destroy another woman's joy. U r a thief, oleeeeeee, ala tenu je somebody, devils incarnate, stupid and wicked animal, in fact calling u an animal is second glorifying u, u r nothing but an ape. E kwensu, if u don't leave that man alone, d prayer I usually pray for husband snatchers like u, is that God will put confusions between you too, and so it shall b for u. This man will henceforth in d name of Jesus begin to hate u with passion that d sight of u will always irritate him, lord please destroy every home destroyer by fire in Jesus name, amen. Thief, u r not even afraid of God who made them both man and wife. Oleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, thief, stealer of peoples joy, leave another woman's husband and look for your own. Oloshi. In fact u dey irritate me, wetin u wan teach d children wey una go born for dis kain marriage wey u steal another woman joy. U better leave that man alone, if u don't want death and the wrath of God to visit u. Smmmmmmmmh for husband stealers. 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by YEM101: 11:04pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
His family forced him to marry his wife cos he got her pregnant then they hv 3 kids , hmmmm pls shine ur eyes, don't be surprise if after using u very well dump u and stick wt his wife, pls break up wt him, let him concentrate on his family and u look for a single guy to start life with, u don't knw what his wife went thru b4 he amass his properties & wealth that is making u blindly in love wt him. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 11:04pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
That guy na bad guy sha,knack knack you ton ton kon confess when hin don belleful,the way you dull ehn,kai.better do a pregnancy test and pray its negative and break up with him asap. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by WAMDIEO(m): 11:04pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
[color=#990000][/color][b][/b] kimnicki:
Sweetie it's not advisable to date a married man..not to talk of getting married to him
how sure are you that when you even agree for second wife,he won't find another girl when he goes abroad for his PhD and also tell that one stories too and marry her
I'd leave you with the law of Karma "what goes around comes back around" first of all if you are a muslim that means its halal for you to go in as second wife and if you are not a muslim but a Christ like you already know what it means. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by lordchiz(m): 11:04pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Come n date me and u will knw dat d guy's own is child's play |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by endeedike(m): 11:04pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
sister..you are a pen.is thief... in igbo we call u "onye oshi amu" aka prick thief because u have been stealing another woman's husband 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 11:05pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Since polygamy is practiced in Nigeria, I don't see what the problem is. Just don't get pregnant until he marries you. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by cococandy(f): 11:06pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
[size=28pt]Xtupid girl .[/size] 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Seawhy(m): 11:06pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Dear OP, it is pertinent to go through the words of God. From a man's ribs, God created a woman called Eve. The key thing here is that every man has a woman and offcourse, the first married woman stands as the man's wife. Any other woman on him, is not a wife but what I might call concubine. Another point that you raised is that the guy is tall and handsome, fine, but he can never be the best pot in the market, better pots are still in the market and you cannot know unless you get to the market, so my dear that man is not the best pot in the market. Another point is that what goes around turns around and don't do people what you won't like people to do you. How willyou feel assuming that you were in that woman's shoe and you husband brought a woman and call her his second wife. Am sure that you will not like it. Another point is that you are chasis now but later he will find out that he must not be eating only egusi and that he needs to change soup, he will now look for eaglet and abandone you.
My dear, it might not be easy for you, but be on your knees and tell God to give you your own husband and God will surely do that.
I wish you the best. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by chineloSA(f): 11:06pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
rabiuchi:
I almost left my wife and 2 kids for a colleague in my office. I tot I was in luv. It was a lie, I was only enjoying the everyday pussy and blinded by her proximity cos wify is in anoda state. The day I realized I was destroying my future and dat she can never be for me like my wife. I left. It took Jesus Grace cos I almost impregnate her. He will leave u without regret after awhile. Just pack n leave.
Thank you. God is good.  1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MadCow1: 11:06pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
Babe.. I was cool with your story until you started talking marriage and babies.. Biitch better run.. Nuff said. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by 5minsmadness: 11:08pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
[size=28pt]Why do Ladies NEVER learn [/size] |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 11:08pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,
I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.
At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.
He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).
I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....
Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.
You are a HOE! Thank you so much for permitting me to insult you 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by tellwisdom: 11:08pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
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| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by humilitypays(m): 11:09pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
ststyreal:
Am going to pour all my anger and hatred on u tonight for deliberately wanting to destroy another woman's joy. U r a thief, oleeeeeee, ala tenu je somebody, devils incarnate, stupid and wicked animal, in fact calling u an animal is second glorifying u, u r nothing but an ape. E kwensu, if u don't leave that man alone, d prayer I usually pray for husband snatchers like u, is that God will put confusions between you too, and so it shall b for u. This man will henceforth in d name of Jesus begin to hate u with passion that d sight of u will always irritate him, lord please destroy every home destroyer by fire in Jesus name, amen. Thief, u r not even afraid of God who made them both man and wife. Oleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, thief, stealer of peoples joy, leave another woman's husband and look for your own. Oloshi. In fact u dey irritate me, wetin u wan teach d children wey una go born for dis kain marriage wey u steal another woman joy. U better leave that man alone, if u don't want death and the wrath of God to visit u. Smmmmmmmmh for husband stealers. Falls from garden egg tree and faints! 
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| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by 5minsmadness: 11:09pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
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| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by M4gunners: 11:09pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
So this torri make front page hw? |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by summerflame(m): 11:11pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
How I wish I have a gun. When will you sluts stop acting infidelity with married men?..
Stop destroying another people's home. Life is a karma |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by cococandy(f): 11:12pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Tenk you  ted1741:
Since you said abuse is allowed, I will go straight to it. You claim that you are not materialistic yet you shout aloud how "loaded" this man is, that makes you a materialistic girl my dear. You also said he was willing to settle you in another state and it seems you are also thinking about that option. He is able to settle you because he can afford to, again, a materialistic mind. He took you out of the shores of the country and you jumped for it. How is it that you have a good job, can afford these things and yet, extremely excited at the opportunities and doing all these things with a man you barely knew, someone you met online. You were blinded by the material things he is giving and so, failed to ask the basic questions good girls ask. It took you a while to know he is married because you never asked and you never asked because you were materialistic. How difficult is this for you to comprehend. Most girls ask right off the bat, are you married, do you have kids etc. Am sure there were times when you called and he didn't pick your calls because he was with his family. If you asked and he lied, how does that make him your dream man. He is your dream man becos he has money period. The only reason you're considering the idea of becoming his second wife is he is loaded according to you. You even belief he was forced to marry, lol, you are extremely naive and gullible young woman. Go and marry him and be prepared for a life of chaos, battle, name calling, headaches, regrets, a useless life. If you want to know whether he was forced to marry this woman, give her a call, chat her up. He is decent according to you, yet he wants to get you pregnant and jet out of the country. He took you out of the country and sampled you day in day out and hid such fundamental information of his background from you, yet you call him decent. Decent my foot. Arent you ashamed to call a con man decent. Some nigerian girls and money; you will never cease to amuse and amaze me. I say some because there are a lot of decent, good, God fearing Nigerian girls out there who will never compromise their principles and sociatla norms and values. Ask your mr. right to go and see your parents and ask for your hand in marriage and watch his reaction. Are you demented? By the way, if this man was poor, not loaded, will you be considering this marriage. If he really loves and wants to marry you, why the thought of sending you to a different state instead of keeping you in his family home so that you can bond with his other wife and children and your children bond with their siblings. Do you actually have such a low self esteem that you are willing to go on "exile" for a decent man. I wish I was near you, boil 360 degrees hot water, pour it and wake up your retarded brian from stupor, useless girl. Don't you feel bad that this man actually is using you for sexual satisfaction? Why do you believe his mumbo jumbo and cheap talks. You should be angry with him for hiding issues of his background from you just to get in between your legs instead of talking of been loaded. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 11:12pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Is there any thing new? It's a common way of life for most naija hoes. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by HopeAlive14(m): 11:13pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
No matter the level of love you feel you have for him, it is time for you to disengage - NOW!
Hopefully, prayerfully, you will find love again, in and with someone else who will be ten times better than him.
Don't limit God! |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by freecocoa(f): 11:13pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
humilitypays:
Who told you she loves the man? it is the money...of course money brings out the hidden love in most women
A girl will be forming: I am not ready for a relationship, but the moment she meets a financially loaded guy, she changes song to: "he is tall, handsome, caring, decent, God fearing and so nice"....all na money
Have you ever heard a lady describe a rich guy as ugly, short 2face Idibia is not tall, but to 99.9% ladies, he is taller than Michael Jordan
Sometimes I wish all guys could be rich, but unfortunately, its not possible, sighs She didn't know he was married when they started dating, did she? This lady is very stup1d in my opinion but you can't say for sure that she didn't really like the guy for who he is, before the discovery. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by cococandy(f): 11:14pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
5minsmadness:
We agree?
****checks outside to see if the world has ended... Mtchew. When did polygamy become a bad thing in your books? You should be checking yourself to see what changed in your life. Maybe you received Jesus after all. Lol Whatever it is, I thank God for that. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by ceecee0703(m): 11:15pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
so if we tell u that there is no problem u will be happy abi?
see my dear no kid urself u are breaking a womans home and even if u marry him someone will break yours....u av enjoyed the r.ship for 6months u av to quite now and get ur own man. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Boller: 11:16pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
This is the best advise so far. sometimes I wonder the majority of Nairalander. Some majority here dont have sense of advice but abusive sense. Those who will do worst when it's their turn on a matter like this will still abuse. Abasha, Iranu. Toks2008:
Young lady you have no reason to castigate yourself alright...
You followed your heart and while i have always advised against initial gragra and asking people to be more cautious, i still believe that in this case the man played you by not telling you on time before you fell sheepishly for him.
Having said that,the choice is now yours. Many people will call for my head for this advice im about to give you and i do not care because many people are good at throwing words of advice without really looking deep into the situation.
You are a woman and ladies will fall for any man who can really melt their hearts in any way they believe is ok by them.Polygamy is not a sin and i have never seen a place in the bible that condemns it except an advice that as deacons and workers in GOD's vineyard we should be husband of one wife but there is never a place in the bible that condemns polygamy nevertheless i will not advice you to go into that union due to complexity and especially when you are still young because if you were in your late 30s i would have asked you to give it a shot if you are ok being the second wife and will not in anyway cry when the complexities begin to rear its head.
Nevertheless young lady, if you believe you are deeply in love and he is what you need whether because he is cute or rich or for whatever reason(But i can bet you will never fall in love with a broke married man) please go ahead and become a second wife if that is what rocks your boat.
As i have written before, should you decide to go ahead please do and follow your heart but be prepared for the complexities which could cost you your life if the first wife goes desperately diabolic or the man may go ahead and do same thing with you with a third lady so weigh the options before you make up your mind putting into consideration your heart desires. |
