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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by freecocoa(f): 11:17pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
summerflame:is this advice not supposed to be for the married men who won't keep their wows? You have to understand that some ladies don't care if a man is married or not. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by eDDiebz0147: 11:17pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Dear NL Please I need all the advice I can get. I have been in a relationship for 2 years so I thought until I began noticing things that love had blinded me off about my Gf. We met in Ghana and we have been cohabitation all this while but neither does any body in her family is aware of this. To the point that when any of her friends from North or Nigeria comes visiting she tells them I got her the apartment. Recently I caught her cheating on me with a guy she claimed she met on fbook, but after serious probing she confess to having sex with an ex lover in one of her trip to Nigeria. When I confront her why she would do that she claims it's all my fault that I cheated and she did too. She has no remorse.. She claimed if I forgave her she would remain loyal. And I did but I kept suspecting and behold in my absence she travel to Nigeria again and denied. I got so furious and took her things off the house to a friend she claim was her sister. Now she is making me feel like a wicked guy for doing that.. I don't wish to denial anyone shelter especially in a position where am capable of but if she ain't trust worthy and honest do you think it be wise to keep her ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Youngpo413: 11:18pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
MzRoyalHighness:dating married men is nothing new,to a naija lady,its not a big deal...most are guilty of this. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 11:18pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
innervoice: His wife can't be a second fiddle if she married him first. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Oklander: 11:19pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:So what happens to the guy you were in relationship with before this your madness? dumped, right? it is thunder that will fire girls like you wallahi...smh 4 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by LockDown69(m): 11:20pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by cococandy(f): 11:20pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
OP this girl will be your sister in story if you're not careful https://www.nairaland.com/2596199/he-got-me-pregnant-left 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by So4baba(m): 11:21pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Toks2008:You ve nt seen anywhere in the bible where it is written because you dnt even have a bible talk less of reading it... Pls dnt use the Bible in supporting immorality.. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by batulakarada: 11:22pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Follow your heart my dear. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 11:22pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
ted1741:Women have different meaning to words u know...if u have cash anomalies become decent. Spit on them...they say it is raining. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by toseenore(m): 11:23pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
The only advice I've got for u is to put urself into the innocent first Wife's shoe, imagine u are the Wife and these are happening behind u.....That's all! |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Shebarh(f): 11:24pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
franciskaine:Abi na |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by summerflame(m): 11:24pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Seriously sweetheart , I have to be blunt with you , some ladies derive pleasure in breaking homes. What advise am I to give a cheap LovePeddler? Inorder for you to understand some ladies, you will need to start watching animal planet and Nat geo wild |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 11:24pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
freecocoa: That's true! |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by ALIMINE(m): 11:24pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
It is well, ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Shebarh(f): 11:25pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Iamthoney: ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 11:28pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Ab025: Just because polygamy isn't a crime in Nigeria...does it make it right? 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by newmusic: 11:29pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Love is a deadly disease of the brain, research for the drug and cure is still going on. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by liverpoolfc4life(m): 11:30pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Receive sense in jesus name |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by humilitypays(m): 11:30pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
freecocoa:Let me believe she didn't know...but then, let me give ladies ready to listen and learn some brotherly advice: if you meet a Nigerian guy who is 33 years and above, and financially buoyant with high-paying job or business, please have it in mind that the chances of him being married is 90% or more, and u know why? In Nigeria, except a guy comes from a wealthy family and inherits wealth from his parents, there is no way a Nigerian guy could be rich and single at 33 and above! Guys start becoming financially stable in Nigeria from the age of 30 and above....and before they get to the age of 35, they get into a committed relationship or most times marriage. Though there are few exceptions, but not too rampant in Nigeria. Due to our harsh economy and long educational/NYSC system, majority of Nigerian guys start becoming financially buoyant from 30yrs and above and by that time, they are either married or in a committed relationship to marry. Except for few guys who were fortunate to make money on time either via Yahoo Yahoo, drug business, sheddy business or ICT....and who may have been unfortunate with women....which is the only reason a Nigerian guy could be 33, rich and still single with no wife or fiancee. Back to the topic, she said they met online....which usually starts from one of them sending the other a friend request, a private message or an instant chat message....whichever it is, she must have gone through his profile, checked his profile pictures and more to know his worth and outlook....of course that's what ladies do first before responding to a guy's chat, friend request or PM on any online platform....and reason most guys take time to edit their profile and upload the best of their photos to entice the ladies they will be reaching out to. So, you can't tell me she fell in love with him because of any other thing aside an initial pictorial or profilic impression based on what the guy wrote about himself on the platform they met, so she fell for him for his wealthy outlook of course...she can't swear against this assumption. Its high time ladies start being honest that what attract them most in a guy nowadays is his financial worth or financially outlook (from the way he dressed, the car he drives, the house he lives, where he works, etc)......just as men are blunt with what attracts them to a lady first- physical beauty! Men are diggers of physical beauty and maybe good character whereas women are diggers of money and material things....its that simple, so why do ladies try to form innocence? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by mustiiz(m): 11:30pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91: The gal stupid walai.. 2nd wife.. Goat.. Cow.. Pig.. Asif if u r d one u wnt feel d pain.. I even like d guy him be very good bad guy.. Bring ur body make I use am chill.. Nd mind u no man will eva place anoda woman above d wife.. Idiot fellow 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Tonynblaze(m): 11:31pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by papichulo024(m): 11:32pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
[quote author=VICTORIA91 post=38266683]Dear NL, I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded. At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one. He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins). I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself.... Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED. Please be careful and wise up. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Ilekeh(f): 11:32pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
MTCHEWWWW |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 11:33pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
MrsChima:Help me ask them o abeg Sabrwahaqqo come and learn Anuofia & Onye Nzuzu, just go and meet any Igbo boy that's close to you and call him that. He'll show u the meaning ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Tonynblaze(m): 11:33pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
yea 3 Likes
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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Toks2008(m): 11:34pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
So4baba: If i were you,i will just back up my comments intelligently with a quote from teh bible and for the recoreds let me quote where DEACONS ARE ADVISED to be a man of one wife Qualifications for Overseers …2An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3not addicted to wine or pugnacious, but gentle, peaceable, free from the love of money. 4He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity…1 Timothy 3:2-3 So please i want to learn from you so im waiting for your biblical quote where polygamy was counted a sin. Honestly i would like to learn. Polygamy may not be dvisable but its not a sin and infact polygamy is tye answer to the prayers of some ladies like 1.Over aged single ladies in their lates 30s or 40s 2.Single mothers that are widowed 3.Female divorcees And so on. It takes maturity to understand these things bro. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by humilitypays(m): 11:34pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
eDDiebz0147:Night of thousand laughs ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by bettyLad(f): 11:34pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Stay there and b deceiving urself .he wants u to get pregnant for him .ask urself where does ur child stand in this ,he already has 3,2 boys for that matter and he wants u to 've a baby for him,his wife is a complete woman ,she bore him make and female child .is there anything he should b looking for outside .Stay there and b deceiving urself |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by mrbadmouth(m): 11:36pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Lol ;DLol 2 Likes
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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 11:36pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
MrsPhyno: ![]() ![]() Rabbitch I don't even sabi how I'll spell that out without sounding funny ![]() |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by baloney: 11:36pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
if u don't want to be a second wife that will be hid somewhere, that is if he makes u his second wife,if u don't want to be deceived just move on. |
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