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Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by kekeolu(f): 11:37pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Shoro niyen! c'mmon girl come off it! If u are wife at home how will you feel when ur husband brings another woman home. I beg of u look for a single guy to marry. Stop being a gold digger. A word is enough for the wise. Btw, the thunder wey go destroy any girl like wey come near my husband don dey do press up. . 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Ab025(m): 11:37pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chosen1984: Hey, polygamy may be wrong in your religion but that doesn't mean it is wrong in my own religion, so we don't really have to go down this road because we speak from two different religious points of view. It is acceptable for me but not for you and bye the way, I spoke based on my opinion. Thanks. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by freecocoa(f): 11:37pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
humilitypays:You make it sound like a bad thing, to get attracted to a presentable guy, how is it a lady's fault if her admirer/toaster is rich and she likes him? I don't understand the rationale behind this, I understand gold digging but it's not fair to say a lady likes a man that's rich simply because of his money. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by feldido(m): 11:37pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
HopeAtHand: I support them if they actually brainwashed you from the Bible... The truth is hard to believe. I'll advice you to be open minded when discussing with them, you'll be amazed |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 11:38pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
MrsChima: Excuse me ma, is polygamy a crime in Israel ? |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Ab025(m): 11:40pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
MrsChima: MrsChima.... Polygamy is right in my own religion although it may be wrong in yours, am not a christian and I spoke basically from my own religioys point of view# |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by olajorn(m): 11:40pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
MrsChima:long time...Where have u been? |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by humilitypays(m): 11:43pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
freecocoa:Hell NO! I never said its bad for a lady to be attracted to a guy because of his money? Sincerely, I love it...in fact, only a small boy will believe that a lady can be attracted to a guy that's broke. I love it when ladies fall for a guy's financial status and outlook...it gives me joy to be honest, and I have no issues with it. My only prayer is that many guys should have money to attract more pretty ladies. Money is good....it makes the world go round, ladies should not be ashamed to confess they admire a guy with cash, by the way guys fall for physically pretty and endowed ladies, so? Thats my point. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by mecussey(m): 11:45pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91: It does not always sweet continuesly like this babe, marriage no be beans. This is what I call seduction, the guy has practically seduced you. Guess what? He was also in love with the first wife before the girl opened her leg for him. Whoever, furnicate with a man or woman destroyet his body but whoever furnicates with a married man or woman, destroyet his or her own soul. Sugar dey sweet but it's not meant to be taken raw. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by hardychris(m): 11:45pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Let's clap for her, weldone clap go If u no see urself for middle of hell fire make I know wetin cause am. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Naavah(f): 11:48pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
When a man wants to eat his cake and have it. That line "they forced him to marry her cuz she got pregnant" has already been overused. We girls gotta learn how to say NO sometimes. my 30kobo 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by dhesmond(m): 11:48pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
you are a thief. go and work hard and build your own man 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 11:48pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
freecocoa:That is the only truth oh. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by umblicachucks(m): 11:49pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
I know your type money money money money . you don't love him an inch, it is the money that is intoxicating you. you will reap whatever you sow be ready for wrath of God. It can never be well with you if you go ahead and marry him. leave somebody husband alone. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Jonalistic(m): 11:49pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
kingofpool:buhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha my belle don xplode 4 laugh oooo |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by vislabraye(m): 11:49pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91: You wouldn't love it if another woman does this to you. The fact is that you are torn in between your greed and morality. Do what you think it's right cos I believe you do. On the other hand it's not a sin to be tempted. We all get tempted with the things we like. Better don't gey preg. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by godoluwa(m): 11:49pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
KiidaACE:what more can I say? God bless u bro |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by dhesmond(m): 11:51pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
and i laugh at what she just say ....... freecocoa: |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 11:52pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Naavah:not when money is involved...she will even be the one giving the ideas. A Lady said the man said he has divorced the wife...had two kids for him without any marriage and she was driven and d supposed divorced wife has the kids. The wife cldnt give births! |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by baby124: 11:54pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
OP, For the fact that this man is a liar. That he can hide the fact that he is married with 3 kids should make you run. That he deceived you and used deception till when he felt you had fallen in love enough. Some religions are not against polygamy, but he should have told you that straight up and let you make the decision if you want to continue. Also, the fact that this man cannot resolve the issues he has at home is cause for worry. Let's assume that his story is even true, will you want to be with a man that will insult the mother of his 3 kids. Will you want to be with a man that is unforgiving that after 3 kids he still cannot love. Please note that these kids were not conceived by artificial insemination. Will you be comfortable with a man that can impregnate and live with a woman he has no feelings for. If he can behave like this to the mother of his future, who are you? This guy wants to marry you but will rather impregnate you first, then introduce you to his family as wife. Did it occur to you that he required the same of his present wife? Is he not taking the cowards way out by not marrying you properly first? This shows that you coming into that family will not be an acceptable move. This whole thing has so many red flags. So stupid and senseless. I advice you though to milk him dry and dump him. Stop having sex with him but teach him a costly lesson for deceiving you. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by xest(m): 11:59pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
It's left for u to decide. Will u like ur husband to go for second wife? If yes then go ahead |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by DONFASZY(m): 12:00am On Sep 23, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:reason y wife is scare? olosho.....married man n money driving our wife 2 b away....y r ladies like dis...by time dem don finish u...u b lookin 4 responsible man....u dont nid advice cos u no d truth..madam fuckeee |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by menix(m): 12:01am On Sep 23, 2015 |
honeygirl17: But u re not doing mii gud.. |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by kekeolu(f): 12:02am On Sep 23, 2015 |
Shoro niyen! c'mmon girl come off it! If u are wife at home how will you feel when ur husband brings another woman home. I beg of u look for a single guy to marry. Stop being a gold digger. A word is enough for the wise. Btw, the thunder wey go destroy any girl like wey come near my husband don dey do press up. . |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by peedeeasobie(m): 12:05am On Sep 23, 2015 |
Let me paint a picture of the future for you! 1: you will not listen to these advises, never. you are in love (lust), which is actually greed. you wouldn't want to loose out. 2: he was forced to marry the girl, by who? can't you see the same scenario is playing out with you? who forces a man to marry a woman? force, and she gave birth to the first child. force, and she game birth to the second. force and she gave birth to the third? force indeed. 3: you will get pregnant for him. you will discover that he has another woman that he is telling this story he told you. 4: then suddenly, the traditional rites will suddenly not be working out. you will become a single mother. 5: you will find out he loves his wife so much! 6: you will be heart broken and start visiting TB Joshua and other prayer houses. 8: your child will grow up with a father who is never around. 9 : the first wife will find out and make your life a living hell. 7: you will come to nairaland and become a pseudo feminist saying all men are wicked, then 8: kitikpa and amadioha will strike your coconut head and that food trap you call mouth! pls go and write this down in diary and check it from time to time. happy semi-married life. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Generalpapiiii(m): 12:07am On Sep 23, 2015 |
If you believe the guy loves u. Do what u have to do. But don't get pregnant for him if he dosnt dissolve his marriage. Think about it |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by 400billionman: 12:09am On Sep 23, 2015 |
VICTORIA91: Get pregnant and then he travels to MECCA for PhD. You believed that. Haha.. Scam loading. Anyway sha... |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Udstar(m): 12:09am On Sep 23, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:lol |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 12:11am On Sep 23, 2015 |
jewelbaby55:Tire for wetin? |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Toks2008(m): 12:12am On Sep 23, 2015 |
So4baba: sometiimes when i read comments like this i tend to wonder why youths of today can not make intellectual comments. Just read your response again and see how it lacks substance. Anyways im not here to promote polygamy neither am i interested in the act but im always pragmatic about my opinions which has nothing to do with my personal belief. Now read this. law on Polygamy The Scriptures are clear that polygamy was, and still is today, a valid form of marriage. God nowhere condemns godly men for having more than one wife. Abraham had a wife, and then he married her maid (Genesis 16:2-4); Jacob married Leah and Rachel (Gen.29:23-30; 31:17; 32:22) and then he married Leah and Rachel's handmaids, Zilbah and Bilhahand (Genesis 30:1-24; 37:2); Judge Gideon had many wives and a concubine (Judges 8:30-31); Elkanah married Hannah and Peninnah (1 Sam.1:2); David married Abigail and Ahinoam (1 Sam.25:42-43; 30:18), then later took more wives (2 Sam.5:13) at Jerusalem (1 Chron.14:3); In 2 sam.12:7-8, God gave David these multiple wives as a blessing, just as anointing him as king over Israel, protecting him from Saul, and giving him the house of Israel and Judah were also blessings from Him; King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines (1 Kings 11:1-3); Ashur married Helah and Naarah (1 chron.4:5); Shaharaim married Hushim and Baara (1 Chron.8:; Abijah had 14 wives (2 chron.13:21); Jehoiada the priest had 2 wives (2 Chron.24:3). Also, God never condemned ungodly men for having more than one wife either: Lamech (Gen.4:19), Esau (Gen.36:2,6), King Rehoboam had 18 wives (2 Chron.11:21); King Belshazzar had many wives (Dan.5:2-3). In addition, after war-time, many women would marry one man because of the shortage of men available due to there being killed (Isaiah 4:1). We find our brother Paul referring to the polygamy of Abraham without a hint that it was sinful (Galatians 4:22). When we study the Old Testament law concerning polygamy, we find that when the singular "wife" is used, those laws could apply to monogamy or polygamy (Deut. 22:13, 22), and when the plural "wives" is used, those laws only apply to polygamy. (Deut. 21:15-17). The Law stated that a man could take another wife as long as he still provided for his first wife (Exo.21:10). This is what the apostle Paul calls "due benevolence" (1 Cor.7:3). The law protected the rights of the first born son concerning his inheritance in the case where the father preferred another wife over his mother (Deut. 21:15-17). The law commanded that any man who had sex with a virgin was to marry her (Deut. 22:28-29). There is nothing in this text that supports the idea that only single men are to marry in this instance. This law protected and ensured the woman that her food, clothing, and marital rights and duties would not be diminished. This also protected the woman from the reproach of not being able to find another man to be her husband because she was no longer a virgin and, furthermore the reproach of possibly never being able to have children. The man, single or married, needed to be responsible for his fornication and the woman needed to be protected. The law commanded a man to marry the widow of his deceased brother's wife if he had no children with her (Deut. 25:5-10). Again, there is nothing in this text that supports that this law was limited to only single brothers. The law did have some restrictions on polygamy, such as a man not marrying the sister or mother of his wife (Lev. 18:17, Lev. 20:14). Another restriction admonished the king against the acquisition of too many wives (Deut. 17:17), and, in particular, foreign wives, because they would tend to tempt him towards their gods (1 Kings 11:1-. Solomon sinned, not because of the fact that he had many wives, but because he married women from foreign countries, and he did not tear down their places of worshipping false gods (Deuteronomy 7:3). It would also appear that Solomon broke this law in that he multiplied seven hundred wives and three hundred concubines to himself (1 Kings 11:3). Solomon abused the right to take more than one wife and no doubt had difficulty in meeting the sexual needs of so many women. David, on the other hand, did not break this law, as was discussed earlier (2 Samuel 12:7-. please do ur research before coming online to make mockery of an intelligent comment 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by lastpage: 12:13am On Sep 23, 2015 |
VICTORIA91: Okay, l for swear for you if not that you said "abuse" are allowed! But really, l applaud you for not being some ladies who would encourage him to divorce his wife for them (never mind that he married her accidentally and by force, from his parents... shyte happens). Now, the matter is very simple for you: 1.) Leave the man, suffer the heart ache and "hope" you will me someone you love and who loves you like him. Its a gamble and that is what life is all about. 2.) Marry him and be his second wife. That is not a crime and there is no big deal in it, obviously he is loaded enough to take excellent care of both of you and your children. Polygamy is not a crime otherwise, King David, Abraham, King Solomom and many more "men" who are God's friend, would have been sent to hell. Dont let anyone befuddle you about that.... and it should not be a factor in your choice-making Finally, what ever is your choice, know that "either choice" wont be "a bed of roses" (even if you marry another person sef)..... Marriage s all about sacrifices and committment to each other. Sometimes e go sweet, sometimes e go be like bitter leaf sweet pass am! Lastpage! |
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