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If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by sam121(m): 9:05am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Most times we Africans, have this ill believe that when a female makes the move of letting a male know how she feels about him, 'she is a cheap female'. For me, I believe that's just maturity. My fellow Nairalanders please what's your own opinion....? 1 Like |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 9:09am On Sep 24, 2015 |
It's dependent on the party involved, for me I'll appreciate her boldness, but majority of the guys will see her as cheap. One reason I think it's always so, is because it shows the girl is really into you which spurred her into opening up, and some guys will want to play on her feelings, which is really bad. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by immortalvoices(m): 9:09am On Sep 24, 2015 |
She is not...... But our childish attitude makes her seems so |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Nobody: 9:10am On Sep 24, 2015 |
No |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by sam121(m): 9:10am On Sep 24, 2015 |
[quote author=faith551 post=38325943]It's dependent on the party involved [/quot if u happened to be the guy involved, how would u tag her...? |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 9:12am On Sep 24, 2015 |
[quote author=sam121 post=38325991][/quote] Recheck my post bro, I modified |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by sam121(m): 9:17am On Sep 24, 2015 |
faith551: I just did, u are right because I have seen most cases where it happened.... |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 9:22am On Sep 24, 2015 |
sam121: As for me, as far as it is somebody I have a thing for am fine with it, its either I take over from her so she'll still have that feminine feeling of being desired or tell her I can't do it politely with good reason. |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by sam121(m): 9:26am On Sep 24, 2015 |
faith551: I believe that's just the best option, rather than taking advantage of the scenario and dump her in the middle of no where. |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Nobody: 9:26am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Doesn't make her cheap, just makes her really annoying. Because then they start to disturb you if you don't reject them outright. As if by magic, the suddenly get all your contact info from your friends and then start calling/disturbing you to ask some really foolish questions. Like, have you eaten, how are your siblings. . . . |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Emodeee: 9:31am On Sep 24, 2015 |
It doesn't make her cheap. Missmossy made the 1st move towards me, does dat make her cheap? |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 9:32am On Sep 24, 2015 |
sam121: I tell you |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Dotwillis1(m): 9:35am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Better for a guy to love a girl freely than a girl forcing herself on him...... The norm is, Guys should make the first move. If you love a girl, let her know and it's left for her to consider having a relationship with you. |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by sam121(m): 9:35am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Teempakguy: Let's just say that u are guy in question. This pretty and gorgeous Looking babe, with a nice job, makes such advance towards you. How exactly, would u handle the situation...? |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 9:37am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Teempakguy: Brother I know the feeling, I experienced one not too long ago. She was my junior in high school, she saw me last year when I came home, before I knew it, she got my cell phone number from God knows where, started stalking me on watsapp, sent me a friend request on Facebook, it was a bit annoying, but what's the need of hurting someone?when you can pass your message respectfully, I just gradually created that boundary, and I think she's getting the message now. 1 Like |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Nobody: 9:46am On Sep 24, 2015 |
faith551:in my case, a similar thing is happening. She is gradually getting the message. I know she's hurt that I didn't reciprocate her feelings, but, well . . . I believe the she will heal. |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Missmossy(f): 9:46am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Emodeee:You wish....LIENUS!! 3 Likes |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Paulpaulpaul(m): 9:49am On Sep 24, 2015 |
It depends on the premises jare, who is the girl? A girl that people don over bleed, con de disturb me say she has feelings for me. I'll rather chop ma own comot. Make @gurgle come na and say Paulpaulpaul, I'm somehow into you o. I like you. My response will be like: me? Me love you since the time of Sango and Orunmila! Eg: I was hustling my thing one day and a lady met me in a Danfo and said: 'this is ridiculous but I like you'. I had never felt that happy in my life. Unfortunately, I couldn't ask for her digit cos I was so dirty that day and my phone was off. God may bring her back, maybe 1 Like |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 9:49am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Teempakguy: That's the best thing to do bro, ladies are fragile unlike us that face disappointments on daily bases, we are used to it, but they dnt take disappointment well, especially when they go out of their way to make the first step. |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by sam121(m): 9:55am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Paulpaulpaul: You're really funny bro... |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by eipreel(f): 9:56am On Sep 24, 2015 |
If the guy has a house in banana island and drives a bentley I will even gladly make both the first and the second moves and I don't care what anyone thinks |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Nobody: 9:57am On Sep 24, 2015 |
sam121:well, I am currently avoiding a romantic relationship, but if I was interested in a romantic relationship, it would be cute to have a girl make the advance. But after making her feelings known, she should BACK DOWN. So I can appreciate the amount of effort it took, and to give some amount of choice here. But in most cases, they don't stop at the first time, they keep persisting, and soon, they become more of a nuisance than a potential love interest. A case happened to me when I was a bit younger. Twins, one of them was attracted to me and she was all over me. making her presence felt everywhere of my life, she was very attractive but eventually, her novel effect faded Unconsciously, I became attracted to her tough sister . . . who had only confessed her feelings for me ONCE. very subtly in fact. and started going after her. Now both sisters don't even talk to me. and they live next door. So, it gets rather complicated in the real world. But what I suggest is, just let him know. If he's meant for you, he'll kickstart the relationship himself. But, if you persist, he may lose interest, or start viewing you as a tool. |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by sam121(m): 9:58am On Sep 24, 2015 |
faith551: I concur with you, they might feel humiliated, dejected and degraded for life if the guys throws it back at them harshly. |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Nobody: 10:00am On Sep 24, 2015 |
faith551:yeah, so true. I've seen girls cry over heartbreaks and her friends cry with her. As a guy, if your friends hear say you dey cry! 1 Like |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by moyakz(m): 10:02am On Sep 24, 2015 |
there is really nothing wrong or bad with\in a lady doing that,just that most nigerians minds have been corrupted and blinded with\by\through AFRICA MAGIC YORUBA 1 Like |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by Emodeee: 10:03am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Missmossy: Sometimes I wonder d fools who likes ur post. Na wa oh. They are ass lickers. Wetin u type wey dem dey like? Rubbish. I'm not lying u r only trying to defend yasef. |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 10:03am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Teempakguy: Ahah!! Na big f.uck up na, if the thing dey pain you too much, go out get drunk, dem go clap for u |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by MrsChima(f): 10:04am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Why would she be cheap simply because she is asking you out or saying hello? I don't get niggas. |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 10:04am On Sep 24, 2015 |
sam121: Nothing feels painful than a bruised ego |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 10:05am On Sep 24, 2015 |
MrsChima: Am not a party oo, dnt mind them. So u can ask me for it first I wnt complain |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by MrsChima(f): 10:08am On Sep 24, 2015 |
faith551: Can we meet at the hotel? |
Re: If She Makes "The First Move Towards U" Does It Make her Cheap Or Bold...? by faith551(m): 10:11am On Sep 24, 2015 |
MrsChima:Lol, that was........., ok let me tell mumsy first. |
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