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10 Bad HABITS That’ll Make Your Partner Want To Leave You by Skanas(m): 12:18pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
More often than not, people only learn how destructive their bad habit can be when the damage is already too glaring to ignore. I won't bore you with lengthy startup, let's go straight to the point and hit it»»»»» 1) Treating your partner like a project: Constantly trying to change your partner and mold them into the person you want them to be is a toxic habit that could destroy your relationship. Think about how you would feel if your partner was doing the same to you. It’s a selfish motive to stay in a relationship with the belief that you can change your partner into someone else. 2) Making your fights public: By neglecting to keep your arguments within a private sphere, you are embarrassing yourself and your partner, in addition to drawing unwanted negative attention onto your relationship. Not only will this not solve whatever it is you’re fighting about, but your partner could become completely repulsed by this childish behavior and decide to leave you. 3) Criticizing close friends and family: Regardless of how irritating family and friends can sometimes be, when you criticize your partner’s friends and family, you are also criticizing your partner. A partner who feels like you are constantly bashing their loved ones may grow to resent you. These people have been in your partner’s lives for a while and are likely not going anywhere, so you might as well learn to like them *or at least tolerate them* 4) Too much PDA: The only people who are fans of public displays of affection are the ones engaging in it. When a couple is ignorantly making out in public, it’s easy to forget that no one else really wants to see you sucking each other’s faces. Some partners feel the need to be affectionate in public in order to show other people that their partner is taken and in love. However, being insensitive about the people around you can cause your partner to feel conscious and awkward, and possibly even resentful of the unwanted attention from others. 5) Holding grudges: People make mistakes, and this is no different in relationships. Holding on to every little mistake your partner has made and being unable to forgive will only exhaust your partner and ruin your relationship. When your partner has apologized, and the two of you have talked it through, make sure you forgive them. Otherwise, let the person go if the mistake was too hurtful to move past. 6) Keeping score of your partner’s mistakes: Relationships aren’t a game, so there’s no need for a scoreboard to tell you how many times you were right. Doing this is a sign that you can’t get over all the times your partner has wronged you, even though the issue has already been resolved and dropped. 7) Comparing your partner to your ex: Sometimes, it can’t be helped, but even then, it shouldn’t be something you would openly do. Constantly comparing your current partner to your ex is a glaring sign that you’re not over your ex. And if your partner knows that you’re always making mental comparisons, they’ll start to feel like they can’t be allowed to be themselves since the shadow of your oh-so-perfect ex haunts your relationship. ![]() 9)Needing to be together 24/7: In any relationship, it’s nice to want be around your partner all the time, but not when it’s so suffocating that both of you are practically conjoined at the hip. Having some space in a relationship helps to build a healthy independence and gives your partner time to miss you. 10) Not appreciating your partner: If you always neglect your partner’s need for appreciation and praise, you are starving them of a basic need in a relationship. No one wants to feel taken for granted, and if you never show your partner your appreciation for what they do for you, they may just stop bothering to try to please you. Bad habits can do more than just annoy your partner. Some of these common slip ups can drive your relationship into the deep end. By recognizing and addressing these toxic behaviors in a relationship, you’ll have a better chance at making your relationship last for the long haul. Culled from: http://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/better-love/bad-habits-thatll-make-your-partner-want-to-leave- |
Re: 10 Bad HABITS That’ll Make Your Partner Want To Leave You by chomytex(f): 12:43pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
So many relationship tips here n there yet relationships crumbles on daily basis. |
Re: 10 Bad HABITS That’ll Make Your Partner Want To Leave You by Nobody: 12:47pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
op 4get what u just wrote, d main point is if you dont have money or if u go broke without fastening ur seat belt nd looking 4 ways to get money, ur partner will leave u through d window. |
Re: 10 Bad HABITS That’ll Make Your Partner Want To Leave You by COvo(m): 12:50pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Bad HABITS That’ll Make Your Partner Want To Leave You by Skanas(m): 2:10pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
chomytex:I guess it's because many a youngster base their relationship on sex and money...see for your self what that dude below u wrote... |
Re: 10 Bad HABITS That’ll Make Your Partner Want To Leave You by Skanas(m): 2:12pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
sweetorgasms:Bro everything no be money oOooo |
Re: 10 Bad HABITS That’ll Make Your Partner Want To Leave You by Skanas(m): 2:17pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
COvo:For VAMOOSE from here @COvo abegggg ![]() |
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