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My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by seunfunmi33(m): 7:19pm On Sep 25, 2015
In 2012, I was transferred to ibadan. I have lots of girlfriends in lagos and don't want to date any new girl in ibadan, so me and my friend that was transferred to ibadan together became regulars at a brothel. Me and my friend had just 2 customers we patronize.

6 months later (early 2013) I was transferred back to Lagos . After I left, I do invite one of the girls to Lagos because she is too good in bed till I lost her contact when my phone got lost (December 2013).

We all travelled home yesterday due to sallah celebration. I was surprised when I saw my younger brother come with the prostitute in ibadan and introduced her to me as his fiancee. I just stood there not knowing what to do because I was expecting the girl to feel somehow and but she didn't even show any fear. Throughout the day She was everywhere cooking and joking with everybody around there.

I thought she was pretending not to know me but I didn't confront her, so I asked for some of her pix from my brother and sent it to that my friend if he knows the girl and he was quick to tell me that's the girl I do bleep in ibadan. But when I told him of the relationship between my brother and the girl, he told me to tell our parents and my brother so they can cancel the relationship that the girl isn't worth it.

Now am confused, I don't know if the girl is pretending or she doesn't recognize me anymore because of her numerous customers. I don't know if I should tell my brother or just keep quiet. Advice me pls

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by munchfani: 7:19pm On Sep 25, 2015
Can't turn a hoe into a house wife..TELL YOUR BRO WITH STYLE tongue

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by HungerBAD: 7:19pm On Sep 25, 2015
Let us not even bother going into the fact, that you patronize prostitutes a lot.

We will have that discussion some other day.

You will have to inform your brother about her. Tell him in a mature way, that the girl he plans to marry is a prostitute.

We also don't know if you brother met her a prostitute, and has decided to better her life, by making her his wife.

but, if she has kept that part of her life from him, then you are duty bound to tell him.

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by ATMC(f): 7:24pm On Sep 25, 2015
You don't have to tell ur brother. Don't you think your brother knows she is or was one? leave matter for Mathias. Na person go marry am ultimately. So Chill.

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by theunusualmoon(m): 7:25pm On Sep 25, 2015
It may just be a case of mistaken identity.Perhaps, she just looks like the escort you talked about but if you're sure it's her then I think you should tell your younger brother and this is not so because she is/was an escort(because she may have stopped doing the job) but because you have slept with her.I don't think it is cool to let your younger brother marry someone you have slept with without letting him know.you also don't need to tell your parents anything.This should be amidst the three of you only.

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Nobody: 7:25pm On Sep 25, 2015
Tell him, EVERYTHING.

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by munchfani: 7:26pm On Sep 25, 2015
ATMC:
You don't have to tell ur brother. Don't you think your brother knows she is or was one? leave matter for Mathias. Na person go marry am ultimately. So Chill.
BROS ABEG IGNORE THIS GIRL, TELL YOUR BRODA O COS NO TIME TO CHECK TIME. SOON STORY GO COMOT SAY MUSA UNA GATE MAN DON SLEEP WITH AM TOO

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Precious91(m): 7:27pm On Sep 25, 2015
Ashawo

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by ATMC(f): 7:27pm On Sep 25, 2015
Op let sleeping dog lie. grin

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by 4stylz: 7:30pm On Sep 25, 2015
Tell him asap before your brother hates you for bleeping his wife lol

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by peeparty(m): 7:30pm On Sep 25, 2015
Who be those other men wey dey marry prostitute

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by 4stylz: 7:30pm On Sep 25, 2015
ATMC:
Op let sleeping dog lie. grin

Which dog? Na let the Ram rest.. nor be only dog

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Nobody: 7:31pm On Sep 25, 2015
Let me advice u before u advice ur brother. Going to the brothel to sleep with prostitutes is an irresponsible act which u need to stop. Yes, it is none of my business but someone out there is looking up to u, someone out there can be blessed through you, someone's life could depend u, so y do u wanna cut urs short? U might say u were protected by condom, but dude it is way more than that.
Secondly, sit your brother down and talk to him (that's if truly she's the gurl u bleeped), keeping quiet won't do u good cus no one in his right senses would wanna see his brother in agony of something u could av averted.

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by ATMC(f): 7:31pm On Sep 25, 2015
munchfani:
BROS ABEG IGNORE THIS GIRL, TELL YOUR BRODA O COS NO TIME TO CHECK TIME. SOON STORY GO COMOT SAY MUSA UNA GATE MAN DON SLEEP WITH AM TOO
Smh. You said he should ignore what I said and consider your opinion. Chai! You are yet SHALLOW!

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Nobody: 7:32pm On Sep 25, 2015
Let everybody mind his own business

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by munchfani: 7:34pm On Sep 25, 2015
ATMC:
Smh. You said he should ignore what I said and consider your opinion. Chai! You are yet SHALLOW!
U A RETIRED SLAG TOO

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by ATMC(f): 7:36pm On Sep 25, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Let everybody mind his own business
Exactly! Op what if ur own would-be wife's been bleeped by your friend cum partner in crime, what would you care! If you like tell ur bro, I don't care! #walks out
Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by decisive(m): 7:38pm On Sep 25, 2015
Its better you have one on one rapport with her first,assess if she's changed. Have the same rapport with your brother especially how he came up with the choice. Then from there decide what next.

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Nobody: 7:39pm On Sep 25, 2015
BRO DNT TELL HIM, continue fvcking her behind ur brother's back. after all she is a whooore. "dis is a free sex 4 u

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by seunfunmi33(m): 7:40pm On Sep 25, 2015
Cc lalasticlala

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Tallesty1(m): 7:41pm On Sep 25, 2015
HungerBAD:
Let us not even bother going into the fact, that you patronize prostitutes a lot.

We will have that discussion some other day.

You will have to inform your brother about her. Tell him in a mature way, that the girl he plans to marry is a prostitute.

We also don't know if you brother met her a prostitute, and has decided to better her life, by making her his wife.

but, if she has kept that part of her life from him, then you are duty bound to tell him.



Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by tolababa(m): 7:46pm On Sep 25, 2015
YOU and your brother need deliverance

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by henribj(m): 7:46pm On Sep 25, 2015
you gotta tell your bro.. chances are that your bro is already aware she was a LovePeddler which could be the reason she saw you and did not feel threatened cos she knows whatever you tell your bro she already told him first
in the case your bro is unaware she was a LovePeddler, you can take him to where the girls former office was and show her pix around to other staff members for facial recognition/confirmation
if that still don't work, its either your bro is under the influence of Ju-Ju, or like you said "she sabi do well for bed" and that could be what has magnetized your bro to her side.
bottom line= you just gotta tell him

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by ATMC(f): 7:46pm On Sep 25, 2015
sweetorgasms:
BRO DNT TELL HIM, continue fvcking her behind ur brother's back. after all she is a whooore. "dis is a free sex 4 u
#Sneakly does sign of the cross#

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by GboyegaD(m): 7:47pm On Sep 25, 2015
Love is one crazy thing and your brother may be aware. Mind your business before you find yourself in the middle.

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Nobody: 7:51pm On Sep 25, 2015
Tell him
Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Nobody: 7:54pm On Sep 25, 2015
ATMC:
#Sneakly does sign of the cross#
lol drop her hands down nd ask her wats wrong?
Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Nobody: 7:57pm On Sep 25, 2015
seunfunmi33:
In 2012, I was transferred to ibadan. I have lots of girlfriends in lagos and don't want to date any new girl in ibadan, so me and my friend that was transferred to ibadan together became regulars at a brothel. Me and my friend had just 2 customers we patronize.

6 months later (early 2013) I was transferred back to lagos . after I left I do invite one of the girls to Lagos because she is too good in bed till I lost her contact when my phone got lost (December 2013).

We all travelled home yesterday due to sallah celebration. I was surprised when I saw my younger brother come with the prostitute in ibadan and introduced her to me as his fiancee. I just stood there not knowing what to do because I was expecting the girl to feel somehow and but she didn't even show any fear. Throughout the day She was everywhere cooking and joking with everybody around there.

I thought she was pretending not to know me but I didn't confront her, so I asked for some of her pix from my brother and sent it to that my friend if he knows the girl and he was quick to tell me that's the girl I do bleep in ibadan. But when I told him of the relationship between my brother and the girl, he told me to tell our parent and my brother so they can cancel the relationship that the girl isn't worth it.

Now am confused, I don't know if the girl is pretending or she doesn't recognize me anymore because of her numerous customers. I don't know if I should tell my brother or just keep quiet. Advice me pls
Of course, you should tell him. What are brother's for? You are meant to watch each-other's back

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Nobody: 8:33pm On Sep 25, 2015
seunfunmi33:
In 2012, I was transferred to ibadan. I have lots of girlfriends in lagos and don't want to date any new girl in ibadan, so me and my friend that was transferred to ibadan together became regulars at a brothel. Me and my friend had just 2 customers we patronize.

6 months later (early 2013) I was transferred back to lagos . after I left I do invite one of the girls to Lagos because she is too good in bed till I lost her contact when my phone got lost (December 2013).

We all travelled home yesterday due to sallah celebration. I was surprised when I saw my younger brother come with the prostitute in ibadan and introduced her to me as his fiancee. I just stood there not knowing what to do because I was expecting the girl to feel somehow and but she didn't even show any fear. Throughout the day She was everywhere cooking and joking with everybody around there.

I thought she was pretending not to know me but I didn't confront her, so I asked for some of her pix from my brother and sent it to that my friend if he knows the girl and he was quick to tell me that's the girl I do bleep in ibadan. But when I told him of the relationship between my brother and the girl, he told me to tell our parent and my brother so they can cancel the relationship that the girl isn't worth it.

Now am confused, I don't know if the girl is pretending or she doesn't recognize me anymore because of her numerous customers. I don't know if I should tell my brother or just keep quiet. Advice me pls
so e happen tru tru!!!LIAR

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by majalisa(m): 8:35pm On Sep 25, 2015
ATMC:
Op let sleeping dog lie. grin
for how long?
Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Mcowubaba: 9:08pm On Sep 25, 2015
Bros Op, TELL UR BROTHER, if he is not available..tell ur Father, mother, sisters, relatives, village chief priest, landlord... Na serious matter be dis o shocked.. Nd on monday, go for Hiv test (no fear, just gud to knw ur status esp in ur line of sex life cheesy)

Not holier than u bro... Av done worst things too sad !

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Re: My Brother's Fiancee Is An Ex-prostitute Have Slept With. Should I Tell by Sijo01(f): 9:10pm On Sep 25, 2015
If your bro can find a wife in a prostitute, go get yours and let them be.

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