freecocoa:
Seriously though, I am yet to understand your stand, so let's get that straight now.

Are you saying it is fair that a man takes as many women as he wants and getting away with some things, with women not having that same right?

Olaone1:

I understand you jare. I need ME a bouncy one

Vikky014:
lol. dt u will marry right

Olaone1:
Well, no problem. If the womenfolk won't frown upon it.

Truckpusher:
The highlighted is the way it is already legally and with common sense.What I'm saying is simple that women shouldn't be fighting it through the backdoor which usually backfires and they'd still be at the receiving end - This is just to buttress my point on a particular topic where I clearly stated that women do not have the right to sleep around like men do to get even and that men can't be called 'cheats' in a society where polygamy is a right and culturally upheld even by the high and mighty.

2dillu2:
do you have a boyfriend and are you still a virgin be sincere please

Ajgal10:

This isnt Needed Human Being.You cannot be so sure who is holy,we need people that have a personal Relationship with God and Not Religious people.Anyway...Calm Down.

hamzeiy:
...
as for you....lol..ds guy funny...who d hell are you and why do you think your opinion matters sef....you can go to hell with wat you think or believe...we love our way of life nd faith...nd pple like you dont matter...*they have been lashing b4 now*.. mumu...do you think he is a christain...we dont lash b4 marriage..dts y we marry early..nd we are proud of that.....christains should know there is alot in marriage than sex....get your corrupted minds nd belief out of our way....we dont care. about your taught....fuc.king assh.oles

mustiiz:


Hmmmm.. Dis is a very good point u shud have just said in stage one is d one u nw sayin in stage 2.. I agree with u now... Can we be fwends

freecocoa:
You didn't answer the question. Is it fair? Forget how it's being fought and what not.

Mogidi:
55yr old man marrying a teenager, you need your head examined if you don't see anything wrong with it.

Picture of the quirky man supporting Emir Sanusi.

989900:
I'll take sides with the emir when he allows his own daughter to be 4th wife to a 54 year old man @ 18.

Untill then . . .


OTOH, It looks like further reason why BH don't think the Chibok girls should be in school.

Truckpusher:
There is no judgement here ,it is crystal clear that the culture and the way of life of the people accepts it that way and any woman caught doing it will only incur the wrath of the gods and the people.


With the above statement I hereby declare it fair,right and justified until any law of the land says otherwise - Bite me if you can.

freecocoa:
Okay then, I was right all along.

I must say though, it was imposed and seriously not accepted by many, so don't go talking like the women speaking against such are crazy or unreasonable.

Cultures change all the time, incase you don't know sha.

I'm starting to not like you all over again and that breaks my heart.

Gadaffii:
If you are an 18 years old girl and you are a virgin this days, it means Oyedepo is your father.

Beremx:
It is better for an 18years old girl to be married than for an 11years old girl to be raped. 85percent of 18years old girls are no longer virgins. If na lie,ask Kylie Jenner.


As long as the bride is allowed to further her studies,i am happy with that. Emir Sanusi must not deprive her of furthering her education all because of marriage.

Beremx:
It is better for an 18years old girl to be married than for an 11years old girl to be raped. 85percent of 18years old girls are no longer virgins. If na lie,ask Kylie Jenner.


As long as the bride is allowed to further her studies,i am happy with that. Emir Sanusi must not deprive her of furthering her education all because of marriage.

Truckpusher:
Lol, I'm a realist and that doesn't mean that I would run with that .

I never collect one get peace of mind , na two?

Don't be heartbroken - I will break them myself in the most romantic way ever even as you come across to me as an unromantic fellow.

The highlighted is so true - I remembered my granny always sarcastically referring my granpa to his second wife who was no longer with them to the very end and I know the stories too but unfortunately there are women today who do not give a rat ass being a concubine or a mistress to rich men even poor men and it's difficult to eradicate a culturally induced ideology when a house is divided over it.

Will you follow me now, at least you've woman wrapped me so badly .

YUSUPH1986:
i know where u ar coming from, religion angle? Yes. Then u've got to rethink. The emir action has both islamic and legal justification. Thanks

ahsekeena:
lol@ stage1 and stage 2.
We cool

freecocoa:
*Heaves a sigh of relief.*

I'm cancerian, are you sure you wanna mess with that?

You are right about so many women being cool with being side chicks but I still won't totally blame them, there's so much work to be done, the men just need to atleast aknowledge that the culture is unfair, even that is a start.

I won't follow you, I can never be a side bish and I don't share.

989900:


No doubt he is religiously and legally right.

While some things are not even morally wrong, it makes you come off as amoral. That I rightfully can, does not necessarily translate to I will/should.

Like I said earlier, I will understand and respect his non-hypocrisy, once he happily, 'islamically' ,and 'legally'gives his 18 year old daughter's hand in marriage as 4th wife to a 54 year old.

That aside, it subliminally strenghtens BH's lust for underage girls -- he should know better -- prices you pay for being a leader by example.

I'm a big fan of him BTW.

Truckpusher:
There is so much work to be done and people are already doing it but in all the wrong places and this is what I have been saying all along - When you want a shift in cultural paradigm that has favored one section of the people , you have to be focused and decisive else once the people that would be affected by the nature of the changes you want make gets to find out what you're trying to do they will frustrate all your effort.

Cancer and Libra would do just fine but no initial smooth run anyway, but they sure do get along ,until cancer shows her crabby nature

And FYI ,I wouldn't make a beautiful woman like you a side bish - It's usually just one at a time.

YUSUPH1986:
am more than sure that he wil be glad handling his 18yr old daughter to a man of substance like him knowing fully well that given out a virgin daughter in marriage is a pride for the parent here in life and the here after

Beremx:
It is better for an 18years old girl to be married than for an 11years old girl to be raped. 85percent of 18years old girls are no longer virgins. If na lie,ask Kylie Jenner.


As long as the bride is allowed to further her studies,i am happy with that. Emir Sanusi must not deprive her of furthering her education all because of marriage.