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Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Shams218(m): 4:01am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Thanks OP. I'm a living witness to your claim.Though mine went another direction.Before anyone demands my head, I presently resides in US, NY to be precise for my masters program. I'm not in search of greener pasture. All I wanted was quality education because I'm definitely coming back home after I badged my Professorship. I met this lady at school she was in her 20's. Let me say she was the first female I met soon as I arrived for my program. She speaks Yoruba fluently just like myself. Instantly I fell for her and ask her for friendship and she accepted and we exchange contacts and get started. Fast forward to like two weeks of our friendship she told me she would like we meet for something important.We met as scheduled she said she observed I'm a Muslim because she used to see me go to the school Mosque and I replied YES.She continue that if I really want her I will have to follow her to their church for baptism. I was shocked at her request.I tried explaining religion should not be a barrier to our relationship but she stood on her ground. I gave series of examples of Muslims who got married to Christian in Nigeria like Tinubu, Gov. Adulfatai of Kwara state, etc she declined. Like I said I'm not after green card because if I am I would have faked for her of which I'm very sure she would fell. I had to quit and move on with my life.Many Nigerian guys I met told me Nigeria girls are very proud and difficult to please. If I would ever marry in US I will never marry a Nigerian girl take or leave it. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Asiwaju9ja(m): 4:02am On Sep 28, 2015 |
donem: Reminds me of this guy from abroad married one ordinary banker o! As per kpe e came from abroad no work or busines as yet so e dey house. We had the same gear issues with our cars(same make different models) as I was fixing mine d guy came around and told me that he had d same issue and he spent over 270k buying another gearbox. Not long after d lady came to join us where they are fixing my car. She then repeated What her husband had said and embarrassed him big time. She said " it was this problem our car had, I SPENT OVER 270K TO FIX IT" see as d woman come open d guy yansh just because na she spend d money. The guy quickly left d place leaving d wife there in annoyance. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 4:05am On Sep 28, 2015 |
hahahah lol.. na so ![]() Asiwaju9ja: |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Cutehector(m): 5:20am On Sep 28, 2015 |
MrsPhyno:ur mates r contributing smth, it is only "dot" dat u will write... ![]() |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Cutehector(m): 5:25am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Shams218:gbam! Buh should u eva end up marryn a nigerian girl who isn't frm ur trible, pls dnt force her to change to ur religion too.. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by mranova(m): 5:30am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Bros I wish say i fit like your post 200 times. Absolutely true. |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by damola1: 5:33am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Asiwaju9ja: So, myopic of her, the husband is already planning to leave her, she no no.. hin just dey wait for work before he do so.... Who will tolerate such insult 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 5:37am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Kelvinpam:a bullet dot on ur forehead. |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by damola1: 5:38am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Shams218: Her opinion about religion as nothing to do with wealth or being Nigerian. There's a make or break for everyone and our tolerance for certain things is different. Her dream man requires the same spiritual alignment, and you've to respect that. Truly, my parents are from mix religion, but tolerance for others is the most critical for me. that's what she want, you are fortunate, she knows it, and said it out-rightly without wasting time. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by wristbangle: 5:41am On Sep 28, 2015 |
sukkot: His networth around 15million -20 million dollars not 50million as he earn 70k dollars per month meanwhile Mariah networth is 550 million dollars. Can u see the huge gap? If you are doubting my info, Google is there. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by NwaliE01: 5:41am On Sep 28, 2015 |
kinglekan:Hey, this is not a Yoruba forum. speak Nigerian language. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by chronique(m): 5:43am On Sep 28, 2015 |
My brother,the thing tire me o. When did Nick Cannon become so rich to own a company that was founded in 1977,and has grown into a large global brand? Nick aint even a shareholder in Nickelodeon or its parent company,Viacom. Viacom is owned by National amusement which is being owned by 93 years old business tycoon and billionaire,Sumner Murray Redstone. And to think that this your friend claims to have lived in the US and doesn't even know jack about Nick Cannon,Nickelodeon,Viacom,CBS corp,National amusement and Sumner Redstone,is quite embarrassing. The way some Nigerians come out boldly to spew trash and give false information in public,is amazing. That's how you know folks who aren't intelligent. youngice: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 5:48am On Sep 28, 2015 |
winnieberry:God bless you. You completely killed the topic with this your comment. Our society is the major problem here. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by wristbangle: 5:50am On Sep 28, 2015 |
udmbat: What is this @ the bolded? Orisirisi ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by wristbangle: 5:59am On Sep 28, 2015 |
sonofananimal: ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by ojinuocheibi(m): 6:10am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Nnemuka:foolish response! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Deprime007: 6:13am On Sep 28, 2015 |
both are captains and u cant ve two masters at a time in a ship |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 6:30am On Sep 28, 2015 |
99% of Nigerian ladies won't see this topic from the right perspective, they will assume that they are being attacked, anyway, its none of my business, complaints about Nigerian ladies are too much which for me, should be enough reason for them to look back and examine their lives. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Abdujapha(m): 6:40am On Sep 28, 2015 |
1. The "not so rich" naija men most times feel intimidated by the so called rich/super rich naija ladies (a man's ego esp black men is usually golden) Also, these rich ladies are sometimes skeptical of the intent of low income relationship partners (the fear of being a means to an end). 2. It's a very rare practice in black African societies for a female to approach/woo a male for whatever form of relationship likewise marriage. My humble contribution. Nice week ahead guys ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Orkpekyandega(m): 6:41am On Sep 28, 2015 |
sonofananimal:You sure say na only pride? |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by obaty(f): 6:44am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Nigerian men suffer from low self esteem even more than the women as they claim,always wanting their women to be below them.If a Nigerian man should marry a richer woman,they would complain that she is proud even when she is the humblest of all creatures.That is why most wealthy women steer clear from less wealthy men to avoid these troubles 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by ZUBY77(m): 6:47am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Someone should give me the phone number of Linda Ikeji. ![]() I know she won't like me at first because I am not Ramsey Noah. But she will definitely like me when she sees my account balance. ![]() ![]() Anyone who sends the phone number first gets 10K in naira. No jokes. |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by rhymz(m): 6:50am On Sep 28, 2015 |
But on a more serious note, why will a Nigerian guy go abroad and still desire to date the same Nigerian women that he has difficulties dating in Nigeria, who says she must be Nigerian..... I know of family members who won't touch Nigerian ladies in the US and UK with a 10m pole. It is not just about dating them but the fact that they are quick to use the female-centric family laws of these societies to Bleep up your existence in the event that things don't work out again between you and them. Most Nigerian males I know, especially the Igbos don't bother marrying Nigerian women there for the single reason that they are way too much headache to deal with..... I would rather marry some other African woman, European or come back home and pick a wife. All these ones with 21 century feminism hardliners who would rather compete than complement you in the marriage will want to switch and compare positions..... Let alone the rich ones. |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by izzimus: 6:56am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Nigerian men will attack women for going after rich men but they don't see anything wrong when the men go after rich women. who no like beta tin abeg? if women does it they are gold diggers and lazy and cannot work hard to support them self's but if men does it its good and nothing is wrong with it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Votukpa(m): 6:56am On Sep 28, 2015 |
firstEVA: Smart |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 6:59am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Which way Naija women? |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by rhymz(m): 7:02am On Sep 28, 2015 |
obaty:what exactly is your definition of self-esteem, a woman being equal to a man in a marriage..... Let me ask you this one question, how much success are marriages where both husband and wife are assumed equal in responsibility and ability to lead and make decisions for the relationship-have been recorded with such models. A woman can never be equal to a man no matter what any feminist tell herself in a marriage. The man is the leader and the woman is his companion and is there to complement him.... All that crap about women being equal and should be left to make decisions only lead to uneccessary strife and competition that eventually leads to the high baby momma and baby daddy models we now see creeping into our society from the the West. No man will stay in a relationship where his decisions have to always be first vetted by his wife before it passes, that's not low-self esteem, it is common sense, it calls to question his ability to lead or be trusted to lead.. . |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 7:02am On Sep 28, 2015 |
humilitypays: na their problem. they prefer sugar already made daddy. Is in their blood since b4 they became rich. AND WITHOUT THEM, PEOPLE SELLING Love Machine AND OTHER S3X TOYS WILL GO OUT OF BUSINESS. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by lilmax(m): 7:04am On Sep 28, 2015 |
obaty:na lie The fact is you cannot be proud and humble at the same time,the reason they dont get married to poor guys is because of “responsibility“ 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Pidggin(f): 7:06am On Sep 28, 2015 |
@OP, our men insecurities is the main problem. How many poor or average guys can boldly walk up to Linda Ikeji and ask for her hand in marriage. In a country where a man's self-esteem/worth is hinged on the amount of money he has? Many men are intimidated by rich single women because they feel they have nothing to offer her and this is mostly true when you think in terms of material things alone. You will be surprised that such ladies may not be after a wealthy man, they just want an intelligent man, with self-confidence, who will love and value them. |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by seangy4konji: 7:09am On Sep 28, 2015 |
You talk proper..before i read the comments...Make i buy you small Alomo and bushmeat for the comment make you use am start the week...i know they would have converged on the topic like bees weh see honey... super rich ladiez tend to |
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