I am a single guy who happens to have a friend (Girl). She is really just a friend but sometimes we enjoy some special benefits to the friendship. The thing is she would be getting married soon...i don't know how soon but i want to stop being intimate with her, because i don't want to scatter anything for her since i have no intentions of marrying her myself. But she doesn't seem to mind at all given the guy lives out of state.

But i want to stop...how do i do it, i make the decision and 2 weeks later and after a bout of konji...i find myself inviting her over again...what should i do biko?

Chief, oyo is ur case, marry her and save urselves hell. Chief, oyo is ur case, marry her and save urselves hell.

STOP before its too late.

Start by telling her you guys must stop.

You need to take your mind off sex, or you get married if konji wan finish you.

Marry her or u stop fast , cos if u don't marry her or stop, u pple will still continue this rubbish even after she is married... Cos the girl is a very unfaithful b!tch.. Though, From what u have written abt her not minding what u guys are doing, I can say she will never be a faithful wife, unless she receives Christ sha

DuchessLily:
Marry her or u stop fast , cos if u don't marry her or stop, u pple will still continue this rubbish even after she is married... Cos the girl is a very unfaithful b!tch.. Though, From what u have written abt her not minding what u guys are doing, I can say she will never be a faithful wife, unless she receives Christ sha

That's harsh, can a girl be required to be faithful when he has not put a ring on it? Besides am pretty sure am the only guy other than her main guy. She's not a bad girl trust me.

ilobasama:
STOP before its too late.

Start by telling her you guys must stop.

You need to take your mind off sex, or you get married if konji wan finish you.

How do i do it...i already know i have to stop, yeah?

DuchessLily:
Marry her or u stop fast , cos if u don't marry her or stop, u pple will still continue this rubbish even after she is married... Cos the girl is a very unfaithful b!tch.. Though, From what u have written abt her not minding what u guys are doing, I can say she will never be a faithful wife, unless she receives Christ sha

you are a daughter of zion I guess

Squad4:


How do i do it...i already know i have to stop, yeah?

create a mission statement, have a vision on what you want, work on your mind and lastly stay away from her.......

Travel out of the country.

move to another state...

Squad4:


That's harsh, can a girl be required to be faithful when he has not put a ring on it? Besides am pretty sure am the only guy other than her main guy. She's not a bad girl trust me.

YES she is required to be faithful... Married or not ..even guys too

In fact unmarried, she is required to abstain!

She is a bad girl if she has someone to marry soon , but still opening legs for u.
U say she is not a bad girl because it is u she is doing d deed with.... Now bro put urself in d shoe of the man she is abt to marry?? How would he feel if he finds out?? How would u feel, if u were d guy she is abt to marry?? Give me a break bro!

Golden rule: do unto others, what u would have them do to u

DuchessLily:


YES she is required to be faithful... Married or not ..even guys too

In fact unmarried, she is required to abstain!

She is a bad girl if she has someone to marry soon , but still opening legs for u.
U say she is not a bad girl because it is u she is doing d deed with.... Now bro put urself in d shoe of the man she is abt to marry?? How would he feel if he finds out?? How would u feel, if u were d guy she is abt to marry?? Give me a break bro!

Golden rule: do unto others, what u would have them do to u

You seem to be getting upset, I know there is a serious guy now in her life and I won't be happy if i was the other guy which is why I want TO STOP; thats what the thread is about not about trashing the girl or me...Suggestions of how i can truly severe this trend.

Just STOP!!

naijaboiy:
Guy get another girl to fuçk. You will be able to forget this one easily.

Thanks Naijaboy, think this is the most helpful advice today!

naijaboiy:
Guy get another girl to fuçk. You will be able to forget this one easily.

seconded! @op You cant leave her easily unless you get a girlfriend..it works like magic

find koboko fr ur bulala wen it misbhaves

HomieQuan:
find koboko fr ur bulala wen it misbhaves

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