naijaboiy:

Hehehehe....but it's funny though.

it's not a funny experience when a man believes everything his woman says and then decides not to disturb her only to discover at the end that she has been lying.

It brings up the issue of trust.

JeffreyJamez:


Indeed it does, it goes along way than just the virginity issue, the guy will start questioning some certain things about her that she was actually honest about.

sparcolette:
Our culture/society puts a kind pressure on women to remain virgins untill der wedding nyt
And most ladies tend to tink dah there husband ll place more value n respct on dem,if only dey r virgins
Buh lying abt one's virginity status is really wrong
Heh! its called deceit
And trust men, most find it hard to forgv esp
wen der pride n ego has bin tampered with

Sinnzu:


Its how they've been programmed, i've met quite alot of them... The funny thing is, they will always be the first to judge you if u lie to them or cheat, forgetting that they've already built the relationship on the foundation of lies. I NEVER take such girls serious.

That part got me. Cos i've actually experienced it.

A relationship that started on a few lies told by the girl and when I found out I completely forgave.

But when it came to my turn to err,she didn't even waste time in walking away.

Oyind17:
observing

jmoore:
Any girl that lies about her virginity status can give birth to a baby that is not yours.

Hmmm...Food for thought.

naijaboiy:

You got it right.

Other questions will start coming up which on a normal day were actually the truth

jmoore:
Any girl that lies about her virginity status can give birth to a baby that is not yours.

Sinnzu:
lalasticlala why hide my comment kwanu?
This isnt the first time you've seen a member comment that way is it??

PinkBarbie:
Personally, I see no reason why I should lie about my virginity status to someone I'm dating (maybe going to marry). For some, maybe they feel if he finds out she's not a virgin, he's going to withdraw. Some think they'll loose their respect or attention. But I think it's better to be come out truthful. That way, you'll save yourself of some unnecessary worries and 'heart attack'.

JeffreyJamez:

Iwo!....*snaps fingers*

Suspect33:
Jesus Christ is coming back soon, How prepared are you??


Hebrew 12:14 ; Without holiness no man shall see GOD

naijaboiy:

That part got me. Cos i've actually experienced it.

A relationship that started on a few lies told by the girl and when I found out I completely forgave.

But when it came to my turn to err,she didn't even waste time in walking away.

Twaci:
I really dunno...but i'd say that people lie to meet up to another's expectations (or probably a bit more). Those that lie about their virginity probably do so because of the 'high esteem' virgins are regarded with by guys, so, they would want to impress their partners (which i think is silly BTW).

My advice though, if u are bad, be very good at being bad. Don't try to impress another with something you are not.

shokky24:
I don't lie

JeffreyJamez:


Person like me go just Fade for like 3months.

Your quietness go kill person one day

sweetorgasms:
bcaus ur comment was trash

falconey:


saraki said the same thing

LOL,

Sinnzu:


Thats the problem with these women, they lie or act up and you forgive but they wont reciprocate when YOU do same.
Well, thats another topic for another day!

Lol,thats just the thing. Although I was never expecting forgiveness.

JeffreyJamez:


Spoken like a wise woman.. #AwonWereyGodMother

Sinnzu:


Wont derail this thread with you. I'll mention you when i'm ready to give you a good whipping.

naijaboiy:

Hmmm...but don't they think of the future?

See the story I cited as an example,i'm sure the girl knew he would find out somehow but she still went ahead to lie anyway.

naijaboiy:

I don't really know,but I don't think guys these days really care about marrying virgins.

I've not conducted a poll or carried out a research on it yet but from the few guys i've been around it proves my assertion right.

So I don't think girls should be sweating themselves out. If you are a virgin,fine. If you are not,no problem.

Oyind17:

SeverusSnape:

You've not carried out a research nor conducted a poll, right?... Please do, and you'll find out that most men still prefer virgins, Some may not admit it openly, but deep in their heart, that is one of their utmost desire.

naijaboiy:

Your quietness go kill person one day

naijaboiy:

Hmm,,well I'm an exception to that.