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Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by ubanDoma1(m): 10:23am On Sep 28, 2015 |
I have been married to my wife for six year now, we re living together. We have one child. Lately , I noticed some strange behaviour from wife, her libido has increased to an alarming stage. Anytime I come home from work tired she kept disturbing for sex which I find very disturbing. Until yesterday I was looking for something in my room, I came across a VIBRATOR. I am really confused. The question is. .should I allow her continue using it as a substitute or I should stop her before she gets use to using it ( my wife is a full time house wife) Pls I need mature advice |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by donTbone(m): 10:26am On Sep 28, 2015 |
stop her before its late. She resolved to using the pleasure machine due to your negligence. Try relaxing and stressing yourself less @ work, then try satisfying her the best way you can in bed. And mind you, try not to say no again whenever she is ready. it is her matrimonial right! 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by xynerise: 10:28am On Sep 28, 2015 |
ubanDoma1:As it stands bro, you already have a rival. If you are not giving her the much needed sex, then you are on a long thing. It doesn't hurt you to take a break at work for some days and teach her a lesson on bed. Don't leave her begging for sex. Na serious wahala o 6 Likes |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by henribj(m): 10:31am On Sep 28, 2015 |
you can never stop her from using it whenever you are not around she will make use of it only way is to get her occupied with something else so she has less time for it, and gradually she will forget about it. |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Sparkle777(f): 10:32am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Get her a job. Try do ur best to satisfy her. Also talk to her, vib rators can be addictive. 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by MRBrownJ: 11:07am On Sep 28, 2015 |
ubanDoma1: what an hypocrite... you dont want to attend to your wife's sexual needs, but you also dont want her to satisfy her own self (due to your lack in bedroom game). she wouldnt need a v1brator if YOU were doing your job right! 14 Likes |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by freecocoa(f): 11:15am On Sep 28, 2015 |
OP I don't want to say you aren't doing it right but truth remains, she isn't satisfied with what you give, plus having a lot of spare time(depends on what she does at home though) will definitely make it harder to keep her mind off sex. You both need to have a talk to figure it out. 3 Likes |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Nobody: 11:15am On Sep 28, 2015 |
@OP look 4 a job for ur wife or start a bussiness 4 her, dat way her mind will be occupied with business issues, dnt allow continue with the love machine and make sure u always give her sex when she demands it even though ure tired, just make her happy. 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by peeparty(m): 11:34am On Sep 28, 2015 |
vibrator always hits the spot. please allow her to continue using it thank you... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by SAMBARRY: 12:11pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Any married woman having a intimacy gadget means he got 0/10 in sexology course That should tell you that you are a failure so go and retake your course before another person helps you to retake the course and mind you you you don't know the kinds of men that she meets where she buys the intimacy gadget meanwhile this your story is synonymous to a mother who is a restaurant owner and the child is begging for food from strangers I pity you. Don't get back to work. Kontunu lamenting.boyalomo pe no be only you sabi better thing You should be ashamed that an ordinary toy is doing a better work than you a human being that doesn't use batteries next 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by SAMBARRY: 12:13pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Kanwuliajara oya come and put mouth o |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Dragonking: 12:19pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
ubanDoma1: You better start performing ur sexual duties or else na your landlord or gate man go hammer ur wife everyday. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by SAMBARRY: 12:20pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
MRBrownJ:exactly my sentiments.and na them go dey do baba counsellor for church. Shiooorrrr |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Dragonking: 12:20pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
peeparty:Are you ok ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by lilmax(m): 12:21pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
You are not doing it well ![]() |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by lezz(m): 12:31pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Dragonking: ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by MRBrownJ: 12:56pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: to most men, a v1brator is a threat, because that tool can achieve what they selfishly decided to ignore/disregard 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by drered(m): 1:36pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Big deal.. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by cococandy(f): 1:56pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Mtchew. People making problems for themselves when they actually have none. You're not happy it's not the neighbor instead of the vibratorr.? 3 Likes |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by peeparty(m): 2:19pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Good question @Dragonking. should I allow her continue using it as a substitute or I should stop her before she gets use to using it?op ask this question above. I can wrap my head around this..I mean a full grown man with Big balls asking this? Sir it is so obvious his not performing his duty. 3 Likes |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Pidggin(f): 2:57pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
@OP, what do u want her to do? You caused it, kindly live with the situation. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Dragonking: 4:05pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
peeparty:Why won't the wife go for intimacy gadgets when the husband isn't living up to his duties. ![]() This isn't an issue......The op should perform his roles as the sexual partner or another man or object will do it for him....Simple. 4 Likes |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by focus7: 4:11pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
The question should have been " should you allow her to continue using it as a substitute or she should get help from outside?". In my opinion, since it is obvious you can't satisfy her libido and she's not seeing another man outside, you should allow her ease herself with the machine if that is doing the work for her after all you still have her loyalty. On the other hand you also try and work on yourself. 4 Likes |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Ebi4life: 4:20pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
ubanDoma1:if it were possible to exchange wife,I would hve said we should exchange. You type of wife is the kind I would prefer marrying.my wife is zero when it comes sex. sometimes we hardly hve sex twice in 2 months. |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Brymo: 4:55pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
cococandy:bottom line, he was meant to b d one doin d 'thrusting' not a machine. She cheated, neighbor or no neighbor. If i was d one, way too disapntd, i tut she cud talk to me, she's my wife for God's sake. |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Brymo: 4:56pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Omo ur own critical Ebi4life: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by ifyalways(f): 5:03pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
There is something you are obviously not doing well/right. Dont confront your wife, stage a surprise night, get and light scented candles, wear your sexxy boxers ![]() And oh, the boxers must be red. Red works always. ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by MRBrownJ: 5:10pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
^^^i think it is too late and now this guy has to work with this side "tool", to enhance their lovemaking, FOREVER. she has already tasted the forbidden fruit and she LIKED IT! Brymo: bro, she did talk to him... she demanded sex (which the husband viewed as "disturbance" ) and he denied her what is supposedly her marital right, under the pretense that he was "tired". yes, it can be viewed as cheating to some people but she was forced into the act. |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by Brymo: 5:14pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Your points are ok, no doubt MRBrownJ:but nothin can justify a wrong doing, negligence isn't even good enough. |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by MRBrownJ: 5:18pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Brymo: you are absolutely right but they BOTH did wrong... |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by peeparty(m): 5:43pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Dragonking: We are actually on the same page..maybe you seems not to understand me... |
Re: Urgent Help -I Caught My Wife With A vibrator by raumdeuter: 5:49pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Nothing wrong with a woman owning a vilbrator Many married women have it |
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