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Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Squad4(m): 11:59am On Sep 28, 2015 |
I am a single guy who happens to have a friend (Girl). She is really just a friend but sometimes we enjoy some special benefits to the friendship. The thing is she would be getting married soon...i don't know how soon but i want to stop being intimate with her, because i don't want to scatter anything for her since i have no intentions of marrying her myself. But she doesn't seem to mind at all given the guy lives out of state. But i want to stop...how do i do it, i make the decision and 2 weeks later and after a bout of konji...i find myself inviting her over again...what should i do biko? |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by donevnetng: 12:16pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Chief, oyo is ur case, marry her and save urselves hell. ![]() |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by hob(m): 12:17pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Take ur konji somewhere else |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
STOP before its too late. Start by telling her you guys must stop. You need to take your mind off sex, or you get married if konji wan finish you. |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by DuchessLily(f): 12:25pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Marry her or u stop fast , cos if u don't marry her or stop, u pple will still continue this rubbish even after she is married... Cos the girl is a very unfaithful b!tch.. Though, From what u have written abt her not minding what u guys are doing, I can say she will never be a faithful wife, unless she receives Christ sha |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Squad4(m): 12:29pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
DuchessLily: That's harsh, can a girl be required to be faithful when he has not put a ring on it? Besides am pretty sure am the only guy other than her main guy. She's not a bad girl trust me. |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Squad4(m): 12:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
ilobasama: How do i do it...i already know i have to stop, yeah? |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Fernandowski(m): 12:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
DuchessLily:you are a daughter of zion I guess ![]() |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Squad4:create a mission statement, have a vision on what you want, work on your mind and lastly stay away from her....... |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by 400billionman: 1:09pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Travel out of the country. |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by datyrone(m): 1:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
move to another state... |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by DuchessLily(f): 1:43pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Squad4: YES she is required to be faithful... Married or not ..even guys too In fact unmarried, she is required to abstain! She is a bad girl if she has someone to marry soon , but still opening legs for u. U say she is not a bad girl because it is u she is doing d deed with.... Now bro put urself in d shoe of the man she is abt to marry?? How would he feel if he finds out?? How would u feel, if u were d guy she is abt to marry?? Give me a break bro! Golden rule: do unto others, what u would have them do to u 1 Like |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Squad4(m): 2:35pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
DuchessLily: You seem to be getting upset, I know there is a serious guy now in her life and I won't be happy if i was the other guy which is why I want TO STOP; thats what the thread is about not about trashing the girl or me...Suggestions of how i can truly severe this trend. |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by naijaboiy: 2:38pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Guy get another girl to fuçk. You will be able to forget this one easily. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Just STOP!! |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Squad4(m): 3:52pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Thanks Naijaboy, think this is the most helpful advice today! 1 Like |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Mikocake(m): 4:11pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
naijaboiy:seconded! @op You cant leave her easily unless you get a girlfriend..it works like magic |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by HomieQuan(m): 5:40pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
find koboko fr ur bulala wen it misbhaves |
Re: Friends With Benefits...how Can I Stop?? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
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