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. by godguy: 9:50am On Sep 29, 2015 |
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Re: . by Mutuwa(m): 9:59am On Sep 29, 2015 |
godguy: give her an additional two/three weeks,for a better healing.meanwhile feed her on more fruits to energize her enough to meet up the "sexual exercise".coming out strong from a CS related delivery is usually not that easy,tho depends on the kinda woman,her state of mind and inward strength. |
Re: . by godguy: 10:01am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Mutuwa:thanks for you advise |
Re: . by lecturerdabo(m): 10:05am On Sep 29, 2015 |
godguy: Bro pls check the title! 1 Like |
Re: . by godguy: 10:19am On Sep 29, 2015 |
lecturerdabo: thanks |
Re: . by histemple: 10:20am On Sep 29, 2015 |
lecturerdabo: LOL |
Re: . by Sleekbaby(f): 10:33am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Oga give her more time oo bcoz according to u she gave birth through CS, she needs more time 2 heal, tnk u n congrats on ur new baby. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Squad4(m): 10:37am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Sleekbaby: What is more time? Just give specifics...more time could be two years or five months...people sha! |
Re: . by MrsDoctor: 10:40am On Sep 29, 2015 |
You need to read this https://www.nairaland.com/2631626/moms-diary-he-killed godguy: |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:58am On Sep 29, 2015 |
6-8 weeks to be on the safe side. You don't want to loosen any stitches or cause pain. CS is a major surgery. You wouldn't want to have se.x when your lower abdomen is opened and poked to extract a 3.5 kg tumor. Youve to heal first. Meanwhile, use of mouth and hand will be advisable. 4 Likes |
Re: . by Onegai(f): 11:15am On Sep 29, 2015 |
3 weeks after birth and you're jumping her body, and it was CS. Na wa for you o... I'm sure the doctor/OBGYN mentioned it was a standard 6 weeks AFTER birth. They always tell the couple (so as to let the woman's body heal). And even after that 6 weeks, please go and buy KY gel for lubrication (it is cheap, gwan buy am before you cause another wahala medically by using body lotion or Vaseline ). Hormones will make the place dry for a while. 4 Likes |
Re: . by godguy: 12:01pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Sleekbaby: thanks |
Re: . by godguy: 12:04pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
thanks all for your advise, please i will like to hear from mothers in the house, based on experience. please mods, Lalasticlala, help me move this to where i can get more opinions |
Re: . by Onegai(f): 12:32pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
You are hearing from mothers. Give it more time. If it those stitches open up due to any excessive exercise (sex is exercise), it won't be funny. Use this time of celibacy to build a stronger marriage: help out with the baby and chores, even if you go to work. Feel free to cuddle your wife (she will be so exhausted and her hormones will be driving her crazy). Do your baby research online so when she has any fears (a lot will pop up especially if she's breastfeeding), both of you can discuss it together with information at hand. I promise you, do all these and when. sex resumes, she will be so willing. Because. you've acted like a husband and a leader. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by godguy: 1:21pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Onegai: thanks alot for the words. |
Re: . by tpiander: 3:21pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
godguy: why are you asking nlers? don't you have gumption you can use? 4 Likes |
Re: . by 5minsmadness: 3:38pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
When she gives you permission to do so. 2 Likes |
Re: . by godguy: 3:51pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
tpiander: because i want to hear from mothers based on their experiences |
Re: . by tpiander: 4:00pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
godguy: what is there to hear? use your common sense or don't you have any? 1 Like |
Re: . by ElFenomeno1: 4:02pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
tpiander: Oh shut up you foolish old slu....tpot! Like you have any bloody senses yourself....... Were agbalagba! |
Re: . by godguy: 4:03pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
tpiander: sorry Mr, there is no sense that is common. |
Re: . by ElFenomeno1: 4:04pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
godguy: |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:15pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
godguy:With this few point of ours, I hope we have been able to convince and to confuse you. Tanchu |
Re: . by tpiander: 4:22pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
godguy: oh, if you already know, then try to acquire some. |
Re: . by tpiander: 4:22pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
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Re: . by godguy: 4:38pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
tpiander: this thread is meant for adults and married couples |
Re: . by tpiander: 4:44pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
godguy: like I said, use your common sense to figure out your answer. 2 Likes |
Re: . by godguy: 4:49pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
tpiander: |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:59pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Just imagining why u didn't seek advice n counsel from the same doctor dat delivered your wife 3 Likes |
Re: . by NemzySeries(m): 11:50pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
use dis ur free period dey gada money 4 baby dedication joor 3 Likes |
Re: . by d25(m): 12:32am On Sep 30, 2015 |
My wife gave birth through normal delivery, the doctors told us that we should wait for six weeks before we can do anything. Also, she had an appointment with her gynecologist after six weeks to make sure everything was okay. Everything was okay according to the doctor, but I added additional two weeks before we had intercourse. I think you should give her more time before making love with her because it wasn't a natural delivery. Three weeks is too small in my opinion. 4 Likes |
Re: . by godguy: 9:12am On Sep 30, 2015 |
d25: thanks for the advice |
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