Jollyjoy:
you are simply overflogging this issue,the op still have feelings for her ex,btw any rational thinking human will know nothing kill relationship faster than hanging on to past affairs,make she dey decieve herself,on the otherhand i think you arent totally true to yourself,there are ex you cant just stop having the feelings for,irrespective of what end it or who was at fault,while we can easily call the bluff to some face..

Jollyjoy:
you are simply overflogging this issue,the op still have feelings for her ex,btw any rational thinking human will know nothing kill relationship faster than hanging on to past affairs,make she dey decieve herself,on the otherhand i think you arent totally true to yourself,there are ex you cant just stop having the feelings for,irrespective of what end it or who was at fault,while we can easily call the bluff to some face..

PunkyVeer:


Change your number. Let him perform a séance next time he wants to be in touch with you. Why am I getting the feeling that you're liking this? It's really not that hard trying to get rid of someone, that's if they're "all there" & sane though.

gj22:


Change number? Just because of some stupid ex who wouldn't take a clue?

foladaraawe, The best thing to do is let him meet your current bf. He will leave you alone (that's if he's doing it because he doesn't believe you).if he doesn't still. Leave you, maybe it's time to tell current bae that previous bae is being an idiot.

Unless of course you still have feelings for him then it is more complicated.

foladaraawe:
I ended the relationship because I've neva loved him...he's just being adamant nt turning back,if I love him,I need not to bring it on dis platform,I shud definitely knw wat to do

PunkyVeer:


Yes, change the number. A new number is a small sacrifice to make, when you don't wanna deal with unwanted calls from the past & when those calls are jeopardising your new relationship/chances to move on.

Jollyjoy:
funny you,if a guy is serious abt a lady,i dnt think changing number will get him off the hook,.....

foladaraawe:
bt he kept calling and never seize to send messages,how do I back him off?

PunkyVeer:


Well, if said lady is not interested & he keeps pestering her, that's called harassment & is against the law in most countries. Come on, we don't live in the stone age now, where everyone grunts + snorts & a "no" could easily be mistaken for a "yes". No should be no. End of story.

foladaraawe:
bt he kept calling and never seize to send messages,how do I back him off?

all4naija:

I heard that when I Nigerian girls say no they mean yes. What do you say about that?

PunkyVeer:


I wouldn't know since I'm not Nigerian. But a no from me is a no. I don't do hard to get

all4naija:

You haven't come across a guy that wouldn't accept no from you and do everything to knock you off your feet. Somebody like you can easily accept a guy to push harder. You only show this stubbornness here but when it comes to reality you are weak.

PunkyVeer:


Lol, if you say so.

all4naija:
I can read your mind, lady.

PunkyVeer:


Ok. Good for you.

all4naija:
Yeah! Don't you like it?

PunkyVeer:


Like what?

foladaraawe:
I ended the relationship because I've neva loved him...he's just being adamant nt turning back,if I love him,I need not to bring it on dis platform,I shud definitely knw wat to do

PunkyVeer:


Change your number. Let him perform a séance next time he wants to be in touch with you. Why am I getting the feeling that you're liking this? It's really not that hard trying to get rid of someone, that's if they're "all there" & sane though.

Dojupyo:




Change number ke?

He reach mey she change number for am?

Mey d guy go sidon

Forward ever!! Backward never!

PunkyVeer:


What is so weird about changing your number? Are you that attached to it? It makes sense to me. You itch, you scratch. You thirsty, you drink water. You receive calls from someone you don't wanna talk to, you change number. Easy as 123.

Dojupyo:



I'm sorry but I can't change my number for any guy for whatsoever reasons that I don't care to know.. Its as easy as "abc" but he's gonna get tired of calling

PunkyVeer:


What are you talking about?

Well, if you must know, I don't see the point of still communicating with an ex, let alone having to answer to him about anything. I'd nip that in the bud real fast just to remind him of which tense he belongs to, the past. With me, if we're done, we're done. I'm not the sentimental type.

PunkyVeer:


I'm overflogging the issue? I only posted 3 posts! Two to the OP & the last one replying to a question directed at me by that guy.

Just like fingers, people are different. There's not even one single ex I still have feelings for because when a relationship ends, I like to sit back, give myself a break to reflect & mourn the relationship. After the down period, it's like I'm reborn. No attachments. Nothing. That's just me though. When I move on, I move on completely & cut all ties. Believe that!

PunkyVeer:
You cannot be serious. You do not owe him anything. He's an ex for a reason. Tell him to beat it. WTH? The only reason your current relationship will fail is because of you. It seems you might still have hots for your ex or you wouldn't be trying to jump through hoops to prove something to him. Whether you're with someone or not, is none of his damn business. He should stay in his lane & remain in the dusty archives, like an ex should. Stop entertaining rubbish.

foladaraawe:
thanks,u ar definitely ryt nd moreso I never loved him

foladaraawe:
I ended the relationship because I've neva loved him...he's just being adamant nt turning back,if I love him,I need not to bring it on dis platform,I shud definitely knw wat to do

Youngpo413:
He should try to move on,this love no be by force,I know that it won't be easy if he was really really into you,a Man should learn to depend on himself,as for "You",pray this your new man will love you for real.