.

Date mii then.

Nosh honey pls stay away from dem guys.

Curiosity kills the cat ..if ur not ready 100% to be in a relationship, then don't bother urself thinking negative thoughts abt men..coz if u keep thinking tat way, u will never gonna find a man...being in a relationship is like a trial & error, everybody has to risk & see if it will work or not...but ur still young, finish ur school first, get a job...

You need some time out to have a feel of other places and your same gender.
Be not tempted to date on the grounds of loneliness.
Be not frustrated to have a guy on the grounds of 'leaving school soon'.

Again, take the time and let love lead you instead. And if you must know, trust is a key factor in every relationship.

Cheers

another ashi* in the making

Hmm d posters above av said it al

just b carefully careful

lekjons:
another ashi* in the making

Hey that's very rude and unmanly. I'd advice you apologise or take away the comment

0079jaBond:

Hey that's very rude and unmanly. I'd advice you apologise or take away the comment

As per woman wrapper wey u be bah

0079jaBond:

Hey that's very rude and unmanly. I'd advice you apologise or take away the comment

i dey come..

Be careful not 2 get desperate bout getting a boyfriend,coz if it happens,yhu myt just mk a wrong choice nd pull out too fast...Be relaxed nd keep observing d guys arnd u...Nobody can tell yhu better when d ryt person comes along. Learn to trust ur instincts. Plus I bliv u've got some standards as regards d sort of guy u'd wantu date. Don't lower them 4 anything... And about wanting to maintain celibacy,twud be important yhu discuss it with whosoever yhu end up dating nd mk sure yhu av an understanding. The rest is up to u 2 remain firm in ur decision to be celibate.


#Philosopher Quëën#

menix:

As per woman wrapper wey u be bah

LOL

you have built walls around your heart... the truth is that you are scared of getting hurt but the funny aspect of it is that it all counts and make life fun and interesting...

OP, DO YOU KNOW I TRUST YOU? TRUST ME YOU ARE GOING TO TRUST ME MORE THAN ANY GUY,AND MY REAL NAME IS TRUST, WHAT DID U THINK? COME LETS TRUST OUR SELF

I had the same problem while in school. I believe what z meant to be will be. When its the right time to be in a relatnship,dn ure going 2b in a relationship. For now dnt dwell on it. Focus on education.

KashyBaby:
Curiosity kills the cat ..if ur not ready 100% to be in a relationship, then don't bother urself thinking negative thoughts abt men..coz if u keep thinking tat way, u will never gonna find a man...being in a relationship is like a trial & error, everybody has to risk & see if it will work or not...but ur still young, finish ur school first, get a job...

Thanks for ur advice

Oliviaarims:
Be careful not 2 get desperate bout getting a boyfriend,coz if it happens,yhu myt just mk a wrong choice nd pull out too fast...Be relaxed nd keep observing d guys arnd u...Nobody can tell yhu better when d ryt person comes along. Learn to trust ur instincts. Plus I bliv u've got some standards as regards d sort of guy u'd wantu date. Don't lower them 4 anything... And about wanting to maintain celibacy,twud be important yhu discuss it with whosoever yhu end up dating nd mk sure yhu av an understanding. The rest is up to u 2 remain firm in ur decision to be celibate.


#Philosopher Quëën#

Thanks

Oliviaarims:
Be careful not 2 get desperate bout getting a boyfriend,coz if it happens,yhu myt just mk a wrong choice nd pull out too fast...Be relaxed nd keep observing d guys arnd u...Nobody can tell yhu better when d ryt person comes along. Learn to trust ur instincts. Plus I bliv u've got some standards as regards d sort of guy u'd wantu date. Don't lower them 4 anything... And about wanting to maintain celibacy,twud be important yhu discuss it with whosoever yhu end up dating nd mk sure yhu av an understanding. The rest is up to u 2 remain firm in ur decision to be celibate.


#Philosopher Quëën#

Thanks@ oliviaarims

0079jaBond:
You need some time out to have a feel of other places and your same gender.
Be not tempted to date on the grounds of loneliness.
Be not frustrated to have a guy on the grounds of 'leaving school soon'.

Again, take the time and let love lead you instead. And if you must know, trust is a key factor in every relationship.

Cheers

I do have some female friends but I said mostly guys
Thanks for ur advice and for even reading this piece

lekjons:
another ashi* in the making

Why can't you just be quiet if you don't have anything to write up. Well as u can see on my quote I don't really care.

naijaboiy:
Sister,,Truly Truly I say to you...If You are Not Ready just keep abstaining and stay away from men.

Maybe by the time you're forty you'll be fully ready.

you've said it all...... men are very lovely creatures but girls seem not to comprehend..... op you've come of age,start cultivating platonic friendship with them by then you'll find the one that truly loves you

naijaboiy:
Sister,,Truly Truly I say to you...If You are Not Ready just keep abstaining and stay away from men.

Maybe by the time you're forty you'll be fully ready.

Chai!! this naijaboiy sha make I no talk.

@ noshiobec

seeing as u r in ur final year, I don't think starting a relationship now would be in ur best interest...

it could be a distraction and could cos an emotional strain... you r most likely an engineering student, so you've got to keep ur concentration up...

noshiobec:
Thanks@ oliviaarims

Twas my pleasure,swithrt...

noshiobec:


I do have some female friends but I said mostly guys
Thanks for ur advice and for even reading this piece

You're welcome

Hmhm,maybe date some1 younger to garner xperience before u move on?

Da Cucumber Crew....I believe u..

wait until you're clocking 38 before you begin to trust guys.....

na una type dem dey find for Shiloh every year....

rolling on the floor begging God for husband....

and you dey even open mouth dey talk say "They will devour me if given the chance" and you dey happy.... mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww

keep magneting all sorts of guys to urself,very soon ur story will change.

#Senselessness..

noshiobec:
I clocked 21 not too long and upon resumption I would be in my final[5th] year in school. I haven't been in any serious relationship not because there are no guys but because of chastity. It hasn't been a easy decision on my part especially being a romance movie freak. I have most of my friends to be males and if you ask why? it is because I am in a department dominated by the males. Being a movie freak,most times i am left with the feeling that i miss a lot outside a relationship. I Don't feel 80% comfortable around my male friends because if not all but most of them have at a time T asked me out and still gives me this impression that if given the chance,would devour me. Can't really differentiate the good guys from the players especially when they all seems to have sugar coated tongues that can make one easily trust them. I would really like to say a yes to one but can't trust the guy enough to abide by my celibacy rule and also don't know if I can trust myself when alone with a guy I truly love when the move gets stronger and I know i would go sick and crazy if i go against my for now rule. Need your kind advice pls

@emboldened
An engine babe in da house

Back to business.
Before you agree to date any guy, I believe you should have been friends for a while, that way you get to know more about them and what they stand for.
Don't make the mistake of getting into a relationship with someone who doesn't share same belief as you do as that will be a disaster waiting to happen.

Plus you have to make conscious effort to see that you keep to this decision of yours if eventually you start dating..

Cheers babe!!!!