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Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by crackhaus: 3:43pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
bestestgirl:And what happens when 'the dude' doesn't give two shiits who she flirts with anymore? 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Vikky014(f): 3:43pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
chuksfor13:ok |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 3:45pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Vikky014:Proverbs 20:6 Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find? Are you married? |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Vikky014(f): 3:47pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
chuksfor13:do u want to marry me or do u want both of us to cheat on our spouse 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 3:48pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
And you think its nice? |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by galadima77(m): 3:49pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
You're way too young for the path you're about towing n best of all, turn to your God |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by megawax8: 3:50pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
MizMyColi: MEAN 1 Like |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 3:50pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
crackhaus: Then I guess that they have kukuma evolved into an open marriage, she should come and ask Kanwuliajara or some tips Many couples are enjoying that kind of marriage 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by 5minsmadness: 3:50pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Yawns.... 1 Like
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Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Miami11: 3:52pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
I understand your pain I always tell my husband if he cheats I will do exactly the same Anyway for the sake of those kids, you be the grown person( don't compete with him) 1 Like |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by crackhaus: 3:52pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
bestestgirl:You really think Nigerians are capable of practising open marriage? Don't believe everything you read on NL. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 4:02pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
MizMyColi: such a well-cooked pot of sarcasm 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Mcowubaba: 4:11pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
chuksfor13:Proverbs 21:9 It is better to live on a corner of a roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.. Nd verse 19..better to live in a desert than with an ill-tempered wife... I LOVE THE BIBLE... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by shaiba(f): 4:13pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
You are on the high way to self-destruct. Stop it while you can. You took a decision in anger and that could destroy your life. So, Miss young and hot, where will this take you to five to ten years from now? When all that makes you hot becomes old and drops, trust me it will, what then will you use to get back at him? You have a family that loves you, how? Because he came back home and tried to explain the reason why he is late, he is remorseful and you should give him a chance. We all make mistakes and have our weaknesses, he cant be that perfect neither are you. I don't support cheating from either party. Many have money with no one (family) to share it with, and here you are with a family and you want to throw it all away just because of some messages you saw on his phone? Stop and put your house together, that's what the African woman stands for. Save your home while you can. Don't let the children suffer for your mistakes. Pay backs, most times leaves one empty and boomerang. |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by wiseoneking: 4:19pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
nickibarb:i pity your life if you are truly real. you can use the wrong to justify the right. you could be more dirtier than your skirt flirting bad guy. settle down and build your home if you were the first person that observe your leaking roof. humble your self and be example of your girls. you think you are too young for your age, nope. if you continue with this mentality, you will end up in......? |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by PenAndPaper: 4:20pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Just remember an eye for an eye makes everyone go blind...hope you get my drift |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by bukatyne(f): 4:35pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Thanks I disagree though that the OP was interested in cheating. When pushed to the wall, people do react in different ways. Remember she is not interested in leaving the marriage. 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by 5minsmadness: 4:48pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Sorry, are you eckankar? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 4:59pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Miami11:@ bolded, you really tell your husband that? Has he ever given you any reason to think he might cheat on you?. . I really don't think you should be telling him that. .. Op, don't cheat back... You don't have to reduce yourself to his level... Besides, cheating back makes you a cheat too! Since you said he has realised his mistake, give him another chance. .... Meanwhile, some men shaa.. he saw your chat with men on whatsapp and was threatening fire whereas he cheats(ed).. SMH. .. I wonder what makes some men feel the world revolves around them... 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by 5minsmadness: 5:02pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: I bet u the op would have been more pissed if he saw it and said nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by MizMyColi(f): 5:03pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Tallesty1(m): 5:04pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
bukatyne:Because of the money. She blew her own cover there. |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 5:05pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
5minsmadness:.. You're right. . The act encouraged her that the husband still cares atleast. . However, since the man knows how painful it could be having another partner, why deliberately hurting his wife? Really bad.. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by 5minsmadness: 5:07pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Buddhist? Vegan? |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by MizMyColi(f): 5:11pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 5:15pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
whirlwind7: lol @ eating a fat toad. definitely, if it ever happens it will be with someone who will make my husband feel intimidated. I already made sure that the dudes i flirted with, made him feel insecure just the way he made me feel. one of them was an MIT professor I used to know when I was in the US (unmarried of cos). my husband was like f*** that his useless degree. I was thinking to myself, "whoa it has pained somebody oh, useless degree ke". As for the person who said i saw the signs, sorry to disappoint you, I didn't. my husband made some money and figured money gives him license to look for any tom, dick and harry to spread his love to. |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by 5minsmadness: 5:16pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:Lol You women have no idea what real konji is. He didn't cheat on her to deliberately hurt her. If he wanted to do that he would have flaunted his cheating. Seeing a woman to a man is like... Well, like magic. A fire burns deep within the heart of man. A fire that NEVER goes out till the man dies. It's the fire of lust. Any man you see walking around that hasn't "cheated" on his woman has very strong self control or simply hasnt had the opportunity. I know one of those viewing will be tempted to start a quarrel that women feel the same, they have the same urge etc. Trust me, they don't. They have no idea. The person that said "konji na bastard" must have been a guy. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by hahn(m): 5:20pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by 5minsmadness: 5:20pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
MizMyColi:I've been reading some of your posts. Deep for the average girl(no offence.) lots of spiritual/Zen-like undertones. |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by 5minsmadness: 5:21pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
hahn:. Stalker! (shudders) |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 5:27pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
sisisioge:...speak for yasef 1 Like |
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 5:28pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Op, I like your honesty, you indeed have a. Strong reason to remain in the marriage.... since divorce is not an option here, i'd advice you to do as you please, find a polished, intelligent dude like your husband and fvck.. However, you should consider, the fact that you are putting your privileged life in jeopardy, you might get caught, and your husband doesn't seem like one dat has a good incentive to keep you after that, unlike you.... Aside the struggle associated with explaining to pple how you fvcked another dude to get back at your husband and got kicked out consequently....Besides, a rich, polished guy like your husband won't have a problem getting a finer wife.. you know beautiful girls are as common as condoms these days while brains is going extinct... Other than that, I don't see a. Problem, Fvck on... |
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