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Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by pickabeau1: 9:13pm On Sep 30, 2015
MizMyColi:
undecided
xx.xxt]

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Is it our solemnizing and preaching that will help this lost dog hear the whistle
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by sauceEEP(m): 9:22pm On Sep 30, 2015
Am classy just like trey songz so how can we meet @ op?
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 9:35pm On Sep 30, 2015
[quote author=Vikky014 yes or no
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Vikky014(f): 9:37pm On Sep 30, 2015
chuksfor13:
[quote author=Vikky014 yes or no
no answer
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by MizMyColi(f): 9:40pm On Sep 30, 2015
pickabeau1:


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It is our solemnizing and preaching that will help this lost dog hear the whistle

lols
Was that you preaching?

Interestingcheesy
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 9:43pm On Sep 30, 2015
[quote author=Vikky014 post=38544851][/quote]
I see NO in ur answer, n dats ok by me.
Ehee, wat of d pics?
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by pickabeau1: 9:45pm On Sep 30, 2015
MizMyColi:


lols
Was that you preaching?

Interestingcheesy

I meant Is it?...

It was a question
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by jadelyn007(f): 9:47pm On Sep 30, 2015
Cheat because you found someone really hot you are lusting after not because he cheated. That way you won't feel empty when you are done. Rather you will long for more. You'll glow and radiate a sense of satisfaction and happiness.

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Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Vikky014(f): 9:49pm On Sep 30, 2015
chuksfor13:
I see NO in ur answer, n dats ok by me. Ehee, wat of d pics?
i said no answer. nt no kiss
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by toksbisola: 9:49pm On Sep 30, 2015
@OP; TICK TOCK TICK TOCK; a time bomb is ticking on when you’re going to cheat on your husband; right? Ever heard the saying “You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink”; I’m sure you have.

Take this; the decision of whether to commit the act of cheating as pay back to your husband is entirely yours to make as no one else (not even your husband) can make that decision for you. It's quite shocking that you’ve even gone as far as deciding what type of man you’ll cheat on your husband with. WELL; IN THIS REGARD, CLAP CLAP CLAP FOR YOURSELF; THAT MUST HAVE BEEN A STINKER

Be careful with toiling the part of cheating with another man; as if your husband finds out YOU MIGHT NOT REMAIN IN YOUR MARITAL HOME. Remove that analogy from your mind that after all he cheated on me as well and I forgave him therefore he should forgive me too. Well; I am sorry to burst the bubble; as statistics has shown that a wife is willing to forgive a philandering husband than it is for a husband to forgive a philandering wife; go figure that out.

Rather than you to concentrate on bringing up your kids into becoming well rounded adults with good moral upbringing; you’re here thinking of how you’ll play the revenge game just to pay your husband back in his own coin. GRANTED, YOUR HUSBAND CHEATING ON YOU WAS WRONG; and because you just could not find it in your heart to forgive him; you think paying him back would be the best; okay; you know what gurl; GO RIGHT AHEAD IF THAT'LL MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER; but don’t say you weren’t warned of the aftermath consequences which could be disastrous.

I wonder how the feeling will be when your kids grow up and they come to find out that both of their parents where un-faithful to each other in the marital bond. What example do you think you and your husband would be setting for your kids when it comes to training them to be faithful in a marital relationship?

Anyway let me digress a bit and drum it to you that STD/STI, HIV AND AIDS ARE REAL and they’re not written on anyone’s forehead. For those who’ve been affected, it only took one encounter for them to become infected and that subsequently changed their lives for the worst. THINK THOROUGHLY ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTION; MOST ESPECIALLY ON YOUR CHILDREN.

At this moment in time, the most important thing here IS FOR YOU TO GUIDE AND BRING YOUR KIDS UP WITH GOOD MORALS and not teach them the act of taking revenge or getting even on nonsensical things.

I rest my case
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by MizMyColi(f): 9:50pm On Sep 30, 2015
pickabeau1:


I meant Is it?...

It was a question

Oh! cheesycheesy
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 9:52pm On Sep 30, 2015
Vikky014:
i said no answer. nt no kiss
Let me see ur picture ist
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Vikky014(f): 9:56pm On Sep 30, 2015
chuksfor13:
Let me see ur picture ist
i dnt like uploading my pictures here
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 9:58pm On Sep 30, 2015
Vikky014:
hmmmmmmm alll these just to prevent a man from cheatingi laugh in arabic ببففبببغععاالب
good thing you can laugh in Arabic..way to go

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Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by crackhaus: 10:04pm On Sep 30, 2015
jadelyn007:
Cheat because you found someone really hot you are lusting after not because he cheated. That way you won't feel empty when you are done. Rather you will long for more. You'll glow and radiate a sense of satisfaction and happiness.
Wow, this one here speaks from experience...Golden! cool

Cc: nickibarb
I beg thee, pay heed to this.

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Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Mznaett: 10:11pm On Sep 30, 2015
Edipee:
hmmm. I'm really afraid of the things you like.Serious!

Lol
You don't need to be dearie...

I don't want to believe am the first mystery lady you've ever come across? Am I?grin
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by jadelyn007(f): 10:12pm On Sep 30, 2015
crackhaus:

Wow, this one here speaks from experience...Golden! cool

Cc: nickibarb
I beg thee, pay heed to this.
for some sex provides a form of release from pent up frustrations and stress. It's kind of therapeutic. Would you prefer her to be a bitter frustrated woman like most Nigerian women. Sex is to different things. Let her have some sexual healing.
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by jadelyn007(f): 10:14pm On Sep 30, 2015
crackhaus:

Wow, this one here speaks from experience...Golden! cool

Cc: nickibarb
I beg thee, pay heed to this.
for some sex provides a form of release from pent up frustrations and stress. It's kind of therapeutic. Would you prefer her to be a bitter frustrated woman like most Nigerian women. Sex is to different people different things. Let her have some sexual healing please.
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by crackhaus: 10:21pm On Sep 30, 2015
jadelyn007:
for some sex provides a form of release from pent up frustrations and stress. It's kind of therapeutic. Would you prefer her to be a bitter frustrated woman like most Nigerian women. Sex is to different people different things. Let her have some sexual healing please.
I didn't disagree with you...
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by RiffRaff: 10:31pm On Sep 30, 2015
Have u been cheated on? Are u in pain, distress and heartbroken as a result? let us cheat on your husband together so that he will know how it feels like...
Pm me.
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 10:40pm On Sep 30, 2015
Vikky014:
i dnt like uploading my pictures here
Send it to chux413@gmail.com
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by tellwisdom: 10:44pm On Sep 30, 2015
Jtmanager:




Na wa
Dunno weda tu apologise for the young man or tu tell u I'm classy too

You are what...With your 50naira shoe undecided
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Vikky014(f): 11:05pm On Sep 30, 2015
BlaqCoffee109:
good thing you can laugh in Arabic..way to go
LOL
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Vikky014(f): 11:08pm On Sep 30, 2015
chuksfor13:

Send it to chux413@gmail.com
LOL. u r funny. no be small send to chux413@gmail.com

is my pic a CV
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Dragonking: 11:23pm On Sep 30, 2015
Go ahead but don't come back crying
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by ifoundmyperfect: 11:58pm On Sep 30, 2015
Guess you got fooled by disney's happily ever after bullshit...
No marriage is trial-proof!
Ever single married couple out there is facing one problem or more. But come out to the open and act like all is well. Take this as yours and deal with it maturedly. The route you are on has got hit songs and rock n rolls along the way, but it's final destination is destructive. You if feel your marriage of just 2years+ is loveless, uphold the integrity you've got an seek temporary seperation to re-affirm if you don't want to continue with it any further. If you are sure, carry you foreign marriage certificate go yanke and demand it gets dissolved and claim your alimony!
I know you were utterly disappointed, but if your husband (your once upon upon time heartbeat/soulmate) I trying to make amends, cut him some few slacks!

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Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Vikky014(f): 12:12am On Oct 01, 2015
Tallesty1:

Sound like what whores and potential whores who do not know that they are whores would say.
Good points.

If someone is cheating on you then leave.

If you cheat back then it means you have always been a cheat and is looking for a good time to cheat and a reason too because you know the man will throw you out if you cheat on him first.

The op is just looking for a good reason to justify her cheating

nothing will make a person who's not a cheat to cheat......

Simple.
Whatever.i wunt leave i will teach d so called cheat the real meaning of cheating. meanwhile emotional cheating is d best weapon. so if u like take vikky014 as a whor*e. dts ur cup of tea
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by pickabeau1: 1:12am On Oct 01, 2015
crackhaus:

Wow, this one here speaks from experience...Golden! cool

Cc: nickibarb
I beg thee, pay heed to this.

As in
True experience or experience of another's experience
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by cococandy(f): 2:21am On Oct 01, 2015
nickibarb:



i'm not covering nothing. Yes, i said it, i'm only staying for 2 things: the kids and the money. if the money ever dissappears, i'm outta here. You can't be broke and be an asshole at the sametime. I used to love my husband but he's a totally different person from the man i dated, marriage brought out his true emotionally and physically abusive nature.
If you're staying for the kids, trust me they won't learn anything from both of you and it will even affect them worse than a broken home when both of you start going at each other. So that's kinda pointless sha. Staying for the kids. Pfft.

But since you're staying for the money, find a way to collect it well well before dumping him sorry ass.
Too bad you can't divorce him and get all his money. Or at least half and the future proceedings. That's what people who treat their wives bad deserve. cool

Anyway that's one option.

Or you can forgive him if he's willing to change.
But who are we kidding? He came back after long days of inexplicable absence filled with more lies?
Smh. That's not happening.

The money you're even staying for no be only una get am. His other families that you're yet to find out about will come in due time to claim their share. Hope there's enough to go round.
Meanwhile protect yourself and goodluck.

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Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Tundeiab(m): 3:52am On Oct 01, 2015
Vikky014:
good for u i will do same if i ws in ur shoes.no time undecided

Gross!!!
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Nobody: 6:36am On Oct 01, 2015
shaiba:
You are on the high way to self-destruct.

Stop it while you can. You took a decision in anger and that could destroy your life.

So, Miss young and hot, where will this take you to five to ten years from now? When all that makes you hot becomes old and drops, trust me it will, what then will you use to get back at him?

You have a family that loves you, how? Because he came back home and tried to explain the reason why he is late, he is remorseful and you should give him a chance. We all make mistakes and have our weaknesses, he cant be that perfect neither are you. I don't support cheating from either party.

Many have money with no one (family) to share it with, and here you are with a family and you want to throw it all away just because of some messages you saw on his phone?

Stop and put your house together, that's what the African woman stands for.

Save your home while you can. Don't let the children suffer for your mistakes. Pay backs, most times leaves one empty and boomerang.
Re: I'm Seriously Considering Cheating On My Husband by Jtmanager(m): 6:39am On Oct 01, 2015
tellwisdom:


You are what...With your 50naira shoe undecided

Tellwisdom can cry all day
Buh it is Wat it is fk

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