Guys, please I need you to help a very good friend on matters of the heart. You know telling a girl you like her too soon can turn off the heat. Here's his message:

Please I need your help. I took a huge risk of telling a lady I'm really into that I like her. She's a friend but not like a close friend but really do like her. I even invited her to a program and we had a nice time there. Now I fear that telling I like her this early might mess things up for me somehow but I made the move in response to her dp. It says something about making your intentions clear and not complicate other's life. So I took this as an indirect message to me, I asked her on a date to an event and I just dived in to tell her I like her. This became worrisome as she didn't reply for almost 24 hours although she said she didn't see the message. She agreed on the date but didn't keep my hopes high and then thanked me for liking her. Now I felt like I've popped the balloon and killed the emerging chemistry.

Please how do I fix this? This is the deepest feeling I've ever felt of wanting to be with someone.
Thanks

Nairalanders, please I need your good advice for my buddy.

@MR OP, why are u seeking 4 help indirectly. why are u putting others in ur shoes. Anyway, u have already splited the milk. Call her and tell her directly and then ask her if she has the same feelings for you. Whatever she says, take it in a good fate and let her understand that U cant force her to reciprocate the feelings.

For my buddy

dharay99:

for yhur ßuddy abi yhu.
Ohk na, will comment wen yhu
telme d truth.!

May She like you back in the name of jesus

Emenandez4lyf:
@MR OP, why are u seeking 4 help indirectly. why are u putting others in ur shoes. Anyway, u have already splited the milk. Call her and tell her directly and then ask her if she has the same feelings for you. Whatever she says, take it in a good fate and let her understand that U cant force her to reciprocate the feelings.

thanks for your contribution

Emenandez4lyf:
@MR OP, why are u seeking 4 help indirectly. why are u putting others in ur shoes. Anyway, u have already splited the milk. Call her and tell her directly and then ask her if she has the same feelings for you. Whatever she says, take it in a good fate and let her understand that U cant force her to reciprocate the feelings.

bros, Abeg borrow me that your axe, it's urgent

dharay99:

for yhur ßuddy abi yhu.
Ohk na, will comment wen yhu
telme d truth.!

frm mah own point of view,ask d lady first if she feel same way suntimez she might nt tell u d truth but her action wil do nd dere is sumtin abt we ladies,we feel insecure nd sad wen our close male frndz ask us out especially dose we dnt feel anytin for ave experience such before,during dat time i nd d guy didnt talk for complete two wks but later on ave to tel him dat he ave to choose btw our frndship nd dating,since den we became close agn witout him mentioning d past.wat am saying here is dat give her time nd if she isnt interested u ave to luk else where becos i knw u wont want a one sided luv relationship

jboy73:
Thunder fire u anywhere u are.

keeping quiet when you have absolutely nothing sensible to say is a priceless virtue.

Ramon92:
bros, Abeg borrow me that your axe, it's urgent

Hahaha... Common, that's a typo na

Ramon92:
bros, Abeg borrow me that your axe, it's urgent

E be like say, u want 2 commit suicide or murder but Mama Cupid borrowed it just now.

acute:
keeping quiet when you have absolutely nothing sensible to say is a priceless virtue.

Thunder

well soooooomany ladies out there

ask her if she jilt you, there are many fishes in the water

my brother i can see you're still a learner in this field. You see let me tellii u something! U did the right thing by expressing the feel u have for that sister but mind u it doesn't mean she will instantly connect with you. While some happens instantaneously some do not. So chilax and be yourself untill the b1ch is proven she's isn't worthy of your love(time).

First mistake, No matured girl will take you seriously when you profess such using the chat mode,so to correct your mistake recharge your line and put a call through to her however dont expect anything positive so as not to be let down.

otimothy:
First mistake, No matured girl will take you seriously when you profess such using the chat mode,so to correct your mistake recharge your line and put a call through to her however dont expect anything positive so as not to be let down.

Cholls:
my brother i can see you're still a learner in this field. You see let me tellii u something! U did the right thing by expressing the feel u have for that sister but mind u it doesn't mean she will instantly connect with you. While some happens instantaneously some do not. So chilax and be yourself untill the b1ch is proven she's isn't worthy of your love(time).

thanks for your suggestions