fairlyisabel:
let me see if I can put it in a more comprehensible form. Can another person save my pix if I upload it on my profile just like whatsapp?

joebeckz:
a brief insight of past experience..
I use to be a good boy, had my 1st relationship at 23, 1st kiss too n others. i had that kind of relationship u see in movies, talk of my department n envy from folks but along the line, i saw how my friends cheat n play smart n still get away with it UN-noticed. something in me kept saying, do it, do it. just once, i succumbed to that evil voice and started seeing different ladies, it ruined my relationship cos one Lagos girl decided to deal with me, she somehow got all the contacts of my 3 other women n made a conference call to me one night n all the girls were on that call, i didn't even notice cos i was d last to be added to the call, i didn't hang up even after knowing all my gf were on. after that call that night, it was over for us all, i lost the very 1st gal i dated to, she was ready to accept me cos i was her 1st n she was my 1st too in everything. i was not mature enough to go back n beg n stupidly moved on with another girl the following month. after some years, i got back my senses n apologized but she had moved on.
i havent had a perfect relationship since then probably because i still feel terrible. i have dated afterwards but somehow it crashes but we never keep trying.
This lesson simply passes this message, cheating on a girl is deeper than people realize, it destroys her outlook on love, her future relationships and peace within her self.
its like grabbing a plate, throw it to d floor, it gets broken ....
say sorry to that plate.....
did it go back to the way it was before?

now you understand....

naijaboiy:

Twaci:
Guy u don old oh

Taar! I just came to check out the thread.

It's a good place for matured minds.

So you wan come find sugar daddy for here abi?

sihom:
At Torqque

I strongly disagree with your assertion that age is just a number, read my lips carefully it is not. For each year that passes by alongside with life's experiences I get better and better.

The experiences at diferrent ages of my life has reeducated, reshaped and redirected my mind making me a better woman & person in the process. With age & experience comes wisdom, wisdom for right living.

I thoroughly & genuinely like the woman I am today at 33 better than the one I was in my late 20's. Haven't you heard - like fine wine men get better with age. That adage applies to women as well.

My point is - age is not just a number. It is an indication of what a person may be like, it is an indication of the sort of characteristics a person may exhibit.

For example if I met a teenage boy at 16 or 17, sagging pants, weird hairdos and slangs wouldn't shock me at all. It would be a very reasonable expectation on my part.

At 17 I loved hot mini skirts and I rocked in them however at 33 I'll only wear them indoors not outdoors like I used to because now with age - I know better that, that sort of exposure is not necessary I look good & appealing well covered up.

sihom:
At Torqque

I strongly disagree with your assertion that age is just a number, read my lips carefully it is not. For each year that passes by alongside with life's experiences I get better and better.

The experiences at diferrent ages of my life has reeducated, reshaped and redirected my mind making me a better woman & person in the process. With age & experience comes wisdom, wisdom for right living.

I thoroughly & genuinely like the woman I am today at 33 better than the one I was in my late 20's. Haven't you heard - like fine wine men get better with age. That adage applies to women as well.

My point is - age is not just a number. It is an indication of what a person may be like, it is an indication of the sort of characteristics a person may exhibit.

For example if I met a teenage boy at 16 or 17, sagging pants, weird hairdos and slangs wouldn't shock me at all. It would be a very reasonable expectation on my part.

At 17 I loved hot mini skirts and I rocked in them however at 33 I'll only wear them indoors not outdoors like I used to because now with age - I know better that, that sort of exposure is not necessary I look good & appealing well covered up.

sihom:
At Torqque

I strongly disagree with your assertion that age is just a number, read my lips carefully it is not. For each year that passes by alongside with life's experiences I get better and better.

The experiences at diferrent ages of my life has reeducated, reshaped and redirected my mind making me a better woman & person in the process. With age & experience comes wisdom, wisdom for right living.

I thoroughly & genuinely like the woman I am today at 33 better than the one I was in my late 20's. Haven't you heard - like fine wine men get better with age. That adage applies to women as well.

My point is - age is not just a number. It is an indication of what a person may be like, it is an indication of the sort of characteristics a person may exhibit.

For example if I met a teenage boy at 16 or 17, sagging pants, weird hairdos and slangs wouldn't shock me at all. It would be a very reasonable expectation on my part.

At 17 I loved hot mini skirts and I rocked in them however at 33 I'll only wear them indoors not outdoors like I used to because now with age - I know better that, that sort of exposure is not necessary I look good & appealing well covered up.

sihom:
At Torqque

I strongly disagree with your assertion that age is just a number, read my lips carefully it is not. For each year that passes by alongside with life's experiences I get better and better.

The experiences at diferrent ages of my life has reeducated, reshaped and redirected my mind making me a better woman & person in the process. With age & experience comes wisdom, wisdom for right living.

I thoroughly & genuinely like the woman I am today at 33 better than the one I was in my late 20's. Haven't you heard - like fine wine men get better with age. That adage applies to women as well.

My point is - age is not just a number. It is an indication of what a person may be like, it is an indication of the sort of characteristics a person may exhibit.

For example if I met a teenage boy at 16 or 17, sagging pants, weird hairdos and slangs wouldn't shock me at all. It would be a very reasonable expectation on my part.

At 17 I loved hot mini skirts and I rocked in them however at 33 I'll only wear them indoors not outdoors like I used to because now with age - I know better that, that sort of exposure is not necessary I look good & appealing well covered up.

siamia:
If u are 30 plus and single, we shd have our own thread to meet and talk.
Some of us are single, educated and ably employed. We are mature, responsible, gainfully employed, christian and godfearing. Some of us have kids that we are training and bringing up. We are involved in church, in impacting the lives of others, and contribute to the wellbeing of the society, But for one reason or the other, we are still single.
I have a lot of respect for nairaland, and I think its Nigeria's version of facebook, only better.
So if ur 30 and above, let's talk and see if the sparks will fly!
Pls note: no rude comments. Respect attracts respect. Nairalanders are great people.

JeffreyJamez:
Kinglekan and kingtom.. you're summoned!

KingTom:

I'm not up to 30 sir. Besides, this thread is for matured individuals, and I see children viewing. Am I missing something?

DrMuzoic:


I really wish people can get to know the hurt they cause others by cheating especially if you happen to be the first. For me, it made to unconsciously enter into relationships (most times with people I know that are wrong for me) with the expectation that it won't last and this makes me not to really put in any effort. When it finally ends I will be like 'it was expected'. Thank God I finally realized the pattern and seriously working on myself not only to make the decision to enter relationship with the right person but also to try to make it work.
I believe it will end with testimony

Toks2008:


YES and what is the big deal? As long as it is not an explicit pics so wat? Abi you be ghost ni?

fairlyisabel:
you must be a very harsh person. I maybe wrong with this assumption but issorite. Thanks for answering my question.

siamia:
I just want to say this here and nobody shd take offence bcs am not pointing at anyone. As Papa Adeboye once said, iif u feel am talking abt u, then am talking abt u.
Pls I said it clearly, I ate my 40th birthday cake. I even ate after that. If ur nowhere near 40, do not mail me. Let's keep all talk here. Pls. Really, if ur 27 and ur chatting me up, how do u want me to see u? As a person with serious intentions? Everyone who says age is just a number shd try and marry a woman who is 12yrs ur senior. One day u'll wake up and accuse her of jazzing u. If u want an older woman, go for someone in ur age bracket, so that when people see u both in public, the age disparity will not look ridiculous.
So, how did everyone's day go?

siamia:
@Iamlegend...
Not discriminating ooo....lol
No vex. Una no even want us 40 and above to have our own thread! Kilode!! Lol
Actually, its just a thread for us to meet ourselves, make friends, and if God permits, get a lasting relationships with a serious minded, Godfearing guy/girl.
I rest my case ooo

naijaboiy:

Taar! I just came to check out the thread.

It's a good place for matured minds.

So you wan come find sugar daddy for here abi?

fairlyisabel:
I can upload my pix although I will not leave it there for long cos am a shy person and likes hiding. But are you the one on that DP? You look like a nigga. Mba nu!

siamia:
@everyone.
Pls if u see anyone u like here, don't be shy. As james bond said, u only live once. Pls say hi to whoever catches urr fancy and get the ball rolling. Everyone here seems to be waiting for the shoe to drop. Kilode?

@myztikal, icedude, ismail, adeola...carry go jooo.

But pls remember to do ur due diligence ooo.

JeffreyJamez:


They want to learn ...

DrMuzoic:


I really wish people can get to know the hurt they cause others by cheating especially if you happen to be the first. For me, it made to unconsciously enter into relationships (most times with people I know that are wrong for me) with the expectation that it won't last and this makes me not to really put in any effort. When it finally ends I will be like 'it was expected'. Thank God I finally realized the pattern and seriously working on myself not only to make the decision to enter relationship with the right person but also to try to make it work.
I believe it will end with testimony

Twaci:
I get Kingtom already . Wetin else i need?

torqque7:


Hahaha@look like a nigga mba nu..but av still not seen your pic o..look at the profile again do I still look like a nigga?I hope not o

Toks2008:


im aactually hoping that there will be a section on nairaland for age groups.

most times when i wriite articles,i do so for matuure audience but before you say jack many adolesfents don hijack the thread.

I just clocked 40 though.

siamia:
Pls, if u know ur 33 below, this thread is not for u. .

fairlyisabel:
ehhh torggue, you want me to call you fine guy. Odi egwu!

damiloladuke:
well am 29, will be 30 next year..guess am qualified to join in


Anyways am single and ready to mingle

I work and base in Abeokuta, I also blog on a part-time basis. I own www.wenogetjob.com despite having a job and i make some tangible income with the blog as well.

I will like to Mingle with a graduate. I have an Msc and planning to take further Courses in NOUN due to my work

She must be beautiful, humble, God-fearing and not older than 24, yes 24...lolzzzz I cant marry my age group mate!!!!

Call or Whatsapp 08038606260

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