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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by engrelvis(m): 9:33am On Oct 03, 2015 |
thank u op.i appreciate.no am nt single |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by myztikal(m): 9:35am On Oct 03, 2015 |
The 20plus girl ur looking for, which is wwhat started all this brouhaha, is reading all ur posts, and I know she is wondering, na so this guy be? Remember why u posted here in the first place, even though ur not up to the age stated. Ur looking for a bride. Now uve allowed urself to be derailed in public. How is ur 20plus lady seeing u now? A man who cannot walk away from a quarral, whether he started it or not? A man who must flex and have the last word in any battle? Let me tell u the diff btw a boy and a man. Boys flex. Men walk away. That girl ur looking for, is reading ur posts. U slept quarreling with toks2008. U woke by 5am to launch more arrows. ***Epic Statement** 2 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 9:36am On Oct 03, 2015 |
@engrelvis Ok. If ur not single, then ur a visitor, passing thru to say hello! Lol This thread is meant for 30plus and single. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by myztikal(m): 9:44am On Oct 03, 2015 |
Toks2008: Awesome quote 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by smsshola(m): 9:46am On Oct 03, 2015 |
onstelly: U ar welcome on board only a mature mind and respect for each other @Op desire. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by engrelvis(m): 9:47am On Oct 03, 2015 |
sorry i taught it ws a social network or platform for meeting mature minds.i take my bow.GODBLESS |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 9:55am On Oct 03, 2015 |
@engrelvis It is, sir. With an extra touch...its for singles. This is a coffee lounge for singles of 30plus to sit back, kick off their shoes and hang out with their peers. In the midst of it, find love, if it is their portion here. That does not mean that ur not welcome...to contribute, to advise, to encourage, to share. I wasn't pursuing u. My pankere is only meant for those who come here to pick quarrel like mushin olosha boys (apologies to the gents from there). By all means, hang out with us. But don't buy market here.... ![]() |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by myztikal(m): 9:55am On Oct 03, 2015 |
I'm forced to come out of my shell now. its only in naija that getting married is the ultimate achievement, and used as a measure of responsibility. we must realise that some people just ain't into marriage, its their choice. i'm 37 and single, i wanna get married...i yearn for it, i'm not PROUD i'm still single, when you are this old and yearn for a life partner, then know its because of that one relationship that couldv'e been IT, but either of you botched it, its always hard to come back from that. i'd rather not bring my unpalatable baggage into any one's life...but i will appreciate a friend 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 10:08am On Oct 03, 2015 |
@myztikal Thanks for ur post. We all have experienced it. Sometimes when the load is too heavy, u just need to...drop it and away. Ur not useful to urself or anyone else when ur lugging baggage around. If we all reminisced about our past, I wudnt even start this thread. Pls, forgive urself, forgive whoever...forget the past. If u can still remember, then its still ur present. Ur 37. U shd be someone's beau. 2 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:14am On Oct 03, 2015 |
myztikal: You are absolutely right friend. I must confess that i have no reason been single at this point in time and even after i parted with my ex i had and still have many options of ladies to pick from but the truth is that marriage is not what you just rush into. Yes i had issues with my very lucrative business 3years back and like every human, no one in life is immune against financial downturn so in my view i need to be very very financially buoyant enough to take care of my woman before venturing into any new affair. In-fact im the type of guy that can marry the daughter of bill gate and will not care about a dime of hers or her father but would even take care of her with what i can afford. If im the opportunistic guy by now i would be married to one rich lady but GOD forbid i date or marry a lady i do not love just because of money as that will translate to perpetual slavery. Most especially,my core values and beliefs is a deterrent for me and even if i chose to just get down with any lady that catches my fiance,i will be destroying my relationship with Christ. To me nothing on earth is worth my eternal life. But nevertheless im praying to GOD to help me curb teh picky nature of mine cos trust me, im very very picky because i believe that marriage is a life long thing and as a man it is important to be with a lady that is pleasing to my eyes because what pleases the eyes apparently pleases the soul.I hate philandering and all my life i have never cheated on any lady in my life so i fear that if i settle for any lady less sexually appealing to me,i just might be tempted greatly to philander. My believe is that it is the same hole with different casings so why cant i relax and go for my preferred spec rather than settle for less and live my marital life in perpetual bondage fantasizing about another lady while married to another. This is why im still single and i pray GOD brings that lady that will be what i desire. 4 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:20am On Oct 03, 2015 |
siamia: Chai madam u just made me remember then. I could do anything for tree tops and had steady supplies of bazooka luv the way it fills the mouth and taste unlike slim dandy... oohhh walls ice cream and after licking it we use the stick handle for o hande made toy plane and helicopter... all those. limca,green sand shandy,canada dry,gold spot etc I loved space 1999,sweeny,the protectors, Joe 90,Mr Spencer, Tarzan,tomorrow people,voltron,Gforce,all christopher lee's Dracular movies,all the James Bond (moonraker, the spy who loved me,dr no,from Russia with love,Gold finger, you only live twice,diamonds are forever,live and let die etc), steptoe and son,famous five etc....man those days sha..goodl ol days I remember an incident I came. out 11th in class and my mum promised to throw me in the washing machine and peg me later on hahaa I was so scared even when I eventually came out 5th the next term. D days when we used to drink water from d tap, even suck out d water if it's not coming out• This. was tha bomb lolzzzz and water must come out o chai!! 8 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by princejenks(m): 10:32am On Oct 03, 2015 |
Am present,someone holler back pls |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 10:33am On Oct 03, 2015 |
@runnazz Am glad I made ur day...lol Uve made mine too by reminding me of many more...lol Ahh...those were the days... 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Skii(m): 10:35am On Oct 03, 2015 |
Gentlemen and Ladies (special mention to siamia for opening this thread, God bless you and may you find the Answer to your prayer...AMEN!) Here is a link to a message by the late Dr. Myles Munroe from one of his visits to City of David church here in Lagos, Nigeria for your listening pleasure In this message, he points that INFORMATION and not necessarily love is THE KEY to marriage/relationships. He remarks that we face challenges in relationships because we lack knowledge and information on the subject because we neither study nor prepare for it. His supporting illustration is the fact that we spend several years of our lives acquiring knowledge and information and becoming experts in our chosen fields but don't dedicate any time at all to learning how to live with people. To this end therefore, some of the things we should expect especially at this stage that WE find ourselves are things like cultures, bad habits, backgrounds and so on. These things he says are the things that do not make relationships work! But being informed and acting on that knowledge (wisdom) will increase the chances of relationships surviving! I enjoin you to listen. Its about 93mb to download, but i can assure you that it will be worth every megabyte! God bless! https://www.dropbox.com/s/kpk1jyf71yov5lv/02%20Kingdom%20Standard%20for%20Love%20and%20Mar.mp3?dl=0 |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:39am On Oct 03, 2015 |
siamia: Good to know & btw I no think say nepa dey take light that time o cos I can't recall anything like use of generator until early 90's why can't things be that beautiful again..anyway God bless naija & have blessed day too |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:51am On Oct 03, 2015 |
siamia:You sure sey you still know road to Akwa ibom so?lol! Because its like you are sold out to Lagos o. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 10:52am On Oct 03, 2015 |
@runnazz Amen ooo @skil Thanks for that writeup by myles munroe. I encourage all of us to read this and also download the link. 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by engrelvis(m): 10:58am On Oct 03, 2015 |
ok.am digressin here.alot of people wud hv been helpin their fellowmen or women on dis NL but alot of people here r fake.everbdy cannt b rich so people shud stop dis big boy or big girl front.b real because u cannt say where yr help is comin from.if any person cannt accept u d way u r den is nt worth being yr frd or bein in relationship wit.i really applaud dis thread. 4 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:00am On Oct 03, 2015 |
The secret many ladies do not know about single guys of 35years and above I shouldn't be divulging this but i believe it is pertinent so that ladies can catch the drift. Guys of 35years and above who are stil single are very very vulnerable because they tend to be somewhat confused as regards who to date or marry except very few ones who have been in a deep affair before the clock that age. At that age they can easily be carried away by any lady who shows deep interest and it will be so surprising to ladies that guys at this age do not spend more time trying to woo any lady because to these set of guys they are already fed up and even the supposed randy ones secretly desire to have just one lady to call their own and take home to mama. Guys in this age bracket are conscious of the fact that they need to settle down and any lady who can "dominate" them with virtuous attributes will win them over in a flash. So if you find yourself admiring a 35year old guy or above,just know that having him to yourself is very very easy and all you need do is take charge of him without cheapening yourself and when he sees how serious you are,he will likely let down his guards and put a ring on it. This assertion holds true for most guys in this age bracket. 2 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:01am On Oct 03, 2015 |
engrelvis: 1000likes 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 11:11am On Oct 03, 2015 |
@toks2008 Actually I was born in lagos...luth to the precise, to parents who did their registry wedding in lagos before having kids. So I am very much a lagosian. Not only that, I attended a private primary sch that is older than I, and still exists. I also attended a premier secondary sch in lagos, queen's college, yaba. I only went to do my first degree over there when my parents felt I was getting away from my roots. After that, I came back to lagos, attended more schs and started working. In fact, I feel concerned abt the fact that I am not a properly rooted akwa ibomite and that's why I opened another thread on the same day I opened this one. Of course its not as popular. Lol. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Rexnegro(m): 11:21am On Oct 03, 2015 |
VenusBetty:Can I no you ? You seems to me to be my awaiting wife....hala if you are . |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:38am On Oct 03, 2015 |
[b][/b][quote author=Toks2008 post=38622197] My believe is that it is the same hole with different casings so why cant i relax and go for my preferred spec rather than settle for less and live my marital life in perpetual bondage fantasizing about another lady while married to another. Hmmmmm..its true bro, but how can one live without them? Honestly I have given up hope of finding or meeting someone difrent, because its like praying to find a fish alive in a football field. No woman is willing to build, its either you are already built or you go hug lekki transformer( 247 power suply) so how can I take you serious when its obvious you just wanna lick owo epo...hmmmm, honestly guys..marriage requires more than meet the eyes...learning continues |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by engrelvis(m): 11:38am On Oct 03, 2015 |
@siamia .pls op create a platform of people on dis platform shud b meetin.it shud b in a public place probably an eatery.alot of us make relationship mistakes wen we r young.lookin back nw u wish u will b given d chance to do it differently.but d truth is nt marryin early dt is d issue but findin yr soulmate.alot of people r sufferin n smilin in their marriages these days.queencalypso i gbadun yr pic in yr monkier |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kinglekan: 11:39am On Oct 03, 2015 |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by queencalipso(f): 11:41am On Oct 03, 2015 |
Am loving this thread even though am not up to 30. I jus like the maturity, sincerity and open mindedness it contain people can actually be themselves on nairaland without getting insulted for it. Nice one op ![]() ![]() Sorry op I joined without asking for permission hope am welcomed? |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by queencalipso(f): 11:44am On Oct 03, 2015 |
engrelvis: Lol thanks for noticing me |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by onstelly(f): 11:44am On Oct 03, 2015 |
IceDude:You said what |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by mumu9gerian: 11:48am On Oct 03, 2015 |
siamia:stop recommending people maam, |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 11:51am On Oct 03, 2015 |
@skii, I love listening to the pastor's message. His messages are highly informative and educative. Between, does love exist? I don't think so. I believe that getting married and staying married has more to do with tolerance and selflessness but that does not mean that you shouldn't run when you see danger signals during courtship. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by IceDude(m): 11:53am On Oct 03, 2015 |
onstelly:Lol, nvm.....Gud morning |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 11:55am On Oct 03, 2015 |
Toks2008: Good morning sir! ![]() 1 Like |
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