Artistree:

Please tell them o! Thank you once again for making out time for this, seriously you made me start looking back at my singleness again.
In 2007, lady I know got married at 47 and you know what, her husband dotes over her, till date! God bless you Siamia, He loves you and I do too!

I talk sey you too get sense.

I wanted to write just same thing but i just let it pass because some people may tag my response harsh.

Thank God this came from you and im begining to believe that we reason in same diection.

siamia:

@udysweet
Gdmrn and how r u doing?


Isn't it a lovely saturday? After all that rain ystdy? What are ur plans today?

Am very well thank you,guess u and others here are too?
Saturday?! Erm indoors all thru,washing and arranging stuff and then sleep!!!lol
PS:I'll go and charge my fone now,and stat reading posts here frm page one to d end,lol! Hope I can make friends here sha,not ones who'll make me run out fast. And wen I'm down I can always share my worries rite?I need to be assured I got dos who'll mak me smile and laff evry now and then here!
*runs out to plug phone on power banks(EKEDC,eshe gan ni)

Enoquin:
What a thread! I rarely come to romance, stumbled on this thread via recent posts yesterday. I do not fit the criteria, so I guess it is the sidelines for me.

Siamia, what a wonderful gift you've got at replying people. Being blunt and still coated with sugar. So, you are from Akwa Ibom? Lol

To the rest: Toks2008, Joebeckz, shi(I can't remember her username but she types so well) and the others...una well done.

Back to the sidelines...

live long and 40X3 is the number that comes to my head if am to wish you.

@udysweet
I assure u that this thread is the right place for u to be. So sit back and relax. Share Ur that's without fear or favour.
Am sure everyone now knows I have a pankere and am not afraid to use it on those who sass others.

I am not on the age group so I apologise but I just have to leave a comment
@damiloladuke. whats wrong with you for godsake. give them there space, they categorically stated the age group and the reason for the thread and you re here polluting it. give them the respect the deserve please @toks2008, please sir, just ignore him. he is not worth it.

Toks2008:


loooooooooooool oh my kai nothing wey we no go read for nairaland.

Aburo abeg no vex you hear. The truth is that at certain age you have outgrown some habits lke painting words but rather you talk straght and bold.

Ma binu dear,im a very frank and blunt person.Yes m single at 40 but not proud of that and i pray you will not have any reason to be sngle at my age maybe then you just might undderstand the uncertainties of life.

So sorry for scolding you as i did and i implore you to tender an unreserved apology for those lines you wrote in yoruba so that a ma yo inu s e iif you know what that means.

Remember as my sister wrote,that 20something lady might just visiit this thread and you will be a big No to her if she reads your harsh comments to your egbons.

And Yes its a faceless forum but bliv it or not in real life i have 4 younger sibblings older than 30 so i see you as my kid brother hence the need to pamper you after scolding you.

*hugs*

This is showing that you are a real adult and a matured one for that matter. There is a reason for everything I will say and everyone knows where the shoe hurts them. But God knows best I must say

I hereby retrieve those writings. Thank God this is the social media, the words were not uttered. But am sorry for my rude attitude and I must say have learnt a great deal fron this little e-altercation. It will not repeat itself

and what is even the big deal in Marrying a woman older than me *****winks

every thread different flows,coupled with knocks n pankere....I'm really enjoying this...oh boy....how u doing people...

@DAMILOLA
U didn't greet me oooo

@alexx
How u dey?

IceDude:
Lol, nvm.....Gud morning

Good afternoon

fairlyisabel:
akuko. The so called love is nothing but scam. Good day my dear.

Scam is relative.

It appears you've had a very disturbing experience.

But don't you think those who say that it exist actually do mean it?

@Siam, you are doing a good job with this thread, keep it up and God bless you

siamia:
@udysweet
I assure u that this thread is the right place for u to be. So sit back and relax. Share Ur that's without fear or favour.
Am sure everyone now knows I have a pankere and am not afraid to use it on those who sass others.

What does 'pankere' mean?

fairlyisabel:
akuko. The so called love is nothing but scam. Good day my dear.

exactly why yur still single. No offienz

onstelly:

Good afternoon

Well done everyone. Hope you are all having a wonderful weekend.

What is the impact of age difference in a relationship

@kaboninc
Pankere is that wicked cane that never bends. Its the one that public sch teachers use to flog children.

@smoothkool
Thanks love.

erad:


I'm my opinion, love isn't a scam but definitely has been overrated. Love most often than not isn't an inexplicable feeling, it's a decision. Love doesn't sustain any marriage, understanding does.

Sir, most times I just do not understand what people mean when they say that something is overrated especially love - a feeling, of want, of responsibility. Of the desire to do what ordinarily you wouldn't do. Or tolerance of what you would never accept. Of wanting the best for someone even at the expense of inconvinencing yourself.

I like to say that we mistake lust for love.

So love to me is not overrated and can never be because too much of love can never be bad.

siamia:
@kaboninc
Pankere is that wicked cane that never bends. Its the one that public sch teachers use to flog children.

@smoothkool
Thanks love.

Hahahaha

Since the cane can't bend, the body will. Lool.

How's your day going?

siamia:
@tony
Am sorry u feel the way u do. As I said earlier on,.. U shd marry Ur best friend. And if u didn't get the chance to marry a Bestie... Its not too late. Find a middle ground.

@dosunmu....

Gotta sleep...

Wify is great and Beastie but she won't allow you go to club that Friday even or take a trip with pals go watch strippers

One thing about marriage is that you keep focused and enjoy kids around but it can be hell

Believe me dear

DrMuzoic:
Well done everyone. Hope you are all having a wonderful weekend.

What is the impact of age difference in a relationship

To me age is just a thing of mind when you say age we have many types of age
The psychological age
Chronological age
Biological age


So I think the psychology matters

Have you not seen a man if 59 that reasons like a man of 20 the psychological age of that man is 20

And have you not seen a lady of 21 that reasons like a woman of 50 yrs

So I think age doesn't matter much but experience

lol! local parlance for "cane" used by yorubas

kaboninc:


What does 'pankere' mean?

kaboninc:


Love does exist!

Getting married is one thing. Staying married is another thing and most times it is for love!

Good morning!

I will talk from experience... Love is over rated and in marriage love isn't the first thing to even consider


The first thing is emotional psychological and social compatibility


When the challenges of life and worries sets it...my dear love will fly away


Our parents those days never dated ...I am talking from Igbo point if view ..they were arranged introduced and they married ...their marraige lasted and we rarely hear of divorce

Today we date and claim love them tomorrow divorce

So I think we should grow in love in marraige and not fall in love


Known my wife for like 10 years now still trip for her

Ours was an early one

Started having kids at 27 then broke ass dude ..she stood by my side


Honey I love you ..your the best



So love isn't the first dear

Dosunmuoflagos:
Someone said all these stuffs ends with straffing, as an adult, we all know STRAFFING isn't the main reason we needed someone that's why all priorities are set straight from the onset. When won't strafing happen, but on what grounds is another major issue, secondly why straff or allow yourself be straffed by someone that doesn't meet your requirements? I believe there's an avenue where you have to consider some stuffs abt the person and adapt, but there are some values that can't be droped for any reason its either that person has it or its straight to the trash... For me she has to be
FUNNY(am too serious most times)
HONEST AND BLUNT
GODLY(religion isn't an issue)
GOOD COOK(I also love cooking)
BUILDER(must bring more than her body)
GOOD COMMUNICATOR
HUMBLE BUT WELL POLICIED
CLEAN SEXUALY(my nose is super sensitive)
Still waiting for you oooo

@siamia....don't tell me u don go sleep o

This is qualities of an angel...maybe try heaven

Pls dilute these qualities a bit


Thanks Bro

Toks2008:


You see exactly why your age group is not allowed here?

Just imagine. You saw vividly that the thread is for 30plus but you came here stating u wll be 30 and even iif that can be overlooked,you also wrote that you are looking for a 20something lady on a thread for 30plus people and see your comments now.

Apparently something s fundamentally wrong with your psyche and i will stop here.

When you are done vehementng you will take that bow out and look elsewhere for your 20something lady

i rest my case.

The best is ignore that one...you see a thread of 30+ and you aint 30 yet to worsen matters he is looking for a girl of 20+ in 30+ thread ..I just keep asking why do people reason terribly and I think you should ignore that boy


At that age I had my first child living alone also. You see some people don't mature early ...too much spoonfeeding of a man can cause a lot in his life .

I have a cousin like that . she is 31 but she thinks she is 21 wearing skinpy things like a teenager


So don't worry about him

kaboninc:


Oh dear....please do not generalise.

There are great guys here too

hmmmm

kaboninc:


Hahahaha

Since the cane can't bend, the body will. Lool.

How's your day going?

what the hell are you doing here?

Hmmmmm sorry was only adulting

kaboninc:


Sir, most times I just do not understand what people mean when they say that something is overrated especially love - a feeling, of want, of responsibility. Of the desire to do what ordinarily you wouldn't do. Or tolerance of what you would never accept. Of wanting the best for someone even at the expense of inconvinencing yourself.

I like to say that we mistake lust for love.

So love to me is not overrated and can never be because too much of love can never be bad.

I beg to differ sir. Too much of anything, love inclusive, can be and is bad.

I'm stating it as a personal opinion and not a fact.

Hahaha. Ok,tnx a lot

siamia:
@udysweet
I assure u that this thread is the right place for u to be. So sit back and relax. Share Ur that's without fear or favour.
Am sure everyone now knows I have a pankere and am not afraid to use it on those who sass others.

eightsin:
Not any lady but one that is interested and willing to try. I thought we hav mature ladies here and not some "u do me, I do u" ladies

Lol

Your funny. I love your approach I think it will be nice if they will add you. I love ladies that are bold ....u used to have this Babe ..u so much lived her but famikybwint allow me...she is bold she is like

Baby come back home I am missing you and I want to get laid . she knows what she wants


My experience with women be it Nigerian or other countries is that Nigerian ladies pretend a lot.

But that's OK..I call it conservative attributes

kaboninc:


Sir, most times I just do not understand what people mean when they say that something is overrated especially love - a feeling, of want, of responsibility. Of the desire to do what ordinarily you wouldn't do. Or tolerance of what you would never accept. Of wanting the best for someone even at the expense of inconvinencing yourself.

I like to say that we mistake lust for love.

So love to me is not overrated and can never be because too much of love can never be bad.

Ride on Love Guru where is your team mate francizy?

damiloladuke:


This is showing that you are a real adult and a matured one for that matter. There is a reason for everything I will say and everyone knows where the shoe hurts them. But God knows best I must say

I hereby retrieve those writings. Thank God this is the social media, the words were not uttered. But am sorry for my rude attitude and I must say have learnt a great deal fron this little e-altercation. It will not repeat itself

and what is even the big deal in Marrying a woman older than me *****winks

Good.

Stay blessed bro.

DrMuzoic:
Well done everyone. Hope you are all having a wonderful weekend.

What is the impact of age difference in a relationship

If both of you are above 30 then its nothing but a number because most times both of you are matured enough to know what you are getting into.