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Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by sabi99(m): 4:03pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Marriage coaches don full everywer..... |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by whoisuche: 4:07pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
IceDude:u better change. God forgive you |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by Orkpekyandega(m): 4:07pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
kayla12:I thought there were no sincere ladies on NairaLand, especially on threads/issues that do not favour the females. This one must be a rare specie that is yet to be corrupted by biased NL ladies. Anty please no vex ooooo are you from another planet Sonofananimal I asked a question. 1 Like |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by Nobody: 4:08pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Fuvk pastor!!i will always respect my boo anyday anytime!! |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by whoisuche: 4:09pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
ccollins: Ephesians 5:22-33New International Version (NIV) 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. 1 Like |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by Orkpekyandega(m): 4:11pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
hisableplc:The one in Peace House Gboko right? What a blessed servant of God for this wicked and sinful generation. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by upwardmode: 4:12pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
lastnogood:Thank Your God that you are not married... Your attitude stinks! |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by IceDude(m): 4:17pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
whoisuche:Wetin i do? |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by upwardmode: 4:21pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
AdexOmoby:You are seriously asking if "Your husband is worthy of respect in the first place"? Ha! Go n ask God for wisdom, else you are finished with this your mind-set. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by danny56: 4:29pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
cococandy: I do not a gree with this babe! If you are married to a man he becomes first ur pastor[shepherd] in all ramifications. If the husband is sound spiritually every spiritual instructions should come from him first before a comfirmation tru d church pastor if need been. God does not circumvent authority. Study your bible! 2 Likes |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by Kizyte(m): 4:33pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1:Well written! |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by lastnogood(f): 4:34pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Alezy: Respect and love are interrelated, but it's the weakness of both genders. As a woman it's harder to be respectful naturally, but I'm made to love and nurture. It's intuitive. As a man, it's more difficult to actually show love to a woman, not to love but show love. Men use respect as a basis of decision making, this is why this subject really hurts. I'm persuaded to say the man I choose to marry has earned my respect BEFORE marriage. He had shown me love BEFORE we tie the knot. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by Nobody: 4:40pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
it is common with pentecostal churches. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by tpiander: 4:40pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
even if you feel your husband doesn't deserve your respect, it's still wrong to dash it to the pastor and besides by so doing, you are also bringing the pastor to the level you assigned your husband, lose-lose situation for everybody involved including the woman. However, for couples who see the word "respect" as terribly old fashioned and out of touch with the modern world, use whatever nomenclature implies the same in your lingo. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by banio: 4:41pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
It's thesame for men. Men prostrate for their spiritual leaders and bosses. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by lastnogood(f): 4:42pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
upwardmode: Why? I didn't disagree with the OP did I? I simply interpreted the biblical command for myself. Ephesians 5:22-33New King James Version (NKJV) Marriage—Christ and the Church 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. 30 For we are members of His body,[a] of His flesh and of His bones. 31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. Wherein the onus is on the couple to do as the scriptures command. I just mentioned that my own culture is different than Nigeria, so we don't have the originally stated problem in our own churches. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by dmcdad: 4:47pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: 1 Like |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by dmcdad: 4:48pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
teeowl:Very true. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by IamforGod: 4:50pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1: See guys liking the thread like say tomorrow no dey! Bck to topic! Op pls always try and put yurself in thier position. Am so sure the pastor's wife also treats him without respect! That's becos of the closeness and sex and etc..... between them. If you are a responsible man am sure other women outside will respect u more cos she's nt close to ur and ur nt aving sex with her. It's nt about being a pastor! I hope u get what I mean? Sex itself is somewhat disrespectful Hehehehehe. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Orkpekyandega:lollz. I have already given my point of view here 1 Like |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by dmcdad: 4:55pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1:You shouldn't be sorry as your questions are spot on. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by NET1(m): 5:01pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
This post is so full of TRUTH. .NET |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by dmcdad: 5:02pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
IamforGod:Hmmm... I agree with you to some extent, but disagree to a greater extent. Need I rephrase what the OP meant by too much respect to their pastors? It ain't respect if we decide to look at its entirety. It's definitely worship. Unknown to these people, they make their pastors their god and worship them in the course of it. Imagine if you have made something to be like a god to you, what then is left than to worship it albeit unknown to you? Sometimes you think they have been hypnotised by their pastors. But I doubt that to be the case. 1 Like |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by Alezy(m): 5:06pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
lastnogood:Hnmmm. ....cool. Am very glad u kw men love their women, the hard part is showing it and there re certain reasons for that. nice one anyway....yo cool |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by cococandy(f): 5:13pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Lol the thread don dey get K leg. Smh and moves out. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by kunle1960: 5:17pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Nigerians especially gullible women should stop thinking through the anus and make use of their brain.Many fake pastors have used and dumped ladies without brain,so ladies use your brain. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by erumena(m): 5:21pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Just yesterday in Church, my Pastor said "any woman kneeling before me and not kneeling for her Husband at home is a fraud"! 3 Likes |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by tpiander: 6:21pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
^ did he really say that. and did you really go to any church. 1 Like |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by tpiander: 6:21pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
^ did he really say that. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by tpiander: 6:22pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
IamforGod: when you're not married. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by Dereformer(m): 6:25pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Orkpekyandega: please how do i get a copy of it? I will pay. My wife is too precious to be treated otherwise. She doesn't take a poo from any pastor. In fact any time a pastor calls her to come for any thing, she will ask him to obtain permission from me first. No pastor comes in between me and my woman and we still on our honey moon even after 4 years of marriage. |
Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by upwardmode: 6:34pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
lastnogood:It does not matter if your are Nigerian or not...My Point is, you need to watch it... The devil does not attack Nigerian marriages n relationships alone through this means, other ignorant means exist. |
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