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Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by dhesmond(m): 6:38pm On Oct 06, 2015
SUGARBEE:
WTF?? Like seriously? Lol
let them know......
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by ellabooz(f): 6:40pm On Oct 06, 2015
solonazzy:

R dey wizards...?.... No pics n Dey want to marry u..... My country my country...

I can be very friendly as to send you my pix,facebook ID or even my digits but that certainly wouldn't go for because you are a cheap con, busrted. grin
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by ruffDiamond: 6:41pm On Oct 06, 2015
All this list next go be 10 ways to give a head to save yr sex life or maybe mad-rriage !man no dey care about mad-rriage anymore na baby mama dey reign now -take the MONEY,gimme the PUSS.Y ,keep the BABY take more MONEY and u can bleep off wth all my pleasure tongue cos naija galno dey hear word their love for money and fake glam ,trying to keep up with many yeyebrity wannabes both local and foreign don turn 99% of them to all sort of things from common prostitute of all shades and hue to runs girls which defies age,social ,&educational status and cuts across all tribes ,religion and culture within the country undecided its that bad .that beautiful ,seemingly charming lady nextdoor MIGHT JUST BE A RUNS GAL for all u know or A DOUBLE DATER at best most are adept at keeping their sexcapade and cheating well COVERED Only to discover later u been magared all along! Bit.Che's ain't loyal again forget the list thing op it won't help or matter a damn many are destined to remain single for life or a single mom at best it's usually at the twilight of the lives dem eyes dey open finally by then who wanna give a flying fuvk angry
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by vizkiz: 6:43pm On Oct 06, 2015
ireneidiva:

You are so funny. *rolls eyes. Mtchew. Crap

sorry, I am taken undecided
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by freecocoa(f): 6:49pm On Oct 06, 2015
undecided undecided undecided
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by ehjiwummy(f): 6:59pm On Oct 06, 2015
SUGARBEE:
Most ladies when ripe for marriage unknowingly put off their suitors away by displaying some bad habits subconsciously making them feel later on that the reason they couldn't get married is as a result of the witches following her from the village when in truth, the problem lies with her. Let's see how we can get rid of those habits.

1) Stop Being A Flirt:
This not only sends a guy away from you but also sends signals that you can't be a faithful wife if indeed you both get married.
Most guys can't differentiate when you're just being nice around persons of the opposite sex and when you're actually a Flirt. Stop making him feel insecure and start making him feel secured.

2) Cutoff Links To Potential "Bad" Friends:
Just like the saying, "Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are". Changing of your so called "Am happy for you friends" goes a long way in securing your relationship. Sometimes the problem isn't with the lady nor her spouse but with their friends. Sit down and have a good reassessment of the friends you keep. You don't want to have a snitch as a friend, do you?

3) Stop being extravagant with money:
Being rich and acting to be rich are two different things. Spending money too much and being extravagant is a big No No for most guys. It shows you don't have any idea on money saving and can't soak garri with your man when the finances are down(Am telling you, most men actually think about that)

4) Stop The Pride Show When You're Around His Parents;
Like seriously, you can't help out your mother in-law to be in the kitchen, nor help pack the dishes in after eating and you expect her to give her blessings to marry her son?. Don't be a joker. It wouldn't take you anything to be humble af when you're around his parents. The easiest way to win a man's heart is to win that of his parents first.

5) It's An Abomination To A Man To Say You Can't Cook:
Like WTF?? Don't tell me if we get to that bridge we'll cross it, hell no! Don't deceive yourself, like they say "Love fades but hunger doesn't". You know you can't cook? A part time catering school would do you great good.


http://kate247..com/2015/10/ladies-5-habits-you-must-stop-if-youre.html?m=1
6-Dont be rude
7-Dont nag
8-Always take correction
9-Drop d attitude of 'Soldier go Soldier come barrack remain d same.

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Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Nobody: 7:00pm On Oct 06, 2015
freecocoa:
undecided undecided undecided
Do you have any obvious comment to counter the thread?
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Mcowubaba: 7:01pm On Oct 06, 2015
Ladies, Stop being overly cautious, naïve nd aggressive!!

Just this afternoon, I was just apart tapping a girl on her shoulder to tell her that her money fall off..

She quickly turned nd said- I'm not interested
Dafuq sad shocked
Just imagine say, I be potential husband!!
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by freecocoa(f): 7:02pm On Oct 06, 2015
RedBenson:


Do you have any obvious comment to counter the thread?
Got to hell.
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by freecocoa(f): 7:05pm On Oct 06, 2015
Mcowubaba:
Stop being overly cautious, naïve nd aggressive!!

Just this afternoon, I was just apart tapping a girl on her shoulder to tell her that her money fall off..

She quickly turned nd said- I'm not interested
Dafuq sad shocked
Just imagine say, I be potential husband!!
That was very uncultured of her, but why should she care if you are husband material or not? Like a lady is supposed be walking about being well behaved just because of potential husband.
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Nobody: 7:06pm On Oct 06, 2015
freecocoa:
Got to hell.
What does hell have in stock?
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by freecocoa(f): 7:09pm On Oct 06, 2015
RedBenson:


What does hell have in stock?
My friend stop quoting me, go look for something to do.
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by SUGARBEE(f): 7:09pm On Oct 06, 2015
ehjiwummy:

6-Dont be rude
7-Dont nag
8-Always take correction
9-Drop d attitude of 'Soldier go Soldier come barrack remain d same.

Lol.. True
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Mcowubaba: 7:13pm On Oct 06, 2015
freecocoa:
That was very uncultured of her, but why should she care if you are husband material or not? Like a lady is supposed be walking about being well behaved just because of potential husband.
Not really, but that is also a motivating factor for good behaviour cheesy
Madame, jokes apart HUSBAND scarce oo, nd more especailly good husband...
I know some girls(misguided feminist) are not interested in getting married..
Sometimes, Humans need motivating factor for good behaviour nd orderliness..
So, if a girl is INTERESTED in getting married, she should behave very well..
Anyway, marriage no be by force..
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Nobody: 7:16pm On Oct 06, 2015
Vinshu:


Trash. The man should cook too
I completely agree with this statement. I am very glad I can cook. Not that it is a big deal to cook as some men would want to make it looks like.

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Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by sweetgala(m): 7:17pm On Oct 06, 2015


5) [b] It's An Abomination To A Man To Say You Can't Cook:
Like WTF?? Don't tell me if we get to that bridge we'll cross it, hell no! Don't deceive yourself, like they say "Love fades but hunger doesn't". You know you can't cook? A part time catering school would do you great good. [/b]

Ladies whatever you do, ignore this fifth advice , It's an automatic disqualification
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Edipee(m): 7:22pm On Oct 06, 2015
Mznaett:

God bless youcheesy
I am nobody's slave to start cooking daily.
Mtcheeeeew
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by solonazzy: 7:24pm On Oct 06, 2015
ellabooz:


I can be very friendly as to send you my pix,facebook ID or even my digits but that certainly wouldn't go for because you are a cheap con, busrted. grin
Lwkmd.... U r seriously getting it wrong.... I'm just baffled..... U shuld kno I Wana remain a ghost here frm ma profile...
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by freecocoa(f): 7:26pm On Oct 06, 2015
Mcowubaba:

Not really, but that is also a motivating factor for good behaviour cheesy
Madame, jokes apart HUSBAND scarce oo, nd more especailly good husband...
I know some girls(misguided feminist) are not interested in getting married..
Sometimes, Humans need motivating factor for good behaviour nd orderliness..
So, if a girl is INTERESTED in getting married, she should behave very well..
Anyway, marriage no be by force..
Please I don't have strength to laugh this evening.

Husband scarce and wives full everywhere.

We have heard, just stop making bogus assumptions.
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Mznaett: 7:29pm On Oct 06, 2015
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Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by free2ryhme: 7:35pm On Oct 06, 2015
Vinshu:


I don't understand

You won't understand
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Mcowubaba: 7:40pm On Oct 06, 2015
freecocoa:
Please I don't have strength to laugh this evening.

Husband scarce and wives full everywhere.

We have heard, just stop making bogus assumptions.

M not saying this to make us (males) fill pompous or have a sense of importance undecided..
Madame in all honesty, I am clearly stating facts!!
It is not bogus assumption,
Ladies always have guys running after them nd stalking them..but I mean, A man that is "a potential good husband" is extremely scarce!! Quote me anywhere!!!
U can choose to live in denial..na ur own wahala wink
U may have 10 potential suitors, but millions of girls have not had a single serious suitor in years..
On a personal note, I know a lot of girls(relatives too) who are in dire/serious need of husband..but None....
Men will always be coming, to chop the kpetus nd clean mouth.. But not to start a live with the lady Na voice mail be that sad!!

Once again, as I said earlier, Marriage is not necessary/mandatory we have millions of happy suce$$ful single women in the world...
Husband scarce, Bible done even talk am cool
No fear sha...Oluwa dey ur side, that's if u never even marry!!

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Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Mavor: 7:41pm On Oct 06, 2015
lagmostkuit:
We yaff hear!



Whether ready to marry or not, no sensible lady does this!
Is the average Nigerian woman these days sensible?

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Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by AlPeter: 7:45pm On Oct 06, 2015
ellabooz:
I do them alot,so all these (nairaland) guys bogging me with marriage requests should let me be.

"I do them alot" simple means I am not ready to stop any of the above.

shuooo see dis one ooooooo.... Doing free adverts ok we ya seen u....NEXT

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Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Nobody: 7:46pm On Oct 06, 2015
freecocoa:
My friend stop quoting me, go look for something to do.

So quoting you is not work?
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by jamex93(m): 7:46pm On Oct 06, 2015
SleekyPosh:



Lwkmd......habatically grin grin. Dis girlz of nowadayz no get joy anymore...omo na to put hidden camera and alarm near my TV mehn..

grin



serious issue o
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by jamex93(m): 7:48pm On Oct 06, 2015
c4tnoelz:
na galz wey no gt home training dey display dat kind character


well said


but some gals of dis days sha

I don dey fear gals self
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Vinshu(f): 7:48pm On Oct 06, 2015
free2ryhme:


You won't understand

OK sir.
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by ogaprime(m): 7:49pm On Oct 06, 2015
SUGARBEE:
WTF?? Like seriously? Lol


So what happened between you and your friend's fiancee?? What's de latest about de issue??
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Mzflexydeeva(f): 7:49pm On Oct 06, 2015
buygala:
6- Stop having silly monikers undecided


Who in God's name will take a girl seriously who calls herself 'Sugarbee, Punkyveer, Mzflexydeeva, EroticAngelina?


Monikers like 'DaughterofZion, ilovekids, Evangelistblessing, Adamsrib, iloveJesus are more appropriate for available spinsters cool
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by pet4ril(f): 7:50pm On Oct 06, 2015
vizkiz:
no be today una don dey post all these mumu list(s) angry

Watin dey pain me pass be say them no go listen/learn...they will furck and furck and furck then later go and join choir in redeem or MFM or CAC churches when they are ready to settle down! angry

One mumu brother will now be seeing mumu revelation and be saying sister Esther, I am just coming from the mountain after the lord spoke to me during my 7days fasting and prayer undecided

I bet after hearing about her past live styles he will runaway completly after shouting


[size=30pt]sku skis sku!!! grin[/size]
and I thought they used Lizzy, not Esther Abi your gf name na Esther? tongue tongue
Re: Ladies, 5 Habits You Must Stop If You're Ready To Settle Down For Marriage by Mzflexydeeva(f): 7:52pm On Oct 06, 2015
buygala:
6- Stop having silly monikers undecided


Who in God's name will take a girl seriously who calls herself 'Sugarbee, Punkyveer, Mzflexydeeva, EroticAngelina?


Monikers like 'DaughterofZion, ilovekids, Evangelistblessing, Adamsrib, iloveJesus are more appropriate for available spinsters cool
hmmmmmmm! Are you serious I may even get married b4 u sef grin

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