This is no time to be ashamed of anything because it involves my husband, marriage and home as a whole. I have been married for the past 10years and i had the qualities any man would die to have in a woman. Beautiful, nice bum and boobs, coca cola shaped body, chocolate skin, fit and tall. Ten years after, after having 3kids i started losing all the qualities i had ten years ago.

Its even worse whenever my hubby reminds me on how am rapidly going out of shape. I recently found a pack of condoms in his pocket and we hardly use condoms.

Please Help!!!!!! i don't want to lose my husband to another lady.

ADVISE PLS........ Bashing< Insult meaningful and meaningless advises are also welcome

Ok just go apply for a gym session.... And please continue to wear somthn sexy for him

Hit the gym asap....at least start from there.

hmm d two poster above me have said it all and pls control ur eating habit.

Sorry

Its even worse whenever my hubby reminds me on how am rapidly going out of shape


tHAT SUMMARISES IT all...\
just get to the gym, do some work out then win your man back...
#shikena

Hmmm
Work it out

I guess u should follow the above posters advice......HIT THE GYM,eat less carbs and more fruits.

for him to openly tell you you are going out of shape should tell you he is really worried about your looks, yet you did nothing about it. My dear you need to hit the gym and get it shape, not just to please your husband but to help yourself. you will not only get in shape, you will look younger, sexier and with an improved self confidence. plus sex is great when one exercises and fit. you also get to live longer! don't get it twisted though, your getting out of shape is no reason for him to cheat on you, afteral you turned out that way cos you blessed him with wonderful kids. if not for anything he should appreciate your sacrificing your beauty to make him a dad. remain blessed.

Beg him. Ask him if he would have preferred you never had children (likely cause). Ask if you have failed as a wife and mother. Lastly, ask him to recommend what you can do to get fit and ask of he is ready to foot the bill.

Start using a waist trainer. It works like magic around ur waist and tommy within one week. trust me, u will testify

onlinebethel:
Start using a waist trainer. It works like magic around ur waist and tommy within one week. trust me, u will testify

Please where can i get it??

since wen have u been on naira land jus curious

tellon11:


Please where can i get it??

Mind u, some ladies are afraid of hitting d gym

Check my profile pix or......

Cutehector:
Ok just go apply for a gym session.... And please continue to wear somthn sexy for him

Thanks

ammyluv2002:
Hit the gym asap....at least start from there.

Thanks

umehmj:
for him to openly tell you you are going out of shape should tell you he is really worried about your looks, yet you did nothing about it. My dear you need to hit the gym and get it shape, not just to please your husband but to help yourself. you will not only get in shape, you will look younger, sexier and with an improved self confidence. plus sex is great when one exercises and fit. you also get to live longer! don't get it twisted though, your getting out of shape is no reason for him to cheat on you, afteral you turned out that way cos you blessed him with wonderful kids. if not for anything he should appreciate your sacrificing your beauty to make him a dad. remain blessed.

Thanks

Work on your self to get your sharp back to order.

Before discussing your finding with him.

Harbosede02:
I guess u should follow the above posters advice......HIT THE GYM,eat less carbs and more fruits.

Thanks

for him to complain and you keep quiet is because you thought that you have it all.

well all you need is to become the person that got his attention before marriage

u had
u see, thats the problem with nigerian men & women
i keep telling anybody that care to listen that the very quality u had that attracted him/her to u must be mentened

hit gym, that u are now married doesnt mean u shouldn't look sexy

most of my married friends are now out of shape

the guys are now pregnant with flat asses

the girls now have numerous bellies


demn!

as for me , i will never stop playing football & eating irons till stop health says i should stop

What a silly thread!

Does he still look like the young, strapping young man you married 10 years ago? If not then he needs to find a quiet corner & sit down. Clearly age has not matured him one bit. I'm not saying after having kids one should let themselves go & start looking frumpy, but it seems he's not appreciating the fact that you look the way you do now because you gave birth to his children. That's what happens when a girl is all tits & ass, when that's all gone, you have nothing else to hold a relationship together. And when you present yourself that way, you end up with the shallow douchebags who only see you as an object, trophy or whatever.

Get fatter just to piss him off

PunkyVeer:
What a silly thread!

Does he still look like the young, strapping young man you married 10 years ago? If not then he needs to find a quiet corner & sit down. Clearly age has not matured him one bit. I'm not saying after having kids one should let themselves go & start looking frumpy, but it seems he's not appreciating the fact that you look the way you do now because you gave birth to his children. That's what happens when a girl is all tits & ass, when that's all gone, you have nothing else to hold a relationship together. And when you present yourself that way, you end up with the shallow douchebags who only see you as an object, trophy or whatever.

Get fatter just to piss him off

nice DP..... U sure bite with ur choice of words

You said you had everything a man would want in a woman and ended up listing boobs nd bum... so that's all you had to offer in d marriage? i'm not justifying your husbands action but amazed at your line of thought. Sort things with ur man you know him better

tellon11:
This is no time to be ashamed of anything because it involves my husband, marriage and home as a whole. I have been married for the past 10years and i had the qualities any man would die to have in a woman. Beautiful, nice bum and boobs, coca cola shaped body, chocolate skin, fit and tall. Ten years after, after having 3kids i started losing all the qualities i had ten years ago.

Please Help!!!!!! i don't want to lose my husband to another lady.

ADVISE PLS........ Bashing< Insult meaningful and meaningless advises are also welcome

I like the fact that you identified your problems yourself.
There's a place called gym you know.

Forgive me but the nice bum n boobs part really cracked me up.lol

tellon11:
This is no time to be ashamed of anything because it involves my husband, marriage and home as a whole. I have been married for the past 10years and i had the qualities any man would die to have in a woman. Beautiful, nice bum and boobs, coca cola shaped body, chocolate skin, fit and tall. Ten years after, after having 3kids i started losing all the qualities i had ten years ago.

Its even worse whenever my hubby reminds me on how am rapidly going out of shape. I recently found a pack of condoms in his pocket and we hardly use condoms.

Please Help!!!!!! i don't want to lose my husband to another lady.

ADVISE PLS........ Bashing< Insult meaningful meaningless advises are also welcome

Is there no gymnasium in your state ?

Big hotels have Gyms. When you register. Tell the instructor what you want..

tellon11:
This is no time to be ashamed of anything because it involves my husband, marriage and home as a whole. I have been married for the past 10years and[b] i had the qualities any man would die to have in a woman. Beautiful, nice bum and boobs, coca cola shaped body, chocolate skin, fit and tall.[/b] Ten years after, after having 3kids i started losing all the qualities i had ten years ago.

Its even worse whenever my hubby reminds me on how am rapidly going out of shape. I recently found a pack of condoms in his pocket and we hardly use condoms.

Please Help!!!!!! i don't want to lose my husband to another lady.

ADVISE PLS........ Bashing< Insult meaningful and meaningless advises are also welcome

[size=13pt] The shape of your body is only useful for sex to a man, what can keep us continually loving you (not lust) is your personality, who u are, do you make him happy, are you a good comapny or its nag everytime...... if he doesnt want you fat, kindly register at a gym and stop eating eba [/size]

Your husband problem is not from you.
You complain of loosin ur shapes and all that.
The problem there is that your husband doesn't really love you he find does things ur body is feel with as a mean to which a man can get married to any woman.
He got it wrong and it is affecting him now since he has not been seen those qualities anymore.
All you can do is to keep your self clean with the rigth cloths that fits your bodie.

And if u have not been praying before u can start it right now.
That exactly were u can get ur help.
You got ur husband through shapes and nums now it all fading away don't ever try to please him by goin for surgery or whatever"

The only solution now is your God because your husband in other way round is really sick.

tellon11:


Thanks

hi i know a weight consultant who will help you over come this battle get me on 08131195769. lets help you achieve your desired shape.

tforever:
hi i know a weight consultant who will help you over come this battle get me on 08131195769. lets help you achieve your desired shape.

Thanks someone already introduced me to a waist trainer, av started using it and i can see changes even b4 a day of using