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His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 7:20pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
On my way home but this topic came up. This family have got 2 kids and the kids lack parental care because the man and wife come in late. The issue of Nanny is out of the option because they don't trust nannies and someone must resign to take care of the kids.. The problem here is that the wife earns four times(400%) the man's salary and the ladies salary goes a long way to sort the family expenses. Please who do you advise to resign. Should the man become a house husband ![]() 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Adesiji77: 7:28pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
*Thinking* It is a tough one really. Children needs to be adequately cared for emotionally, etc at the same time the family needs the money.... Ultimately, it is the man's call to provide for his family materially, physically and emotionally. A tough decision has to be made... ![]() 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Cutehector(m): 7:33pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Day care nko? Dem no get relative? Mtchew! D child needs a motherly figure! 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by ojeota(f): 7:34pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
The man should resign Or better still the both of them should retain their jobs and find a way to share the responsibility of taking care of the children. 104 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 7:39pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Neitzsche 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by lilmax(m): 7:43pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
if the man's salary can comfortably take care of the family without stress then the wife should resign If not, the husband should resign 8 Likes |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by osesology(m): 7:46pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
This is really difficult. Money is important, parental care is also important. Since they don't want the services of a nanny, they should bring in a niece or a younger sister to help them out. Or are they also scared of that option? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by justcallbuki(f): 7:50pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
inspiration fm is on the issue now and have also watch a yoruba film like dt..... All in all the wife shd b the 1 to resign,cos the role of a man in the huz can't never be over emphasize,a woman without a job is still better than a man without job.......if the woman is the breadwinner she will unknowinling rub it on the husband face. 62 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by yomi007k(m): 8:01pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
If na me be the man, I go resign. But I go strike deal with my wife. E get why. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by lilmax(m): 8:05pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
yomi007k:what is it about? |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by yomi007k(m): 8:16pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by janejive(f): 8:21pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
The woman should save up and open a good business, den resign, her time will be at her beck and call, the man shld continue working. 47 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by lilmax(m): 8:28pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
yomi007k:the deal 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by florakims(f): 8:43pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
osesology: Bringing in family member to live with them may give rise to some issues. @op, ever heard of househusband? |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 10:37pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Cutehector: Are u saying day care operates till 11pm.. ojeota: Do u know it's a sin for a man not to provide for his family? The Bible says such man is more than an Infidel. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 10:39pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
yomi007k: Abeg Y? |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by aspirebig: 10:40pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
This same old topic again? Recycling things The man gas resign naa , no time to become Nanny . Do you want to compare, salary of 10k to 40k, 50k to 200k, 250k to 1m? No way. Peace must reign sha ooo 18 Likes |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 10:41pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Neitzsche: Baba what's the austerity measure? Hope Germany won't come in for bail out too.. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 10:48am On Oct 09, 2015 |
Non should resign just yet...give it a couple o' months, save up and open a business. this is why entrepreneurship is the best(after saving up capital for a while of course) it gives you the opportunity to manage your time yourself, leave work, go for school run, cook and go back to work...sometimes, the kids could come around your office and be with you whilst you make your money...let them start saving and open a business...after a while non would want a "jacki" job anymore have tasted both waters 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by yomi007k(m): 11:48am On Oct 09, 2015 |
menix:Which part of the bible , oga ![]() 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by tpiander: 12:17pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
You get paid to ask such a question but I don't get paid to answer it. 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by damton(m): 9:13pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
this one na war o. Wait let me ask the oracle. |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 9:14pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
I will want to know if his village pple are pursuing him That's the only way he will contemplate who should resign. This is not an issue of ego. They can both open a business for daddy to manage so he is not idle while mummy goes to the bakery to make bread. All that matters is that the woman doesn't lose "submission and respect" because she's the baker. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by MizFrances(f): 9:14pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Tough one ![]() |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by ammyluv2002(f): 9:14pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Cutehector:Thank you jare |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by sweatlana: 9:14pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Only God knows how he created the black man. This is not supposed to even be an issue. Why is where so much poverty embedded in the mind of a black man ![]() 25 Likes |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 9:14pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Sharing life issues.... |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by habiham: 9:15pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
I will ... So that she can face her career ... Then I move on 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 9:15pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Mtcheeeeeew, was even thinking it's gonna be a story of a newly wedded couple working in the same organisation that have a policy of not allowing both the hubby ane the wife work with them. And why must someone resign, there are other options they could deliberate on. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by IsiCaterpillar(f): 9:15pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
He should do the needful.. resign howbeit dishonorable. It will hurt his ego but will benefit his family. But he should be the finance minister or the federal government that determines how the money generated by Niger Delta that is his wife is spent. Anything less than that is gnashing of teeth and wailing. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 9:15pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
what a very very stu.pid question!!! 9 Likes |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by raayah(f): 9:16pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Definitely. The man should resign. |
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