all4naija:

Not every emotional persons is quick to conclude as you(which I think is not right on this issue). There is nothing wrong for her accessing all avenues by asking questions and helps to better understand the situation. You aren't providing solution at all.

PunkyVeer:


What solution can I provide to this nonsense? And NO, he doesn't need corrective surgery just to appease her. Who is she? Maybe he is fine with how he looks & if Ms Thang over there doesn't like it then she can agitate the gravel. It's that simple. You accept people as they are or do them a huge favour & leave them alone. Problem solved.

starlingslimnet:
Maybe,but if there is none you can visit a church. You know what I mean

donTbone:

Someone z getting angry over noting here!

PunkyVeer:


In reality, I'm leaning all the way back without a single vein bulging on my head. Chillin. Brrrr

PunkyVeer:


What solution can I provide to this nonsense? And NO, he doesn't need corrective surgery just to appease her. Who is she? Maybe he is fine with how he looks & if Ms Thang over there doesn't like it then she can agitate the gravel. It's that simple. You accept people as they are or do them a huge favour & leave them alone. Problem solved.

pinkiberry:
babe arnt u being too harsh.

PunkyVeer:


What solution can I provide to this nonsense? And NO, he doesn't need corrective surgery just to appease her. Who is she? Maybe he is fine with how he looks & if Ms Thang over there doesn't like it then she can agitate the gravel. It's that simple. You accept people as they are or do them a huge favour & leave them alone. Problem solved.

PunkyVeer:


On what?

pinkiberry:
babe arnt u being too harsh.

all4naija:

This is a person I suspect can't even date out of her tribe complaining about something of this nature.

pinkiberry:
who? me?

all4naija:

He does. You are only being petulant! We all need correction one way or the other. A sick person needs medication so much as a person with a defect.

If you don't know how to take good care of your problem of something that you know is disturbing to somebody else who is going to spend a very long time with you that is a real problem. Take it from me, the guy needs surgical correction(not only for the girl and himself but for the society as a whole - it is human nature) just like the way you brush your teeth in the morning for it not to smell foul when you speak to handsome men like me.

This is a condition that can be fixed in the first place not like it is something without a solution.

pinkiberry:
me. I believe in sharing my problems.I created this post cos it's a problem. I didn't just create it for creating sake

PunkyVeer:


Well, it wont be a "problem" any more if you leave him. How about that?

PunkyVeer:

Well, it wont be a "problem" any more if you leave him. How about that?

all4naija:

This is a person I suspect can't even date out of her tribe complaining about something of this nature.

donTbone:




The only time a woman is helpless is when her nail polish is drying. Other than that, watch out

PunkyVeer:


All4Naija, we've been through this whole acceptance thing on the other thread & you know my stance on it. It hasn't changed since then. Take someone as they are or leave them alone. Ain't nobody is gonna shed a tear you left. AND, brushing your teeth & fixing something you were born with are two different things. One has to do with hygiene, to mantain what you were born with. Yellow teeth aren't cute or even a natural colour for teeth. Defects however, all depend on the person who has them. If they're all good & dandy with them, then who are you to come in their lives & tell them they should change something they had all their lives just to make you happy? You don't like it? Then there's the door!

pinkiberry:
yes. he is very serious about marriage. that is why am worried. the guy is nice n caring. has all the nice qualities a guy could have but the eyes....

oh Lord how I wish he doesn't have those crossed eyes. tho is not too bad. but its still there. u can still notice it.

PunkyVeer:


I'm not a tribalist because I'm NOT from Nigeria. Yup, get it right! I can date almost anyone if I get along with them regardless of where they're from. That's how generous & loving I am

all4naija:

You are trying to be smart but you are not, hun. There is nothing that so much differentiates it from brushing your mouth because it is a defect. It is not natural as you are trying to make it looks. The more you can relate with that nuance the better for you to understand the situation. What do you think medicine exist for in the first place? There are lot of people born with defects and have been corrected by medicine. So stop talking about this holy acceptance when there is solution to the problem.

She is going to be involved with the guy and they will be together. That means she is going to have a say in the affairs. People can make a good companion out of correction. Excepting you blinding yourself to reality.

PunkyVeer:


Ok, now don't you dare patronize me! Now I must be dumb because my opinion differs from yours? Laughable. Get your head out of your ass, please.

Now back to the topic. Yes, all the help is there, FOR THE ONES THAT SEEK/NEED HELP. It's not by force. Not everyone lives for the approval of others. I know I couldn't care less what people think of me. THAT'S the thing you don't seem to be getting. It's a choice to correct a defect, it's not mandatory. Thank you.

all4naija:

Perhaps, you can explain that to your South African xenophobic people who would tagged their women married to Nigerians as inferior. Even SamulheB says she'll find it difficult to marry outside of her tribe to a Nigerian because she fears her family will not be accepting outsiders. What a bunch of laughable people from SA indeed!

What is ALMOST in your statement for? It means you still have people you cannot date and there is a reserve there which makes you as guilty as the person you blame here. Face reality for once, lady! Bwahaha...

PunkyVeer:


Ok, now don't you dare patronize me! Now I must be dumb because my opinion differs from yours? Laughable. Get your head out of your ass, please.

Now back to the topic. Yes, all the help is there, FOR THE ONES THAT SEEK/NEED HELP. It's not by force. Not everyone lives for the approval of others. I know I couldn't care less what people think of me. THAT'S the thing you don't seem to be getting. It's a choice to correct a defect, it's not mandatory. Thank you.

pinkiberry:
deliverance? haba

all4naija:

I am making jest of you for your inconsequential post not patronizing you in anyway. Differing opinion is not what makes you seem dumb but the idea of blatantly attacking the lady for asking question and think she knows what to do in the first place. You really have no excuse there, hun. I can ditch you as a b i t c h any time if you prove to be very stubborn and let you eat you humble pie in Townships. That is what I called Nigerian swag! Bwahaha...

On-topic: You might be surprised the guy would accept her suggestion and go for surgical correction of the defect. It is for the good of both people and the society. We are living in the world where people use immature thing to throw jabs at others, a punchline. Get it for once, miss fancy-pants believer!

PunkyVeer:


1st of all, I am not SemuhleB & I don't care about what SemuhleB & her family find acceptable or unacceptable. That's their own baby to carry, not mine.

I know what this chic (me) wants though & there's absolutely nobody, dead or alive, who will tell me who I should or shouldn't be with. My life. My rules.

Almost = murderers & other sick people

PunkyVeer:


Mcheeew.

all4naija:

Maybe by now she would have been enjoying a robust Nigerian relationship with much fun but she refuses because of family prejudices. She even uses other failed Nigerian marriages to defend her points sometimes.

However, if you know what you want you should also know that others are entitled to such view as well.

Oh, please, somebody who can kill or is sick has a problem that needs solution but you should accept him just the way he is instead of you telling him to change or reject him in your holier-than-I nature.

PunkyVeer:


Ugh. I know what I want, MEANING, I will not go into a situation I don't want & then expect it to change to fit my wants. That's there difference here. She dated him knowing his eyes are criss-cross but now expects them to be normal. Doesn't that sound retarded to you?

agarawu23:
as if you are better

Shebi he is tall, rich, handsome which his the main issues of you ladies in a guy? Did you fall In love with him or his appearance? So are you telling us you don't have your own disadvantage?

I know God Himself can't satisfy you ladies even if He comes down to marry one of you.

PunkyVeer:


What solution can I provide to this nonsense? And NO, he doesn't need corrective surgery just to appease her. Who is she? Maybe he is fine with how he looks & if Ms Thang over there doesn't like it then she can agitate the gravel. It's that simple. You accept people as they are or do them a huge favour & leave them alone. Problem solved.