Team#no sex bfo marriage mbok.

Oyind17:
Go make she sing with your microphone

that's never gonna happen

Listen up...

Left for me after testing, but must drive to make it complete......

Its an error to think a guy will leave a lady because he had sex with her.

Its either there was no relationship in the first place.....the guy can play the sharp sharp stunt......but if truly there's a relationship then sex can never be the breaking factor..........Most guys who quit relationship also end up marrying a woman they had sex with during courtship. In Nigeria when a guy quit a relationship.... ladies are always quick to use sex as yardstick for the guy quitting the relationship.

I have seen guys end relationship for reasons like( pls I can't date a virgin).

delectablegyal:


r u a virgin?

That is non of your business. And if you are asking to see if I had sex before marriage you are making a mistake as I'm married already.

starlingslimnet:
that's never gonna happen

I know na

kenonze:



Then what are u discussing?
In fact ,how can both of you discuss what u dont know?

If your lecturer is discussing about sex between humans in your school would you have sex with him/her ??

Vinshu:


Of what benefit or value does that add to the marriage? It's only perverted men who desire this sex before marriage thing.

storey for the gods.if yu put 1000 women in a hall, I bet you any money less than 50 would be the number of those who never had sex b4 marriage

Some Nigerian guys though

They would be so thrilled seeing this thread, since they are so into test driving

Feel for the lady though but i feel lot of tests are usually carried out prior any wedding.

Vinshu:


If your lecturer is discussing about sex between humans in your school would you have sex with him/her ??

U said Lecture, the lecture ie teach, the frame of mind would be different, you are not looking at your lecturer in that way.The pupils of men and women get dilated during sex and romantic talks.hence there is such word as *Mood*

Missmossy:
Some Nigerian guys though

They would be so thrilled seeing this thread, since they are so into test driving

Feel for the lady though but i feel lot of tests are usually carried out prior any wedding.

ahah but come to think of it, you ladies have your own test, you have ur o wn mechanism for testing the guys pocket,ATM and Bank balance

Pls help me click on this. http://PayRefe.com/?ref=131811 I dey beg help ooo I beg

Vinshu:


Sex is fun indeed. But for the lady involved, it sparks a lot of risks. What if the guy changes his mind? Like he is no longer interested? It is no connection. Once two are married the connection is already there then the fun comes in as both are bound. Not fucking like bf and gf which the bf can swith at any point to the next gf and leave the initial gf in the cold.

It's easier and fun for men but not recommended for ladies. Most ladies who indulge in it are pressurised by the men and some end up being dumped.

i disagree with you that a man might change his mind if he has sex with his intending wife. if that is so then that man is not for the woman. secondly what if he married and wedded his wife and had sex with her, later divorce the woman. for the two which one is lesser evil. so it is better he dump the lady before the wedding than after they had being wedded.

this is contemporary issue and we should behave in line with changes, no more primitive and punitive customs.

the op was right because a lot of people who have sexual problem hide under the cloak of no-sex-before-marriage to rubbish the future of their

counterparts. if every one is sincere to oneself this issue cannot be a problem.

thanks op for sincere advice

You're right... Don't argue with anybody... You are right.

Vinshu:


Of what benefit or value does that add to the marriage? It's only perverted men who desire this sex before marriage thing.

I will not advice u 2 do so

most ladies get it wrong.
havin Sex wit a guy won't make his feelings towards u change. any guy dat loves u wil nt dump u after sex. der is more to any breakup dan sex.

LaDivva:

Lol
Naughty you, you're enjoying yourself here and forming busy for me on BBM abi?

they have snatch u away. From me

;Dhehhheeee.....test driving would always lead to sex...body no be firewood...but one has to be truthful about his joystick operating or not rather than make your patners life miserable

Vinshu:
It's OK to discuss sex before marriage. It's a good thing. But actually having sex before marriage is not needed. That is just lust.

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braine:
Abi na... na so. I totally disagree with the idea of no sex before marriage. I can imagine my future wife not liking sex. . That one na die o.

I agree with you, before marriage you need to sleep together as a couple, its very important especially for those who marry late ( in their 30s).

Vinshu:


That is non of your business. And if you are asking to see if I had sex before marriage you are making a mistake as I'm married already.

B4 marriage, did u have sex?

Una go dey preach wetin una no fit practice.

What after test driving and you got married and along the line the engine got knocked, what would you do? I guess you'll keep on test driving. No excuse for test driving.

Cutehector:
As d "good guy" people think I am, (may Dey not ne deceived) I was discussin sex wit a gurl, she is a frnd of mine sha, so she was like, so hector u knw all this things, I tot u wr a good guy, I come tell am, wait ooo, shey God no knw why him giv man dick and woman kitty?



Even pastors who u think are righteous do bad things in d bedroom.. Den na me, hector go dey form holier dan thou...

The doctrine of sex before marriage is one of the biggest lies in xtiandom, churches live in denial that more than 90 percent of the couples who come to their alters to wed have slept with each other before marriage, some brides are already pregnant at the altar.
Its all lies and hypocrisy and the youths know this fact hence we still have cases of fornication sorry test drive

LaDivva:

Lol
Naughty you, you're enjoying yourself here and forming busy for me on BBM abi?

hi can we be fwends

michaelou:
better. the last I checked infertility in women and impotency in men no dey show for face. And besides, impotency can be detected by laboratory tests but infertility can't be until the deed is done. And if it can be detected please enlighten me.

if one is impotent,he is automatically infertile;infertility can be checked in the lab, and therre are 3 important factors to consider,these are motility,sperm count and morphology...based on WHO standard,a guy needs @ least 20mil sperm count otherwise he is considered as having "low sperm count", as for motility which means the ability of the sperm to swin,a man has to have @ least 40% motility rate,then for morhology which means the shape of sperm being proper on discharge,u nid @ least 29%...then also a man nids to discharge @ least 1.5ml of semen to 5.0ml....however,if u av a high motility rate and morphology rate,then it can balance for people who have less than 20mil per ml...hope ds enlightens a lil"

Let me borrow OP's analogy, nobody should embark on a long journey with a defective car.

Marriage is a long journey, and long journeys can be boring, couple that with a defective engine, is a recipe for temper rising.

Ps:
As for me, I make sure I pass all driving tests cum test drive.

...Keeping my engine in F1/rally performance condition.

Size matters too .






My opinion.

Me must test every car wey I see o until I find the one wey I like.

I must test before marriage. Bt I will nt mk it d focal piont during d relationship. Bt after marriage na everyday banging naaaa

erico2k2:

ahah but come to think of it, you ladies have your own test, you have ur o wn mechanism for testing the guys pocket,ATM and Bank balance

Lol

Not all ladies biko.

Vinshu:
It's OK to discuss sex before marriage. It's a good thing. But actually having sex before marriage is not needed. That is just lust.

shoro niyen??