Davindal:
but bro. I'm the only son enh. People are saying I should marry as early as possible. I schooled in far away land due to fear of insecurity. Now in the land, I don't move around anyhow; because, I don't know the people targeting me. So that is why I'm considering marriage bfore 26. Moreover, the girl in question is my first love. You know is not easy leaving her, but I will take the bull by the hornes, and call it a quite.

Lontra:
All hail the wisest comment on nairaland

chomytex:
I feel ur pain bro..the truth be told,if u eventually marry that girl u will live to regret it..read the handwritting on the wall.a broken relationship is beta than a broken marriage..u are just 23,too young for all these..

Aipete2:
how old are you gan?

chomytex:
Does it matter?

Aipete2:
Are you over 30? Your response though

Davindal:
[/quote][quote author=Oliviaarims post=38829187] So many pieces of advise already, but I must chip in mine coz I was pained while reading ur story. And really,why are u seeking 4 advise anyway? U should already know what to do..send her on her way,biko..imagine the nonsense! What's she offering u anyway that gives her d temerity to mk threats? Mtchewww. This OP,u've really got time 4 rubbish. She's just got to bounce!Tnx a lot; I have made up my mind. Am gonna ditch her at once. I knw it ain't gonna be easy, but is the path worth treading.









#Philosopher Quëën#

Oliviaarims:
So many pieces of advise already, but I must chip in mine coz I was pained while reading ur story. And really,why are u seeking 4 advise anyway? U should already know what to do..send her on her way,biko..imagine the nonsense! What's she offering u anyway that gives her d temerity to mk threats? Mtchewww. This OP,u've really got time 4 rubbish. She's just got to bounce!Tnx a lot;









#Philosopher Quëën#

Davindal:
I have made up my mind to ditch her at once. Although, it not gonna be easy for me emotionally, but I gatto let go.

collinsVP:
To be candid, OP is not yet ripe for marriage. Her attitude alone is a write off. You should not contemplate ditching her immediately.

Is she a destitute or less privileged that made you place her on salary for the past seven months? And probably intend to continue. Not that she does anything sensible with it, but lavish it on campus.

Honestly love is blind especially in your case. As for me, I can see through my mind's eye, if love blinded the ones on my face.

Am sorry to say this, another ungrateful parasite thy shall not add to already existing one.

Davindal:
She is to some extent less privilleged, but not a destitute. I met her through a friend.

Davindal:
She is to some extent less privilleged, but not a destitute. I met her through a friend.

Davindal:
My father died in 20th March 2008 at 45, although he could had clocked 46 that year(2008); but he died before his 46th birthday which was suppose to be september that year. But nevertheless, this is a serious matter on my side. I'm in confusion. I expect constructive advice, not this shit you are spewing.

collinsVP:


I know for a fact that being less privileged is a relative thing. You are far better of than she is.

Bro the only reason she is still sticking around you is for the money you give her. And she threatens to leave, should you stop given her the money. No man does that in this contemporary time.

You have to break up to make up and gain maturity quick.

What keeps marriage in the long run is not love but keeping to your commitments. Love fades quicker than we realize.

collinsVP:


I know for a fact that being less privileged is a relative thing. You are far better of than she is.

Bro the only reason she is still sticking around you is for the money you give her. And she threatens to leave, should you stop given her the money. No man does that in this contemporary time.

You have to break up to make up and gain maturity quick.

What keeps marriage in the long run is not love but keeping to your commitments. Love fades quicker than we realize.

andromida:
I hope you have the courage to drop her. Tell her why and move on don't be afraid of emotional pain you will come out better on the other side simply because you do what is good for you.

Don't let fear of emotional pain make you stay with this girl and do not be in a hurry to marry rather be patient to find a woman who is good for you and good to you.

Forgive your mom for sins you perceive her to have done to your dad so you will not attract another woman like her I know you will say you are not angry at her but reading between the lines you sound deeply wounded by the thoughts you have about your mom's action.

The forgiving is for your own good and freedom.

juitar:
Boy don't b a prodigal son,so dt ur dad sef no go dey curse u 4where he dey now , even if u av billion dollar investment on ground if not well managed it will finish in no time. Get a beta girl,if u nid a beta home dan ur dad's. Discard d girl now b4 I open my eyes,dere are thousands of gud/responsible girls out dere praying n fasting 2 get som1 like u.
So henceforth cease 2b an ATM cos I'm not sure u'r 1

naijathings:


so u read my comment and all u could see was that I was writing shiet huh ? this is indeed a very serious case because if u did not see that I said she is a a demanding school girl whose father probably doesn't have a wooden stool in his house and she is telling you to double up your investments or she will go to the highest bidder and you are here saying that you want to marry her. if u r a man who wants a happy home and a good wife and u saw these things in my comment and yet u do not know what to do, then there is no need giving you any advice cos it would be like pouring water into a basket.

sorry for the loss of your dad, maybe God should have let him live longer so he could teach you a thing or two about women of such materialistic gluttony.

Davindal:
Thank you sir. I hv ditched her at once. I made this knwn to her on phone yesterday's night, although she is resisting.

alkonami:


Resisting ke?... Na by force?

Davindal:
yeah! Tnx. I have called her, and have made it clear to her that it's over btw us.

Davindal:
Bro. I'm sorry for the way I reacted to your comment. Just that I was crest-fallen that time.